i like him so much and he tells me that he likes me all the time.He has had a hard time his mom left him and a lot of girls have done that to him and i told him that i am not going to do that i care about him and like i said he tells me that all the time too so what do i do he said that he is thinking about it but he said that he wants us to be together so what do i do.
2007-11-27 09:45:49 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just be there for him when he needs you. When he's ready, he'll let you know.
2007-11-27 09:48:34 · answer #1 · answered by Kris B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to give him time. He has haad a lot of trauma in his life with other women leaving him (especially his mom). He's going to have some issues for a while. All you can do is continue to re-assure him that you are not going to leave, and be there for him when he needs you. Other than that, just give him time. He may need to talk to a professional counselor or therapist at some point to help get some feelings and emotions out in the open.
2007-11-27 09:51:26 · answer #2 · answered by dg2003 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be there for him when ever he needs you, it may not happen tonight, but over time it will. Be prepared not to leave him though because he has been hurt a little too much. Be sure it isn't the chase you are after and that you really like him. He is damaged right now and you don't want to add to it.
2007-11-27 09:48:51 · answer #3 · answered by Ali C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he has to think about it then you guys arent probably meant to be the slight hesitation probably indicates he cant take a relationship right now or get his heart into another person. lifes done him dirty and you dont want him to be too distant because of what hes experienced in the past. hes probably scared his feelings will get hurt in the end but like i keep on saying ..probably....
2007-11-27 09:52:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just keep telling him and stick to your word! Thats the best you can do! Maybe he needs to talk to a dr. to be able to move on from the past and live in the present! Good luck!!
2007-11-27 09:51:18 · answer #5 · answered by Sunny 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Run for the hills until he gets over his abandonment issues, that is one train ride to heck you don't want to get on! Yes it's cold but you are just asking for trouble until he is set with himself, you WON'T be able to fix him, he needs to do that.
2007-11-27 09:49:02 · answer #6 · answered by ellusionary 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay close friends with him and take care of him until he's ready and lets out all his feelings, let him trust you, I had the same guy trouble. :]
2007-11-27 09:48:23 · answer #7 · answered by iubestemaxionela 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Patience and being persistent can be rewarding.Wining is confidence is what you have to do his self image is low and he has a dislike for women . If you like him you could slowly built his confidence level up . Please do not destroy him . Or it could be fatal some times.
2007-11-27 09:52:13 · answer #8 · answered by talarknhansum 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nicely in case you dont like his pal than you are able to say no becuase there is somebody else..and then you should hunt suggestion from justen and note if he's nicely worth your time and likes you decrease back...gl
2016-10-25 03:31:55 · answer #9 · answered by mayne 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him out to a movie and make a move.
2007-11-27 09:50:11 · answer #10 · answered by Joey B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait for him to come around. You can't push those types of things. Patience is key.
2007-11-27 09:47:58 · answer #11 · answered by Em 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋