Family & Relationships - 27 November 2007

A star and a thumbs up. I am at a very low ebb.

2007-11-27 06:04:43 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

It seems like everyone loves him. It takes so much for him to get mad. I get pissed very easily like in the grocery store the cashier like flung my soda down the belt and I started screaming at her. My bf then started yelling at me saying it was an accident and that I should calm down. Lately these stupid mexican girls were pissing me off. We were in the library at my college and they had a computer problem and so my bf helped them. After he was done they thanked him and then they like looked me over. You know the kind of look like hmm how am I better looking then her. Then the one started to firlt with him. Right in front of me! Now my bf is really blind to firlting so he had no idea it took me like a month to get him to figure out that I was firlting with him. Neways I got really mad and I go hey stop talking to him you illeagals and go talk to your men leave my man alone. Then my bf is like wtf is wrong with you why would you say something like that.

2007-11-27 06:01:56 · 8 answers · asked by Ashely85 1 in Singles & Dating

My son is walking me down the aisle when I get married. My fiancee and I would like to have a cake topper that includes a child. I have seen one in the past but now that I am ready to buy cannot find it. Does anyone have any suggestions?

2007-11-27 06:00:55 · 10 answers · asked by Bride to be n Indy 1 in Weddings

She knows you found out and that you are bothered by it.

2007-11-27 05:59:37 · 11 answers · asked by CaramelKitten 3 in Singles & Dating

Is it giving him the impression I like him?

I know he likes me and hes asked me out a few times but ive said no, we're just friends and its kinda settled now. Hes always telling me im beautiful and stuff and today he jokingley went do you want to marry me and put his ring on my finger and I laughed and was like no && its too big so I gave him it back and he was like do you wanna wear my bracelet? So I was liek yeah and he was like I duno Ive never given any girl my bracelet before blah blah blah but he ended up giving me it!! Am I suggesting I like him!!!!?

2007-11-27 05:57:16 · 7 answers · asked by Yorkshire Gurlie ♥ 3 in Singles & Dating

Would you prefer a $500 shopping spree at Victorias Secret or just cash?? Honest answers please thanks.

2007-11-27 05:57:08 · 10 answers · asked by Carlos de La Vega 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-27 05:57:05 · 3 answers · asked by kimberly k 5 in Singles & Dating

This is without your spouse knowing. What if it gets out of control and your sex life suffers because you are masterbating to online porn everyday? What if your spouse confronts you and you lie about doing it?

2007-11-27 05:56:41 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

He will be back in afghanistan this January and i want him to have a memorable gift from me.. But i dont know what to get.. Its our first x-mas together..

PLease Help

2007-11-27 05:54:39 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

If you are bored and you want to have some fun. Your boyfreind couldnt come out so you're home in pjs waiting for anybody 2 call.Out of the blue, your boyfriend friend ask you to come out and have fun and you have nothing to do. Okay, yeah its kinda weird, but you're mad at the fact your boyfriend is not him, but what the hell, lets have fun right.....Not thinking about what this could cause..... Things almost escalated and you didnt want to tell your boyfreind because you're embrassed, what would you do?

2007-11-27 05:52:18 · 22 answers · asked by imalibrababy 1 in Singles & Dating

He was so excited to know me, saying he couldn’t wait to meet me learn about me, etc. We talked online then talked on the phone. Everything went well. We even joked about “hey we are so perfect that we will not have problems at all down to the road”. We talked a couple of hours on the phone(first time on the phone). He didn’t call or email the next day, so I email him starting “hey my perfect match….” asking him how his day went. Here is his response: can't sleep for some strange reason. Would you be interested in seeing a movie this weekend? Not sure if it is to soon to meet. I am sure we will talk soon. Have a great work week. Take care, your new friend. XX. I am not sure how do I understand his message, because the low tone is totally different from the time we talked online or on the phone. He also signed as “new friend” that seem to be a correction to my “perfect match” joke. Is he interested but concerned of something, or he is simply retreating?

2007-11-27 05:51:21 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I don't know what to do. The answer is obvious, but fear is so powerful. I have been In a relationship for over 15 years, we've been together since high school. We have two children, they are amazing. I had my son early at 20. So basically I've gone from living at home, to living with him. Our relationship has had major issues,known infidelity(on his part) of couse he won't admit. Abuse at first physical, emotional and verbal. The past 9 years have been drama free. Although I know I love him, I am so miserable and afraid that he'll cheat again. I've never been on my own. I will have a huge problem with him and custody. His income is our main source. I have mainly stayed at home with our kids. I have no family or friends that would be able to help temporarily. How can I leave? Should we seek counsling from our priest? Or family counsling. I'm so sad.

2007-11-27 05:51:00 · 23 answers · asked by monalisa_2 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband used to be a drug user. He has been clean for 3 years and stayed away from his old "buddies". He has been doing very well and making a lot of good progress.

However, he has recently had run into one of these "buddies" and is going to be meeting up with him for lunch or something.

This "buddy" would stay clean, become tempted and then my husband and he would go and satisfy their addiction. His "buddy" ALWAYS got involved with drugs and my husband would follow. My husband is responsible for his own actions, but his “buddy” always makes it worse when my husband had been doing so well.

I have told my husband how I felt. I have told him that I disapprove of him hanging out even for a few minutes with this guy. He knows the consequences if he goes down that path. I told him that I will help him out as long as he’s helping himself. I told him that I feel that he is going to go back spiraling down again if he starts talking to this guy again.

2007-11-27 05:50:18 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

....use their body to get what they want from men?

2007-11-27 05:47:33 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I left my husband because he has a drinking problem. I wanted things to work out when I left but instead he found another girl and now they are having a baby in a couple of months. He wants to take my kids for Christmas break but he lives in Ga and I live in Va. Can I stop him from taking them? We haven't filed for divorce(I don't have a lawyer). Do I have a right to say he can't take them? I don't mind him seeing them but I don't want my kids to be around him because he still drinks and I just don't want my daughters in that situatuion with his girlfriend.

2007-11-27 05:46:08 · 17 answers · asked by lvbrdy4vr 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I don't understand this. Why do people cheat when they have a good thing? why do people say that "he won't leave his wife/girlfriend/boyfriend for you"? If he is with me, then he have "left" his wife?

2007-11-27 05:46:04 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have a friend who's husband has been making her feel bad about her weight. They were just married 8 months ago. In their whole relationship she has fluctuated in her weight at the most 15 pounds. So she hasn't been up or down real far. She used to wear size 8 jeans and now she wears a 12. This is not the first time he has made a comment one time he made a comment to her that she should start to use her treadmill and the other day he told her that she needed to wear a longer shirt because when she stands up her fat falls out. he make other comments like "you should eat a salad" or "you can still walk in the winter" small things but enough to make my friend feel bad. she has fertility problems and has been going through hormone treatments so she already feels bad about herself. what do you think she should do? oh also he is NOT a skinny man and has a few things he can fix himself.

2007-11-27 05:43:44 · 22 answers · asked by Karen M 2 in Marriage & Divorce

We hope to have the vows exchanged on the beach, this January, with just the celebrant, us and witnesses. we don't mind toque, glove and long-john-ing it. I was just wondering if anybody else had any other fun ideas.

bests!

2007-11-27 05:41:50 · 6 answers · asked by lovesapples 4 in Weddings

2007-11-27 05:41:10 · 8 answers · asked by anahernandez04 1 in Marriage & Divorce

things have chaged since a few years ago, in my mums generation people want to be out at 16 fending for themselfs.

i'm 25 (nearly 26) and still @ home with my parents, its like i'm on my own though cos i have the house to myself most times, but yeah with UK house prices sky-high at the moment at what age would you say is the right time to move?

am i sad *beeeeep* or what?

2007-11-27 05:40:21 · 13 answers · asked by nutnut12342002 1 in Family

Or just dive in full throttle

2007-11-27 05:39:21 · 20 answers · asked by Seed Plower 5 in Singles & Dating

I love my girlfriend. She is great! She is 17 and full korean. she recently moved to another state(like 800 miles away) and we have been together for a year and couple weeks. She doesn't have her green card so that makes things complicated. Her whole family doesn't agree with the living together thing before marriage. But i want to do that. And i knwo its not going to happen..If we get married, she said that she will live with me. Move down here and live together after marriage. Do you think after we get married, her mom will not let her come down her and screw me over? this is so hard for me. personally i want to marry her and live with her. But i don't want to be trapped. Does her family want the money? i think so. But my girlfriend truly loves me, vice versa. (and im us citizen) . please help me. thanks

2007-11-27 05:36:33 · 7 answers · asked by tom l 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My live-in boyfriend of 2 years has had an extremely bad relationship with his father all of his life. His father is a clinically diagnosed narcissist who abuses everyone that comes within reach. I have been a victim of his verbal assaults and his sexual advances. His mother enables his father to the extreme and their family has suffered beyond words for almost 40 years. I got caught up in the mess and now my boyfriend is defending his father. Should I just walk away?

His father has gone so far as to say that he isn’t his real son. My boyfriend recalls being a young boy and hearing this. A few months ago his father said the same thing again. Recently, I found literature about coping with dysfunctional families and my boyfriend really showed his willingness to finally get some help. He read everything he could get his hands on and I totally supported whatever he wanted to do. I never meddled or forced anything upon him. He was so grateful that I was there for him. I spent hours researching and went so far as to buy him books with my own money. He decided to confront his father in a letter and basically cut off ties with his parents until they get some intensive therapy. They are emotionally draining and they call constantly to harass us. Last night my boyfriend and I were in a little argument and I said “What’s wrong with you?” And he got so upset and he said “Nothing, DAD!” I felt really insulted to be called that so, in response I replied with calling him my ex-husband’s name. Yes, all very immature! Well, what happened next shocked me. My boyfriend told me off and told me how much he cares about his dad and he doesn’t like me badmouthing his father and he doesn’t want me saying anything about him because he cares for him and loves him. I felt like the biggest fool. I felt like I put my neck out there and I did everything to support his quest for a life as an adult and as a survivor is his father’s abuse. Then, he turned on me. I am going to mind my own business. Am I wrong to now walk away and let him fend for himself?

2007-11-27 05:34:14 · 8 answers · asked by K H 1 in Family

If you are having a year long engagement, how many months before the wedding is a good time to go get engagement photos made?

2007-11-27 05:33:37 · 7 answers · asked by *ae* 3 in Weddings

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2007-11-27 05:33:22 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I make a decent salary and have two kids that will be in elementary school. If I quit, money wouldn't be a problem. Is this wise??

2007-11-27 05:32:51 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Who must be like everyone else or rather be classified 'odd'? Why can we not be ourselves and be grateful to our Lord for who we are? Who cares what they say?!

But yet, it is hard not to care, it is hard when everyone around you scorns you and considers you a pathetic and stupid miscreant if you do not wear Abercrombie & Fitch.

My cusin treats me like dirt just because I do not see things her way, just because I am not so stuckup and just because I do not believe the world revolves around her. She makes me feel small, and she told me I had no boobs, I was short, and I was not blond. (which apparently is the cool thing to be)

I want to be my own person but it is hard when people like her push you down. I really don't care if I don't have boobs at this age, I don't need them. She brags about how many guys ask her out every day and how many she has turned down, then she asks me if I've ever been asked out. She's not beautiful or anyting either! I want to stand up to her, but how?!

2007-11-27 05:32:38 · 2 answers · asked by nobopoto 2 in Friends

Details.
Madly in love with each other for one and a half year. she is from an oppressive family. Made her feel like a princess, bought her expensive gifts. In her words" I have never met anybody like you and never will". we had fights earlier too, I am the one to apologise and talk first NO MATTER WHOSE fault. ALWAYS.

Her brother foul mouthed me and threatened me that i Should not to see her again. I in turn said something harsh. She started fighting with me saying that I should not have been rude with her brother and hung up the phone. since then neither she nor me had called. I think she has got into the habit of me apologising first. I know that she loves me a lot (or has it waned off ? )
BUT for the first time I want to put my foot down and do not want to apologise or call first I think I have pampered her enough. I definitely do not want to lose her. WILL SHE CALL OR NOT? . any comments.

2007-11-27 05:32:18 · 12 answers · asked by anewbrainstorm 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-27 05:31:55 · 22 answers · asked by Rhiannah 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I've had 2 myself but I take care of myself. I saw my ex'swife the other day she's like 300 lbs!! She wasn't that big before. I even said to him at first,"wow you have a very pretty girlfriend" Any how just curious..

2007-11-27 05:31:22 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce