Family & Relationships - 27 November 2007

My cousin has asked me to plan her wedding. I have only done this once before (my own small wedding). But hers is going to be over 300 guests. I have the big stuff covered, ie. flowers, decorations, etc. But I want the details. Things I should remember for the big day. Like assigning someone to transport the guest book from the church to the reception hall. Or making sure the a/c is on at the hall. Are there things that you forgot or remembered. I need it all. All advise is appreciated and can never be too much. Thank you in advance. Tracy

2007-11-27 04:11:32 · 19 answers · asked by Tracy S 1 in Weddings

Men if you have such a problem with women why be with one?
Im sick of hearing men complain about women and cry about the woman that hurt them and then they go out and get into a relationship and chase the woman away with their negativity. Why do you even want to be with a woman if we are as bad as you claim? Why cant you get over your heart break man up and move on?

2007-11-27 04:09:09 · 17 answers · asked by ms_sweet_real 2 in Marriage & Divorce

for ex: if a gal has pre marital sex in an IT office with her colleague, and after a few days if the guy is transferred and if the gal gets tempted to have sex, will she be so much motivated to have sex with anothe guy in her office, and it will go on as a chain reaction??

2007-11-27 04:08:59 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Research shows: It can take up to six months for a bride to find that special wedding gown, get it ready and fitted. The groom has the option to rent his tuxedo. Are men really concerned about what kind of wedding gown their future brides are going to wear on their wedding day?

2007-11-27 04:07:53 · 18 answers · asked by Star T 7 in Weddings

2007-11-27 04:07:05 · 11 answers · asked by alexis21 2 in Singles & Dating

what is that which tempts them...
and i read in one newspaper that condoms were found in the ditch in a huge amount outsde Tidel park chennai

2007-11-27 04:06:15 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I read that when you are married, it is wise to have a secret stash of money that your spouse doesnt know about...- do any of you have one??

2007-11-27 04:05:50 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am 41, she is 44. Both of us are divorced with kids from previous marriage. She told me that her husband "dumped her" after 22 years of marriage. She is also very private about what kind of property settlements she got (money issues). She lives very well on a teacher's income, so I know something more happened. My family is fairly affluent. She never makes the first move on anything, except on "i love yous" and wanting to talk about "future" and marriage. We've only been together for 2 months. (But that's quite a long time for people our age and we have spent a lot of time together). I recently dug into the courthouse papers and found that SHE was the petitioner on her divorce, not her ex. However, she may have had no choice but to file against him since he was out of the state at the time and she probably needed $$ help. Maybe that's why she is the one that filed. It just bugs me. What should I do? Does this smell like true love or someone who may be after $$?

2007-11-27 04:05:27 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-27 04:04:47 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-27 04:02:59 · 18 answers · asked by fu2later 1 in Singles & Dating

I would like to get our son a toy train table for Christmas, it will cost around $150.00 - my husband wont hear of it at that cost and said that we will buy him a Doll house or a Kitchen Set instead (for less money) - Both my husband and I work and we can afford a $150.00 train set for our son - We spend more then that on our other 3 children at Christmas Time to begin with. Also, at bed time or nap time, he lays out stuffed animals and dolls for my son to sleep with- am I being silly, or is there something wrong here? We already have 2 daughters and 1 son -

2007-11-27 04:02:56 · 16 answers · asked by beentheredonethat 1 in Family

2007-11-27 04:00:58 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My so called best friend is cheating on her bf and she knows that I know. I told her bf and he didnt want to hear it instead he accused me of liking and stalking him. Meanwhile back here she has another bf. The guy that I used to like and she knew that I liked him when she agreed to go out with him. Anyway I sent her bf who doesnt live here an email saying that I dont like him and **** like that and she came to the library just now and gave me the mesage that he sent her abthat was mine. with all mistakes and **** on it shes the most stupidest ****** up ***** in the world what should i do?

2007-11-27 04:00:31 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-27 03:56:13 · 7 answers · asked by softkisses4707 5 in Singles & Dating

my mother in law is mad because my boyfriend and i have been lying to her alot. so now she dosnt want me over. but then she tells me that she would like to tlk to me. i want to go over to her house this friday to talk to her and to fix things. should i?

2007-11-27 03:55:56 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My married parents and his divorced parents are all making monetary contributions to our wedding, and my fiance and I are also paying for a portion. How do I word the invitations? My mother insists on her name being on the invitation.

2007-11-27 03:53:14 · 13 answers · asked by r0adie20 1 in Weddings

I want to know what the hell makes men so interested in video games that they would rather play Halo than have sex with their wife/girlfriend?


I have people constantly complaining to me that their man wants the damn game more than them. Most recently, my husbands friend was telling him that his GF came to the door in only a black lace bra and panty set and asked if he were coming to bed. Now this idiot looked at his WOW (World of Warcraft) then at her and said "naw." LOL and my husband cant explain it to me, cause he wouldnt even think about putting a game ahead of me, so I thought I'd ask the answers community.

What makes a man turn down sex for a video game? How would/does this impact your marriage/relationship? Do men realize that rejecting your wife for a video game=less desire for sex?

2007-11-27 03:51:53 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

would you move back with your ex babymom just because the kids,and not being with her ?

2007-11-27 03:49:59 · 14 answers · asked by tu nina linda! 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i'm 15 in the 10th she is 17 in the 12th how do i get with her she flirts with me i flirt with her i asked her out once but she said no but it was nicely but what do i do i really like her someone please tell me exactly what 2 do and how do i get with her....????

2007-11-27 03:49:51 · 8 answers · asked by Michael C 1 in Singles & Dating

my husband & i will be married only a year this december, and only together 2 yrs. we're expecting our first baby ( a little girl! ) around the end of Feb.

i'm worried that things will change for the worse. we've had some tough times. we kinda rushed into things, but we're determined to make it work because we love each other dearly. (it's just a matter of fine tuning our communication styles, really, which we've had some progress with)...

the thing is, i'm worried about what adding a baby might do to us... kids are so demanding, and so is a marriage (esp one so new & needing a bit of work)

how did your marriage change after having your baby?
how did you keep it strong?
do you have any advise?

thanks!

2007-11-27 03:49:39 · 16 answers · asked by Ember Halo 6 in Marriage & Divorce

me and my boyfriend make about 31,000 each. we are considering getting married, but think it will mess up our tax refund, meaning, we would get less.

also, i'm about 7 months pregnant, so from a financial (no moral) perspective, would it be better to get married and file joint or remain single.

also, i make too much money (i know, sad isnt it) for financial assistance, daycare assistance. so that sucks. i'm breast feeding throughout 12 months, so not in need of formula yet, but will be if my son doesnt take to the teet. please help!

2007-11-27 03:46:48 · 6 answers · asked by happypants 3 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend says that he dreams of me a lot, when I asked him what he dreams he told me after much back and forth. He said that, "sure, I dream of sex..I mean, you're an attractice girl...but it's also life altering stuff like...our first time...me asking you to marry me, our wedding. Yea, the wedding was nice. Everything is perfect, you know? Perfect harmony.."

I'd belive him on the spot, but the I don't know what he was so embarassed about...

2007-11-27 03:46:30 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

and moves on?

2007-11-27 03:44:19 · 14 answers · asked by Jessie 1 in Singles & Dating

Alright so im still heart broken after 27 days, after a 2 1/2 year relationship break up. we are both 17. now im wondering and im thinking about this all the time. if my ex girlfriend will have sex with the next boyfriend? i mean i dont even know if she has one or if she planning on. she told me she wasnt you see when we dated we were both virgins and we lost it together. and we would do it like once a month. so i know how she can get and it kills me if shell do it with another guy.

her parents have her on check right now because she kissed another guy while going out with me. in a "spin the bottle game" i forgive her but still didnt work out. let me describe her: she beautyful, attractive, nice body, athletic, and brunettee. i still love her and havent seen her in almost a month.
the question again is: will my ex girlfriend have sex with the next boyfriend?
what should i do?
advice? sugestions? opinions?


advice or your opinion will be appreciate it.

2007-11-27 03:40:52 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

of 1,000 any ideas we're thinking of his mother's back yard and a cook out type thing. The date is 6/19/08 any other ideas? we're not going traditional ie" dress tux etc

2007-11-27 03:38:37 · 28 answers · asked by Noneofyabusiness 4 in Weddings

is this some stupid excuse for saying he doesn't like me? He'd ask me to spend time with him on most days then finally asks me out then says he needs to clear his head (but he didn't say what about). Why did he ask me out? We both get on great-says he feels relaxed around me & his parents like me...

2007-11-27 03:36:05 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Just wondering LOL

2007-11-27 03:36:02 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I been seeing someone at work, who happens to be my assistant. She just got out of a 5 year relationship and is still confused. She recently came back from a trip with the ex and said she wants to see me only. However we went out last week, alcohol was involved and we had a agruement. Since then we are on a break... It is very uncomfortable to be at work and she seems to be wanting me to say something. That pretty much is it so reader, what do I do?

2007-11-27 03:29:51 · 6 answers · asked by cookie 1 in Singles & Dating

I really need help...you see one week ago i have started going out with one lad, and we already had a date and we both really like each other and want to see each other on regular bases...but there is a problem, i don't know how to own up to my parents... :( I had couple of boyfriends before but i never told them....but they were pointless relationships...this one i can feel could be quite serious but i have no idea how to tell my parents i have a boyfriend..worse i don't know how they will react as i have no clue whether they will let me have one or not....i want to tell them....but i am scraed of their reaction. I need help, because i don't want to lie to them anymore, one date without them knowing was pretty scary already.....please HELP!

2007-11-27 03:26:51 · 14 answers · asked by Alex 2 in Singles & Dating

or anyone else who wants to answer...

I'm having two because my family lives 2 hours away and won't drive up to columbus ohio.

Anyways, the one for up here in columbus is mostly his side of the family, There are alot of people on his side that I do not know and it may be very akward/uncomforable for me, so I considered a jack n jill (where it's coed and the groom can attend) but one of the hostesses doesn't believe it's tradition...for ANY men to be there...

Have any of you dealt with this? How?

2007-11-27 03:22:21 · 11 answers · asked by ? 5 in Weddings