I'm 16 and he's 18 and we've been together for a year now.. about 4 months ago he said he wanted someone who will be able to move in with him and someone thats not in school.. with that in mind I told him I didnt plan on going back next year anyway (becos i didnt) and he agreed that we could keep going until then.. but just before me & my family were going to go on holiday we fought alot.. and decided on a break.. I got back 2 weeks later.. and he broke it off.. I just found out that later that night he called a girl from my school asking her if she wanted to go out.. they were going to have sex but her brother showed up so nothing happened.. a month later.. he asks me back out again.. becos we were still seeing each other and sleeping together.. Its just gone 1 year and now he's saying i'm too clingy. Becos I called him right after he left.. I just wanted to talk.. He has no idea how much this girl thing hurts me.. all I can do is get angry and cry!! Please Help. I love this boy!
2007-11-27 23:33:05 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
try to talk to your boyfriend about that situation and explain to him that you're not clingy.
-HeartBrokenForever (Diane N)
2007-11-27 23:42:53 · answer #1 · answered by ♫Di [Pro-Love, Anti-Hate]♫ 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Oh dear, you have become another woman who has let a man walk all over her, dont worry i have done it too and i know love is the power here....lol...
Ok what you need to do is read what you have just wrote, he sounds like he has messed you about a bit. Now bearing in mind you are both still young so it will be a while before he grows up and takes you seriously. If you want this to work you need to think about probably how much you obsess your life over him. It can become sobad sometimes that we can be clingy without realising. He has hurt you so he should be doing the making up and worrying not you.
You need to back off, make some more time for yourself and hanging out with your mates.
Do not make it too easy for him, he will never respect you. if you love him and want him then you need to be strong and get a little self respect back. Would you let someone treat your friend, sister, whoever this way? No...so dont you!!!
Read Dating without Drama, best book yo can ever buy on understanding where we go wrong!!!
2007-11-28 07:44:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I see nothing wrong with calling your boyfriend after he left. You have been with him a year. The fact he almost had sex with someone is the reason to leave him. It was the same day you had your fight. Show him you are not clingy. Dont paya ttention to him. Dont call him and dont answer the phone. Give him like three weeks where you dont talk to him and then let him come to you. At that point, hopefully, you are over him and dont want someone in your life who treats you this bad. Good luck!
2007-11-28 08:01:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey thats life for u! But i think he will be using u for his satisfaction I think the term is booty call for that situation sry dont know too much of slang lol. But I am a guy and well i know love sucks! Sometimes you just want to cry and get angry when things aint going the way u want it to go cause heck i do when every my heart is broken and trust me on this one i'm 18 also and i hang around with guys who has more than 1 girlfriend and trust me dont belive him now when he tell u he is sry he just want to have sex with u. But there is hope u will find the right guy soon.......
2007-11-28 07:47:24 · answer #4 · answered by Denz 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sex is not love!! he just wants sex little girl ! if u are 16 and he is 18 he can do jail time for statutory rape . , sex is not a toy either, it was designed by GOD to create a bond between a husband and a wife in a commited marriage .!!
why think its ok to give of yourself to anyone u be atrracted to sexually ?? its a very dangerous game both physically and emotionally ... when a person decide s to leave u then have this emotional connection to that person because u shared your body with them.. u connected on a physical level and this is what you miss when they move on.. ,
u meet someone and u think by being sexually active with them will make them love u and its sooo far from the truthand reality, if someone really cares and loves u they will wait untill after they marry to experiance the joy of sexual love together! ,
2007-11-28 07:50:36 · answer #5 · answered by mjbrightergem33 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You want to go through with a guy that can sleep around on you just like that? I don't see this relationship going very far without you being hurt....
2007-11-28 07:54:48 · answer #6 · answered by lievedebs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you called him left and right you probably are clingy, but it's also his fault for not telling you before. You can do better.
2007-11-28 07:42:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋