Okay so i keep asking about this boy but it turns out he did have a girlfriend but he broke up with her a few days ago but here is the thing he has been flirting with me a lot. But here is the other thing this is my best friends cousin. I talked to her about this but she does not know that i like him i my other friend who does not know i like him but she says he like me. But my asked my other friend if she thought it was weird if i went out with her cousin and she said no and i asked her y not and she said that it would be kind of cool if we went out. Help what do i do if he asks me out. I like him but i just don't know what to say if he asks me out.
2007-11-27 07:58:37 · 22 answers · asked by Bri H 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hey sweetie!
seriously? i would not go out with this guy just yet! he just broke up with this girl! i would not be anybodys rebound whatever! wait a lil while and just talk with him. if he cant get with that? then hes not the one for u! got me? when a guy is interested he does whatever it takes to to get the girl...thats just it! it can get really ugly so soon after his breakup...u know? ex drama and crap! u dont want to deal with that.
good luck! and let me know how it goes ok?
bye hun!
femz~
2007-11-27 11:33:17 · answer #1 · answered by femz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you could be a rebound so be careful! Unless you don't mind then go for it...but before saying yes i would talk to him about his feelings with his previous relationship and about the cousin and all that so there's no drama if you guys did go out.
2007-11-27 08:14:26 · answer #2 · answered by Midnight61 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay. you have GOT to ask ur best friend about it first. I mean, u dont want to get into a fight over a boy. then if she says okay then you have to make sure that this is what you really want, to be with this guy. and you should make sure hes flirting not just being friendly.
also, its not a good idea to try to be his girlfriend if he just got out of a relationship. he wont want to rush into things.
wait a little while then ask your best friend to ask him if hes ready for a new relationship.
it should work out
but make sure you ask ur friend about him first.
good luck!
2007-11-27 08:03:31 · answer #3 · answered by adlskfjkladsf 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like him and he likes you and asks you out and your friend who is his cousin is okay with it because she would probably love to have her friend in the family then hmmm.....
yes.
2007-11-27 08:01:44 · answer #4 · answered by Viking799 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he asks you out go for it girl! It sounds like a great idea and it would be cool.
2007-11-27 08:01:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say yes. What kind of friend would tell you that you can't go out with someone.
2007-11-27 08:01:42 · answer #6 · answered by bballchica14 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
always always always ask your friends first
do not say yes to him until you have talked to her. because then she will feel that you are betraying her and it could ruin your friendship
explain to her how you feel about him and that it wouldn;t change anything between you and her relationship
your friend will understand and most likely say yes
2007-11-27 08:02:42 · answer #7 · answered by makeyourselfsick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Family and friends there of should always be off limits... Good luck with that... Go for it, only if your heart tells you to do so...
2007-11-27 08:02:59 · answer #8 · answered by Lupe S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well duhh if he asks you out and you like him as you say you do go for it!! And as him being your friends cousin that would be awsome at like family reuinions and stuff like that!
2007-11-27 08:02:22 · answer #9 · answered by samantha renee' 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i would stay out of it. sounds like you could be in one of those girl on girl fights that people put on the internet.
2007-11-27 08:08:20 · answer #10 · answered by ♥Charmed One♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋