I asked a question about this a while ago. You see it was a question about a male friend of mine who' I have tried my hardest to get with him proper if you all know what I mean. Have taken advice from everyone here on YA sorry guys he's SO not having it what do I do now?!
2007-11-27 05:17:27 · 27 answers · asked by mandy r 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
We always want the one that rejects us ...... walk away.
2007-11-30 07:54:16 · answer #1 · answered by Been There Done That 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're going about it wrong. Men are sometimes neanderthal-like, so you got to do the opposite. Act like you don't want him. Have nothing more to do with him and see how fast he'll come around! Amazingly he will be drawn to you! And if not then you are already in that mindset that you don't want him anyways and it won't bother you as much. You go girl!
2007-11-28 02:17:15 · answer #2 · answered by gmoney 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Easy, get him drunk. But if you don't feel comfortable doing that then flirt with him and see what kind of responses you get, if hes still not into it... best I can suggest is just straight out tell him you want to get with him, even if its just bump buddies. Most guys won't turn that down unless hes got sincere morals, if thats the case then you're just out of luck
2007-11-27 13:20:50 · answer #3 · answered by Mrs. N™ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depending on your age. You can have the "thing" with him if ya know what I mean. Or just hang out. My advice, the time will come. Just wait!
2007-11-27 13:20:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you consider that he just wants to be friends, and don't want to cross that line. You might want to keep it that way because good friends are hard to find. It might be that the Lord has someone else in mind for you. Just pray and put in GOD'S hands and let it go.
2007-11-27 13:22:49 · answer #5 · answered by Prison Lt. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
next move, move on! he is not interesting in you that way. That is a clear cut picture, so move on and stop wasting your time. I am sure there are others would like to get with you proper (me included) smiling....
2007-11-27 13:23:55 · answer #6 · answered by Thomas 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hon, you have got to ask yourself why he's not biting. What straight man is going to turn down a woman who's been at him for so long. Unless your cousins of course.
2007-11-27 13:28:41 · answer #7 · answered by Brittny M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
friends into boyfriends is rare and usally does not work out.it can destroy a circle if friends and ruin your life.if he is not having any of it you cant make him.what you can learn from this is if you like someone and they don t like you can do little but be yourself.
hope that helped
not answering your question but what the hell is wrong with that guy up abve me ?
2007-11-27 13:22:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
LET IT GO!!!!
trying to change a man is like trying to change the spots on a cheetah. I can happen, but your gonna have to shoot the cheetah, and then use a paint can, and then it will just wash off later. It's not going to happen, you need to accept this.
2007-11-27 13:21:09 · answer #9 · answered by iRSquires 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on!
There are no magic words or actions you can take that will get him to like you and respect you.
Find the right guy and let this go.
2007-11-27 13:20:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave it alone. If you've tried subtle (and not so subtle) hints and he's not biting, he's just not that into you. If you force the issue, you could lose a good friend.
2007-11-27 13:21:22 · answer #11 · answered by Deb M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋