I love my girlfriend. She is great! She is 17 and full korean. she recently moved to another state(like 800 miles away) and we have been together for a year and couple weeks. She doesn't have her green card so that makes things complicated. Her whole family doesn't agree with the living together thing before marriage. But i want to do that. And i knwo its not going to happen..If we get married, she said that she will live with me. Move down here and live together after marriage. Do you think after we get married, her mom will not let her come down her and screw me over? this is so hard for me. personally i want to marry her and live with her. But i don't want to be trapped. Does her family want the money? i think so. But my girlfriend truly loves me, vice versa. (and im us citizen) . please help me. thanks
2007-11-27 05:36:33 · 7 answers · asked by tom l 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
First of all, in order for her to marry before she is 18 she will need her parent's consent, she will also need to show proof of citizenship, if she can't show proof there will be other constrictions to your marrying her. Due to immigration laws. If you get married she will HAVE to live with you as she will be your wife and that is what man and wife do, regardless of where HER family lives. Besides if you don't live together immigration will be right in figuring the marriage was for citizenship, she as well as her family will be deported and YOU will wind up in federal prison for attempt of defrauding the Government. Think about this for a VERY LONG TIME
2007-11-27 05:51:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
What do you mean does her family want the money? What makes you think that they want your money? I don't think that because you marry their daughter you're gonna give them money, right? And if you know that your gf loves you, then why are you so scared? Just because she doesn't have her green card doesn't mean she has no feelings and that she can'
t trully fall in love. I think you should be able to feel it when somebody loves you, and if you do feel it, then don't worry about it. Stop stressing out when there is nothing to stress about
2007-11-27 05:51:45 · answer #2 · answered by sweetie 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
She is 17. How old are you? I say let her finish school and get a job. Don't even think about getting married until she is 25.
2007-11-27 05:49:43 · answer #3 · answered by Dave G 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she does love you. But she is too way too young to know the responsibility and commitment required of a marriage. Don't get married.
2007-11-27 05:50:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
She wants her greencard and that is all run and do not look back long distance relationships never workout and it sounds like her family doesn't approve of you very important in asian culture. Just forget her and find a US citizen.
2007-11-27 05:51:33 · answer #5 · answered by Livinrawguy 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
run ahole, run like the wind!! her family is using her like a fishing lure to make you a chump. she is just doing what her family wants. and you don't know she loves you.
2007-11-27 06:03:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
RUN LIKE HELLLLLLL AND DON'T LOOK BACK!
2007-11-27 05:39:55 · answer #7 · answered by irish_jimmy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋