So I'm the 20 yr old guy with feelings for the 27 yr old best friend who is married and has two kids. I don't want to lose his friendship but I need to get these feelings for him buried once and for all. If I tell him I love him more than a friend he will freak out and stop speaking to me. He's like an older brother, always looking out for me etc. Recently I decided to stop speaking to him even though we work together, I try to limit conversation but I feel really bad cause I know I'm hurting him.
How can I move on? I just want him to spend time with me...even though he's married and has kids I long to hang out with him like a normal friend. He's just so busy but at the same time I admire him.
How do I keep my best friend, dump this feelings and live happy?
2007-11-27 00:08:19 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Lol, I'm in the opposite situation, and hunnie it isn't easy, unless you honest with him about what you need, he can only fail you, and you can only blame you, an important lession I learned, and I'm still learning. But inorder for something like this to work you most take FRIENDSHIP and UNCONDITIONAL love hand and hand, can be a nice intense relaitonship thou, our ages, me 26, her 28
2007-11-30 05:10:47 · answer #1 · answered by Brutal Honesty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋