would you move back with your ex babymom just because the kids,and not being with her ?
2007-11-27 03:49:59 · 14 answers · asked by tu nina linda! 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
At one time I would've said yes, but not now though. You can meet someone special and still love and spend time with your children. I think the kids deal is just to know they're loved by their parents. If he moved back and is supposedly "not with her" and you believe that then find a mirror. Next, he'll be trying to keep ties with you too because "you were SO understanding". Don't get played.
2007-11-27 04:02:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope really if you are not in a relationship with tyhe person why stick around you can always visit the kids and all. Really
I think it best if the relationship is over that each parent get on with their lives find someone new and well be happy why give a mixed signal to the kids?.
God Bless and Best Wishes.
Life is way to short to be unhappy and to mess up little kids.
2007-11-27 03:58:49 · answer #2 · answered by Livinrawguy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. You shouldn't do it just because of the kids. It could hurt the kids in the long run. If the two parents can never get along the kids will see this and it will give them emotional scars.
2007-11-27 03:55:59 · answer #3 · answered by Bandit_ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nope. I wouldn't move back with my baby's momma just to be with the kids or with her. I would still have to live my own life and be happy, but at the same time pay as much attention and love to my kids as I possibly could.
2007-11-27 03:52:38 · answer #4 · answered by No one 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
unless the parents can act like they love each other, not argue and present an image of a loving couple to the kids then no.. it is best for the kids if he doesn't.
2007-11-27 03:58:29 · answer #5 · answered by David 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no. I loved my ex too much yet i wouldn't move back in with her-too many bad memories
2007-11-27 04:25:59 · answer #6 · answered by James S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, but i wouldnt have a babymomma in the first place. he should pay child support and have partial custody of his children.
2007-11-27 03:53:26 · answer #7 · answered by anonomama 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yup, it could be acceptable as long as your both being adults about it.
2007-11-27 03:54:17 · answer #8 · answered by billgoats79 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lots of people do.
and many people are influenced by financial reasons (they don't want to pay child support and alimony etc.)
2007-11-27 03:52:31 · answer #9 · answered by BonesofaTeacher 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
pple do and its always a huge mistake
2007-11-27 03:59:30 · answer #10 · answered by debbie v 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋