If you are bored and you want to have some fun. Your boyfreind couldnt come out so you're home in pjs waiting for anybody 2 call.Out of the blue, your boyfriend friend ask you to come out and have fun and you have nothing to do. Okay, yeah its kinda weird, but you're mad at the fact your boyfriend is not him, but what the hell, lets have fun right.....Not thinking about what this could cause..... Things almost escalated and you didnt want to tell your boyfreind because you're embrassed, what would you do?
2007-11-27 05:52:18 · 22 answers · asked by imalibrababy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
nail 'em both
2007-11-27 05:55:28 · answer #1 · answered by ken_kanith 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Um...
There's nothing wrong with hanging out with people other than your boyfriend.
Your boyfriend IS allowed to have other plans then going out with you.
You should tell your boyfriend if you've betrayed him.
You should try to be a little more faithful to your boyfriend, not letting things "almost escalate" to a point that you're embaressed just because you're mad that he couldn't come out with you.
2007-11-27 13:58:16 · answer #2 · answered by Eowyn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you should have went out with his friend in the first place. That is wierd! Don't you have any girlfriends you could have called? Anyways besides the point you shouldn't be doing stuff like that.
What do you mean by escalate? Iniciated by you? Did you cheat? I don't know what you mean by that. Does you bf know that you went out with him.
Whatever it is you should tell your boyfriend. Either way he has the right to know who you are and who his friend is. Honesty is the best policy.
2007-11-27 13:58:33 · answer #3 · answered by Violet 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Would you get mad if the tables were turned? In all honesty, I bet you would. I think that you should tell him the truth and if doesn't work out then it may not be such a good relationship.
2007-11-27 13:56:45 · answer #4 · answered by Katie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you have to tell him before his friend does and it always sounds worse when you A.Hide it and B.let someone tell the story...if nothing happened then you have nothing to feel guilty about. You said things almost escalated which sounds to me like something did happen anyways you need to tell your boyfriend.
2007-11-27 13:57:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If it was my friend asking you to go out and have fun I wouldn't mind. I would wonder why they didn't call me too, but it's nothing to get upset over.
2007-11-27 13:55:41 · answer #6 · answered by jmattiesmufc 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
that sucks. ive gone out with my bfs friends without him. yet weve been together for 6 years and live together. its no biggie. i dont flirt with them and they dont with me either. was it your fault things almost escalated or his? i think you need to tell him the truth before something gets blown out of proportion
2007-11-27 13:57:03 · answer #7 · answered by surfcarolinagurl26 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell him if you dont and he finds out then he might think some thing is going on betweeen you too plus he might not be able to trust you if you dont tell him
2007-11-27 13:56:01 · answer #8 · answered by Sam T 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell him anyways b/c hes gonna find out one way or another. its better to hear it from you and not the friend
2007-11-27 13:55:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
tell him cause he might think you and his friend are together behind his back and he will never trust you and he will leave you
2007-11-27 16:12:23 · answer #10 · answered by shaun d 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well if i wouldnt wanna tell him id just act like it never happened even tho i could never do that but thats just me
good luck
2007-11-27 13:55:53 · answer #11 · answered by Malia 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋