2007-11-27 05:41:10 · 8 answers · asked by anahernandez04 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It's called "Detachment". Nothing is forever. Not people, not jobs, etc. Life is about changes. We have to learn how to roll with those changes if we ever want to make it. Learning to let go is one of the hardest lessons to learn, but it's necessary. You just take it one step at a time. It's not going to KILL you. You will still be okay. Believe me, I'm living proof of this. It seems I've had to learn this lesson over and over again. The thing you have to realize is that if you are all you have, then you're still not going to die. Life goes on. Hang in there.
2007-11-27 05:46:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it would be a decision to be made, but no matter what happens, that someone will still love you back, and both of you will still be close friends until the very end. Believe it or not, you will always be in his heart and mind, if this someone loves being with you,caring about you,likes calling you, likes seeing you, likes having fun with you, then you would never ever have to worry about him not ever being there for you becuase both of you know he will...always. So you could take your time until it's time that you want to start moving on with your life and trust me, eventually someone will bump into you, love takes time, so just have patience and something special will be brought up to you to cherish for the rest of your life.
2007-11-27 14:07:27 · answer #2 · answered by xclusive 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as a woman whose husband of 26 years left her, it is a life
changing thing to let go of someone. we had spent more than HALF of our lives together and when he told me he was in love with a co worker, well, SHOCK is too mild of a word to say the least. i have been in therapy for 14 months now and i STILL am crying at the loss of my marriage and the idea of the person i THOUGHT i would spend the rest of my live with is living with someone else. (he was living a double life and i think the guilt was finally getting to him)
it's NOT a simple ON/OFF switch that we have when it comes to our emotions. i would LIKE to say, that over time it WILL get easier for you, but i can't say that with an honest heart.
sometimes you DON'T have a choice in the letting go part, they DO that for you.
2007-11-27 13:54:05 · answer #3 · answered by Sweetie 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
That's so hard to do. It's a pain that can't be matched. The moments during the day/night (alot probably, huh?) that you find yourself thinking of him, remind yourself that it is over. An even harder thing to do is... tell yourself that since you love him so much, you are letting him go because you want him to have his freedom after all. But never forget the memories you shared together. You will always, always have that.
2007-11-27 13:52:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because life is too short to keep someone from finding happiness if that happiness is no longer with you. So think of it like this you love them enough to let them find there own form of someone to love. Then it allows you to get on with your life and find someone that will love you.
2007-11-27 13:48:59 · answer #5 · answered by Livinrawguy 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes that shows a greater love
2007-11-27 13:44:04 · answer #6 · answered by Irish Dad 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i left my ex and it was the best decision i ever made. i agree with the other person . life continues, nothing is forever, you have to go with the flow. sometimes you have to let go .
2007-11-27 13:52:08 · answer #7 · answered by rodriguez m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont call them or text or dont let them call you or text you take every thing they gave you back to them jus stop think bout them
2007-11-27 13:45:34 · answer #8 · answered by Mya92 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋