If someone cheats or leaves you what is the best revenge. Or just the best thing you can do?
2007-11-27 22:51:53 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
In my experience, shunning them, acting as if they've never existed and you couldn't care less whether they live or die. That seems to really get to them. While you're getting angry, and doing whatever to get back at them, you're just showing them you still have feelings for them. Zero emotional response works for me. Just move on quickly with your life.
2007-11-27 23:24:10 · answer #1 · answered by Sun is Shining ❂ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Accept reality and if they are a decent person forgive them, join them or move on. Revenge is a waste of time. Little, vicious minds abound with anger and revenge, and are incapable of feeling the pleasure of forgiving their enemies. It seems like you are young and you have not learned the facts of life:
1. There is no Santa
2. All men cheat, almost all women cheat
3. Marriage sucks
4. Everyone lies (you even lie to yourself)
5. Life is not fair
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2007-11-28 00:02:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best revenge is no revenge. Walk away with your head held high and show him how a person with dignity should act.
If that doesn't work have some fliers printed up with his or her
name and number and say for a good time call so and so day or night. Open 24 hrs. Go where the person lives and put them on every car you see and in mail boxes. Or go in as many restrooms as you can and write her name or his in the booth, for a good time anything goes male or female.
2007-11-27 23:10:07 · answer #3 · answered by Teenie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Understand one thing: the opposite of love is NOT hate, it's indifference. Revenge against a person means they are still controlling you. The ultimate revenge is to totally blank and ignore the person like they are invisible - it's more difficult, but just as effective in its own way.
The other problem with revenge - don't start a war in your own backyard... you don't know how it will end up.
2007-11-27 23:02:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The best revenge is move on find someone else get married be happy which is something they will never think of it
2007-11-27 22:56:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Do nothing. Karma is hell. What goes around, comes around. A friend of mine had his wife cheat with his best friend. The dude is now in jail and the chick is in some trailer in the middle of nowhere...divorced from each other now too. You may have to wait a while, but it will all come out in the wash!
2007-11-28 02:14:24 · answer #6 · answered by Really now 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best revenge is to show them that you don't need them to thrive and be happy. Especially when you found that special someone that makes you happy, they can't stand that.
Just don't be dating around like crazy, 'cause then they will say that you're trying to get over them with other guys
2007-11-27 23:39:42 · answer #7 · answered by lievedebs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to act as if they never existed. revenge will only make you feel worse. you will make yourself look bad in the situation, let the other person do that. best thing you can do is wish the other best of luck, hope it all works out for them. the world is round and what comes around, goes around. they will get thiers when its thier turn. dont make yourself look like the bad guy.
2007-11-27 23:02:12 · answer #8 · answered by jstagirl1969 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The best revenge is to be successful in whatever you do. Take the high road, dont be nasty.
2007-11-27 23:27:01 · answer #9 · answered by beentheredonethat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best revenge is to move on with your life and do better. find a man thats looks better, treat you better, loves you better. and you make yourself look better. there is no need to cut up clothes, scratch cars, or play games etc. just chop it up as a lesson learned and keep it moving. its called karma. what goes around comes around. GodBless
2007-11-27 23:14:27 · answer #10 · answered by Crystal G 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋