It seems like everyone loves him. It takes so much for him to get mad. I get pissed very easily like in the grocery store the cashier like flung my soda down the belt and I started screaming at her. My bf then started yelling at me saying it was an accident and that I should calm down. Lately these stupid mexican girls were pissing me off. We were in the library at my college and they had a computer problem and so my bf helped them. After he was done they thanked him and then they like looked me over. You know the kind of look like hmm how am I better looking then her. Then the one started to firlt with him. Right in front of me! Now my bf is really blind to firlting so he had no idea it took me like a month to get him to figure out that I was firlting with him. Neways I got really mad and I go hey stop talking to him you illeagals and go talk to your men leave my man alone. Then my bf is like wtf is wrong with you why would you say something like that.
2007-11-27 06:01:56 · 8 answers · asked by Ashely85 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Then the Mexican girls tried to play the race card and were like wow so it is true all white people are racists. They knew that would put my bf on the defensive. So he was like no I don’t know what her problem is but I can tell you Im not racists. Then she put her hand on is knee and was like ok I beleve you. I flipped out shoved her and yanked my bf out of there. We got into a huge argument and he said that he didn’t know if he could date someone like me. He turned and walked away. So I go back in there to fight those girls and they were like aww that’s a shame hes a really cute guy, He’s a biology major isn’t he? I went to slap her when someone came and broke it up. Now I know their trying to go after my man! How do I stop them? My bf will come back to me right?
2007-11-27 06:02:23 · update #1
You're practically driving him away with the way you're acting. Seriously, you need to chill, and have some faith in your boyfriend! Otherwise, he will leave you!
2007-11-27 06:11:46 · answer #1 · answered by my 2 cents 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that the one with the problem is you. You need to control your anger. I feel bad for him. I'm not saying you have no right to be mad, but you have to show that you have class, that you can behave, show those girls that you don't care if they flirt because your bf loves you and won't pay attention to them. By getting so mad you just made them happy because they knew that you felt insecure. I say I feel bad for your bf because it must be very embarrasing being somewhere with you because you flip out and start an argument, that is very embarrasing.
2007-11-27 06:11:42 · answer #2 · answered by sweetie 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Race has nothing to do with this problem.
Your boyfriend is blind to flirting? And you believed that for a whole month? Wow.
He's not blind to it and has every power within him to stop it all. He just doesn't want to. Latina girls are really hot, generally.
Calling them "illegals" is a racist slur. Not everyone of Mexican descent is in the country illegally.
I hope your boyfriend breaks up with you for the Mexican chicks and you marry a Klan member.
2007-11-27 06:12:35 · answer #3 · answered by Tyler Y 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
if I was your bf I wouldn't come back to you. you sound like a phsyco *****. if your bf is goodlooking other girls are always going to flirt with him, you just have to trust him. he had every right to walk out on you. You were rude and condescending and you were being racist by calling those girls illegal. You're just going to drive him even further away if you keep acting so immature & frankly, I wouldn't blame him for leaving you.
2007-11-27 12:41:31 · answer #4 · answered by Erica!! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why all the drama it was him they were after if he cared for you he would of said NO to them hes week and cares less for you>Forget get him find 1 that has eyes for you only > keep your cool as they know how to get you started>
2007-11-27 06:10:48 · answer #5 · answered by 45 auto 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Youngins...For starters grow up...and this racist thing you got going in your blood get rid of it before it gets rid of you. And to your boyfriend who I hope gets wind of this on here, may he drop you like a "Hot Tamale"..I am sure you know what this is if you do not like Mexicans..or is illegals..
2007-11-27 06:16:21 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Not sure. Maybe if you completely get rid of your jealousy issues. Guys hate that. And there is no stopping mexican girls.... just FYI.
2007-11-27 06:06:33 · answer #7 · answered by Texas Girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what does it matter that she's mexican?
Get over it.
He had a right to get pissed off at your comment. That was cold.
I want to slap you but I can't. Racist comments are just... UGH! Flirting isn't cheating. They did nothing wrong.
2007-11-27 06:10:29 · answer #8 · answered by Nextbestthing 2 · 4⤊ 1⤋