Boyfirend has recently moved in but doesn't help with his share of the housework. I have spoken to him about it and we had a big row and he said he was going to move out because he was sick of the nagging. When we both calmed down he changed his mind and i explained i needed helping out now there was double the washing,cleaning but it has gone back to what it was like before again.
Also these past couple of days he has not been trying it on which he usually does then in one day he had a shower in the morning and a bath in the evening and seemed like he was avoiding me???
2007-11-27 01:10:41 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He lived with his mum and she did it-told him i wouldn't be doing the same but it doesn't help.
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2007-11-27 01:20:30 · update #1
Maybe he's had an easy life prior to moving in with you,maybe had everything done for him,so now see's you as a nag because you are asking him to do his fair share of the chores,typically selfish if this is the case.
He maybe avoiding sex simply cos of all the arguing you've both been doing lately.
As for the shower in the morning and bath in the same evening,I can't really answer that one! Has he done this in the past and maybe you havn't noticed it too much cos everything was ok between you at the time so you thought it normal!
I wouldn't accuse him of straying just yet,if he is straying,other signs will show up as time goes by.
Avoiding sex is only one of the signs of straying but "not" always the case,other signs will show eventually if he is.
But you do need to make him see that these household chores are a two way thing and not just down to you,if he can't realise that,maybe he's just a lazy so and so that needs to wake up and visit the real world. If he doesn't,maybe it's time you had a rethink about your relationship together.
If he wants the nagging to stop,all he has to do is help you out with his share of the chores,it really is that simple,if that's all the problem really boils down to between you!
Sounds lazy and thoughtless to me!
2007-11-27 01:33:19 · answer #1 · answered by tinyfeet64 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Has he changed, what was his old home like? Filthy? If not then who did the clearing up? If he doesnt respect you enough to help with the housework, he wont respect you enough to stay faithful. And it wont be much fun going being in a relationship with him! The old two washes a day thing doesnt sound right for a guy who is willing to just leave the housework!
2007-11-27 01:18:53 · answer #2 · answered by Wonderwoman 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u should just clean and wash all your stuff and leave his stuff he will soon clean his act up and start helping as he will end up with nothing 2 wear or eat off
2007-11-27 01:27:54 · answer #3 · answered by in love and its great 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i realy think you know what to do,and in case you dont "get rid"!!
2007-11-27 01:19:26 · answer #4 · answered by fozz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋