I just posted a question about this guy I've been keeping time with lately. I really like him alot & he likes me alot too. He's been nothing but respectful, considerate, helpful and a pleasure to be around, and I want to surprise him and send him one or two dozen roses to his house, because that's how I feel.
But you know how sometimes your "friends" tell you "don't let him see how much you like him" or "dont give so much at first" or "dont give too much PERIOD" or "let HIM do such & such" and blah blah blah?? I hate following "rules" of the game when you find someone you really like, I like to follow my own heart and express what I truly feel without holding back. It wouldnt hurt to send him roses, would it? I know he'll like them - I know too it'll bring a big smile to his face & it'll make him happy .......
2007-11-27 08:33:07 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I see nothing wrong with that. Sometimes being contrary is good - and very attractive!
2007-12-05 06:48:36 · answer #1 · answered by ArLorax 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it most likely would make him very happy but you also need to remember that the "rules of the game" are there to help you out. That rule about not showing too much is there to keep you from getting hurt. Don't show too much. Showing your interest in him is fine, no problem there. Just don't show him everything you feel for him...it might scare him off. Good luck.
2007-11-27 08:38:52 · answer #2 · answered by Enrique A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if this guy is good to you and you really like him there is no way why you shouldn't. Yeah its true maybe you should let him do so much before you are so kind, but its not going to hurt anybody. If you know he isn't the guy who is going to act cocky and consided because a girl is being so nice to him , then yeah go for it!
2007-11-27 08:37:17 · answer #3 · answered by Midnight61 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
am agree with first answer totally if u are now know u love each other y u waiting for :D just before roses and so on ((actullay i dont think men like roses :D)) we are like other things ummmm y u dont buy a match ticket and wear somthing sesy and make a laughting flage on ur face by marker :D i think if i were him i'd laught alot thats a good surprise
GO GO GO AND DONT WAIT :D
2007-11-27 08:40:11 · answer #4 · answered by ulter of anger 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nicely i does not comprehend what to think of quite....i'm not one in each of those female that welcomes that form of stuff because of the fact i've got been performed plenty in the previous. i could think of it turn right into a sprint plenty actual. i want a right this moment forward suggestions-set. i think of it may be plenty sweeter if somebody i've got been chatting with and have been making "eyes" to easily after a collectively as got here as much as me straight away and proclaimed their like to me actual then and there...despite if this is the midsection of the line pouring down rain....;)
2016-12-10 07:12:37 · answer #5 · answered by tenuta 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that's a very sweet way to say you like him, you're thinking about him, and you wanted to make him smile. It's a good idea.
Men like to get flowers too.
2007-11-27 08:37:30 · answer #6 · answered by ZarahzMA 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't know about friends and what they say....
Guys don't normally like flowers, they think it's a waste of money...
Not to say, that the same guy wouldn't give you flowers-- that's different....
2007-11-27 08:39:13 · answer #7 · answered by Sophie B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i say go for it. the role switching lets him know that you aren't afraid to think out of the box for him
2007-11-27 08:37:04 · answer #8 · answered by Streetlight 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a girlfriend do that for me once--it was great. I wish it had happened more.
2007-11-27 08:37:14 · answer #9 · answered by Scott M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋