2007-11-27 04:00:58 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
There is a fine line between love and hate. Sometimes we love someone so much that the emotional bond is really intense, and in moments of anger or disagreement, that strong bond turns into it's very opposite, hatred. It doesn't mean you are over him. The day that you are completely indifferent to him will be the day you are over him.
2007-11-27 04:06:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
hate is a strong word. Do you really HATE him or just don't like him and the things he does? You need to sit down and think about how you would feel without him. If he was with someone else and no longer in your life and how your life would be after the fact. You need to know if deep down there is still a part of you that wants and loves him. Then if not and you really do HATE him then get the divorce. Just make sure that is absolutely what you want. hope this helps and good luck.
2007-11-27 12:07:56 · answer #2 · answered by bbygrl 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like there are issues there and yall are wasting time on one another. I'd try a separation to try to rekindle things before I ended it. Who knows the help may help the relationship and bring your feelings back towards one another. My husaband and I went through the same thing not long ago, and the break brought us back together. We are very happy now. I think that it made us open our eyes. On the other hand you may not be meant for each other. The break may help both of you be happier, and in this case a divorce would be best. Good Luck
2007-11-27 12:20:19 · answer #3 · answered by Emily 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You shouldn't hate anyone that's a strong emotion for someone to have over you. . . My ex-husband, (I've been divorced 15 years) did some pretty cruddy stuff to me, and I have a 15 year old daughter with him - but I love her more than I hate him, he's redeemed himself in my eyes, by being a good father.
2007-11-27 12:17:32 · answer #4 · answered by Cris 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yeah hate is a powerful word if you feel this way about each other then I would say YOU GUYS HAVE FALLEN OUT OF LOVE AND TIME TO MOVE ON. I do not believe in divorce myself but if you detest each other then why stay together. It is time to file and end this charade if you have exhauseted all avenues like counselling or both of you refuse to do this then just get it over with and say goodbye.
2007-11-27 12:14:48 · answer #5 · answered by Livinrawguy 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I always say that if it's a genuine hatred, then no-one can make you be around him, you won't discuss him and you don't have any personal fantasies about them when you're alone, he's not always on your mind and you don't find millions of people to try to "feel your pain" on that situation. That's when you're over someone or if there's hate in your heart.
2007-11-27 12:09:05 · answer #6 · answered by FRIEND 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would take that as an indication that it is time to move on, why stay with someone when you dislike one another, life is way to short to be miserable... If you even give a damn about each other one little bit, split and get.. at least have some respect for each other to do that much.. peace
2007-11-27 12:09:01 · answer #7 · answered by jkyody 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Hate is a strong word. But i guess you guys are both over eachother, time to move on.....
2007-11-27 12:09:11 · answer #8 · answered by peyton31602 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you both hate each other then it is time to pull the plug on the marriage.
2007-11-27 12:09:41 · answer #9 · answered by Bears Mom 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yeah, hate is pretty bad. Time for a divorce
2007-11-27 12:04:24 · answer #10 · answered by karenlanea2 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋