I waited till I was married to have sex and knew that the first time could hurt but everytime my husband and I try and do the deed, it hurts so bad!! We use lots of lubrication and my husband is very gentle. Also, it is not a problem of me being nervous, not in the mood or not enough foreplay. What is the problem and how can I make it easier?
2007-11-27 08:15:41 · 15 answers · asked by Curious 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It could be a number of things. Go to the doctor.
2007-11-27 08:19:42 · answer #1 · answered by kirk1500 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You need to seek professional help you may have a condition that only a professional will be able to help you with.
Sex should be enjoyable so do what ever you can to make it work for you. Check with a naturapathic Dr. as well they may have some other things to try and even consult acupuncture
It sounds like it is something physiucal not mental get checked out.
2007-11-27 08:28:27 · answer #2 · answered by Livinrawguy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go see your Dr. Sometimes there are certain conditions that can make sex painful. Some of them are nothing serious but some can be. Get a really good check up and talk with your Dr. about the problem.
2007-11-27 08:24:38 · answer #3 · answered by wondermom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you remembered to take your tights off?? It does hurt the first time if you are a virgin- infact if memory serves me correct because it was a long time ago- it hurt the first few times- but being relaxed is the key because otherwise your muscles tense. If it is really unbearable then go see your GP who will do a quick check to make sure everything is ok. Good luck.
2007-11-27 08:20:57 · answer #4 · answered by Ellie 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it took me a few times before it started feeling ok to have sex. but if it has been more than 10 times for u, there may be a problem down there.
go to ur gyno. u might have some infection or STD. who knows. like yeast infection, sex usually hurts when u have it. so get urself checked out. u need to do it anyway whether it hurt or not because once u become sexually active, u need to see ur gyno.
good luck
2007-11-27 08:23:46 · answer #5 · answered by switbaby9 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you really to relax and try to enjoy it. If thats not it, see your doctor, you might have a piece of your hymen left that is getting in the way. It happened to a friend of mine. Good Luck.
2007-11-27 08:20:43 · answer #6 · answered by tarie75 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I agree with Flagger, see your obgyn and get him/her to diagnose the problem.
There are differing reasons for this. Everything from Hymen is still intact...to Lord knows what.
Just do not be stressed, things can be fixed so that it does not hurt.
2007-11-27 08:22:03 · answer #7 · answered by Midnight Winter WOLF 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You on top and in control! The only way to get started!
2007-11-27 08:19:50 · answer #8 · answered by me4tennessee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
True check with your Dr. just to make sure you are ok internally, then go from there.
2007-11-27 08:20:38 · answer #9 · answered by Tray 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would most defintly go see a doctor. And as soon as you can the better.
2007-11-27 08:20:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋