STOP CUTTING YOUR SELF....Maybe she is sick of the self pitty if your so depressed then get you some help i once use to be a cutter got the help i needed. You can get it too. Hell one day you may take it to far and end up killing yourself you think she wants to find you that way hell no....Get Help for you now please..... It's like this you want commuinicate with her whats there to talk about you cutting your self thats BS... please get some help and then maybe your girlfriend can come around more to talk with you did you ever think of that?
2007-11-27 08:30:58
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answered by Toni A 4
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I had a girlfriend that did the same thing a couple of years ago. I honestly wasn't sure how to deal with it. She did this sort of thing on a somewhat regular basis, and said that it helped relieve the pain. I tried to help her stop in any way I could think of....and she did stop it for quite a while but then we got in an argument one day and she did it again.
I basicly told her, that if I made her so angry/sad that she would cut herself, I would leave her. I didn't, but I threatened to in hopes that she would stop it.......and it worked.
The "significant other" doesn't want to feel like they would cause you to do something like that. It pretty much tore me apart when my girlfriend would do this.....especially if it was because of me.....cause we got in some stupid argument or something, and nobody want's to deal with that or feel like that. Also, don't use your depression and cutting yourself as a bargaining tool to bring someone closer to you.....it's a pretty horrible thing to do to someone.
Maybe you need some sort of agressive outlet.....like a punching bag, or karate classes, etc.... or a new hobby.
I can assure you, that she will leave you if you continue down this road, so figure out an alternative to whatever makes you do it. This is why I ended up leaving my girlfriend......cause she couldn't get a grip on herself, and it was always bringing me down too.
Good luck to you.
2007-11-27 16:43:15
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answered by Anonymous
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You can only help someone so many times before you finally just give up on the person because no matter what you do for them it never seems to help. I know I have been there and It sounds like this is where she might be right now in your relationship. My advice would to seek the help for yourself and actually go through with it and not quit on yourself. This will prove to her and yourself that you really meant it and followed through this time. Until you decide to help yourself you have no chance in a relationship with her or anyone. I wish the best for you and good luck. :)
2007-11-27 17:53:50
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answered by ? 3
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I think you need to take some time for your self. Get to know yourself and be comfortable in your own skin. Please don't think I am being harsh with you because i am not trying to, however no one else can fix you and it isn't nice to put that on someone. That is an enormous burden, one that almost no one could shoulder. I think you probaby could have a long and happy life in front of you, however you need to resolve the demons that are living in your head and make room for another person. i wish you the best.
2007-11-27 16:23:31
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answered by Rein 5
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You need to seek help for yourself. There's nothing that she can do to help you with this problem, no matter how much she loves you. Love doesn't solve everything. You need her support more than anything else, and she'll need to understand that. If she's unwilling to communicate about this, then it shows you that she'll be unwilling to communicate about much larger problems later on. Maybe it's a good thing that you found this out now so that you don't waste your time with someone who isn't willing to discuss things when they get rough.
2007-11-27 16:23:24
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answered by Anonymous
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Sounds to me that you need to see a counceler. There are meds that can help you with your depression. You need to ask yourself some questions?????? Do you want to spend the rest of your life like this and possibly without the one person you need right now? I feel for your girl she is prolly hurting more then you think cause though you love the person who is cutting themselves it makes you feel that you can't help the person you love. Maybe both of you can see a counceler.
2007-11-27 16:25:45
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answered by monkey 2
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Go get help. There are free help groups in all communities for you to depend less on others and more on yourself. If you have health insurance it will pay for meds.
No girlfriend will fill the void in your life. You need to find the Trent from within and be happy with yourself.
Stop hurting yourself...
2007-11-27 16:27:32
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answered by berns63 2
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shes probably upset bc she thinks ur depression is partly on her. SHe has tried to help but now the rest is up to you do u want to loose ur life and love or have them both??? dont take my advice so seriously to kill ur self just go find a physcologist
2007-11-27 16:32:13
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answered by Anonymous
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dont worry i know exactly what your going through i promise...i used to cut the same thing happened to me but then my parents found out and they sent me to a psychologist and i have been cut free for almost 2 months
just try to get help like a.s.a.p
2007-11-27 16:37:41
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answered by lil_schim_404 1
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I think that your girlfriend is not ready for a suicidle relationship...she is not used to saving her lovers life and she is just freaking out and she just dosent no what to do the situation..you should let her take it all in and then talk about because maybe she is just taking it all in....
2007-11-27 16:38:44
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answered by Shay 1
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