yesturday an agent came 2 our house, i asked my mom wat she waz doing and she said we r going to sell it. i asked where we would move and she said somewhere out of state.my parents divorces when i was 4 ans my moms side is fortunate and has alot of money. she married my stepdad.They put me in private school) i dont want to go away from my dad and family because i will miss him(who will only pay 4 public school and colage in state not out of state) my mom said she moving bc she is tired of my father and my step siblings. (step-dads children) and their mother. my step sister is 14 and i am 12 and we are so close i cant leave her at all. i just dont know what to do. i dont want to leave my friends at all. my whole life revolves around where i live. my father probally wont give me proper care (late 4 school) and i am just so scared. any advice? should i stay with dad or move with mom?
2007-11-27 10:01:09 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I'm sorry to hear about your situation. I think that it would be best to talk to your Mom about how you are feeling. I can't really understand her reasons for wanting to take you out of state. Is your step-dad moving with you all? I can't imagine why he would want to move away from his kids. It's hard to try and give you advice when I don't really understand the whole situation. Maybe if you try talking to your Mom, or even writing her a letter about the way you are feeling, she will be able to compromise with you. Good luck.
2007-11-27 10:27:25 · answer #1 · answered by me_ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is really sad. If I were your mom, I would insist on staying near enough to your dad so that you could still see him on a regular basis, assuming that he wants to see you too.
You should talk with your mother about it, maybe get her to see a counselor or minister too, to try to get her to see your point of view. Because you can't control the situation.
Is your mom really willing to leave you behind with your father? Tell her that's what you want. See if that influences her. She should understand that you want to be with both your parents.
Why wouldn't your dad take proper care of you? You said he has other children; doesn't he take care of them?
Maybe you should consider staying with your dad, since you have lived most of your life with your mom.
2007-11-27 18:41:26 · answer #2 · answered by The First Dragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋