If you felt love for someone but they were irrespnsible, inconsiderate and was disrespectful to the relationship even though they love you too they just won't grow up at the age of 40 could you leave them for no particular reason even though it was terribly hurtful and if so what would you do to get yourself through it?
2007-11-27 08:50:22 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Yes I could leave them and I did leave them. When someone is irresponsible, inconsiderate, disrespectful to the relationship, and just won't grow up at age 40, are very strong reasons to leave them. Reguardless what someone tells you, if they really love you, they will not be disrespectful to the relationship and all the other things mentioned. What you have here is a selfish, immature, and disrespectful child playing grown up. While you might want to share your love with to build a relationship, they wants you treat them like your child and give them a mother's love.
This person hasn't given you no particular reason to stay and every reason to leave. It's very hurtful leaveing someone you love, but remember, this person isn't loving you back, so that should help. Start yourself a healing plan. When you start crying, deliberately think about something that'll make you laugh (even if it's on TV). Keep telling yourself, "You deserve the best". Do not go to the places you went as a couple. Keep yourself surrounded by positive people. Fill in the time you spend with them and thinking about them by keeping yourself busy and doing new and interesting things. Here's a few: starting a hobby you can develop (sewing, crochetting, knitting, quilting, oil painting), getting certified in First Aid/CPR, learning a foreign language, playing a musical instrument, or learning American Sign Language, joining a local church and getting involved in ministry work, helping out and checking on an elderly family member or neighbor, and don't forget about volunteering. These are all things that's helpful to yourself and others. Don't spend your time trying to meet someone new because you may be looking in all the wrong places. Remember, time heals all wounds.
2007-11-27 11:40:41 · answer #1 · answered by merry59 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ah I just went through this! BUT I had to leave b/c he brought me down and it was the hardest thing but you know what 6 months later a new man walked into my life and I laugh when I think back to the time I thought "I can't leave, I don't know how". Woman pick yourself up! You are a gem and if you are so willing to be with the wrong person just imagine what it will feel like when you are loved by the right person!! Be strong, get focused and love yourself! Surround yourself with positive people and energy! There is a whole world of life out there....Go and live it!!! Best of Luck!
2007-11-27 10:55:21 · answer #2 · answered by rose 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES i COULD I guess because I am older and wiser now and no what bad relationships can do for you
2007-11-27 08:57:22 · answer #3 · answered by ღOMGღ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would be hard at first but if you got good friend to support you you can do it with less pain.
2007-11-27 10:19:52 · answer #4 · answered by sho95@sbcglobal.net 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋