I am a 19 year old girl I have been seeing guy for over 2 months now the thing is we dont go on dates he usually just calls over to my house and we endf up having sex.When i suggest going to cinema or something he always makes excuses! Are relationships just about sex?Have never been in proper relationship so dont know how they work!
2007-11-27 23:38:16 · 12 answers · asked by rose18 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he is definitely using you for sex! Break up with him and move on to someone else who doesn't use you for sex. Don't even talk to him anymore.
-HeartBrokenForever (Diane N)
2007-11-27 23:44:36 · answer #1 · answered by ♫Di [Pro-Love, Anti-Hate]♫ 7 · 4⤊ 1⤋
Using yes. It sounds as if he has not had a healthy relationship before either.
You are young and do not have anything invested in the relationship. For those reasons I would drop him like a hot potato. There are many other guys out there that will treat you right and have sex. go find one of them. Good luck.
I think both of you need to speak to someone about your behavior. You openly admit to never being in a healthy relationship. This is not right or healthy Might i suggest you seek some form of counseling about your relationship problems.
2007-11-27 23:51:18 · answer #2 · answered by cpttango30 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Seems to me that SEX is the one thing he has in mind when he thinks of you by the way you explain things here!
You should really get on him about going out sometime to see a movie or what ever you decide to do.
GET HIM TO OPEN UP HIS MIND and let you know why he is always wanting to visit you at home instead of doing something else!!
2007-11-27 23:44:00 · answer #3 · answered by backyardbum 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh yes honey sounds to me like he probably has other girls on the side and you would be the "booty-call" Girl, that is awful that you let people treat you that way.. Sex is not love. Remember your are a good and worthy person and you deserve to be loved..You don't have to give it out so easily..It seems to me like you are desperately trying to find love..something happened to you to make you feel like a worthless person and that all you have to offer is your body..Men sense that you don't feel good about yourself..and take advantage of it..Sex will not fill the whole in your heart...You have to learn to love yourself before anyone will truly love you
2007-11-27 23:56:08 · answer #4 · answered by Dezy 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If the only thing you do when your together is have sex then i think you are being used. Ask him why he doesnt want to go anywhere or go out in public? Ask him outright why the only thing you do together is sleep with each other? If he cant come up with a reasonable explanation, get rid!
2007-11-27 23:44:44 · answer #5 · answered by Freckles2 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Usually you would go to the show first and then have sex, but if he's using you then you're the only one that can change that. Don't blame the guy because you're the one that's spreading your legs.
2007-11-28 00:10:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes. He only wants you for sex. Get rid of him and find a guy that respects you and treats you right.
2007-11-27 23:44:44 · answer #7 · answered by skrdude8389 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
In one word: YES!!!
Now, you have to figure out if you'd like to be used untill he's done with you, or if you want to keep some pride in yourself
2007-11-27 23:57:28 · answer #8 · answered by lievedebs 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He is using you as a booty call. Tell him that if he wants any more, he better start treating you with respect. If he leaves, you will have your answer!!!
2007-11-27 23:42:21 · answer #9 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
MAYBE HE FEELS YOU ARE USING HIM FOR SEX....AND NOT GOOD ENOUGH TO BE SEEN IN PUBLIC.....WHY IS THE GUY THE BAD GUY.........ITS PROB THE GIRL
2007-11-27 23:47:00 · answer #10 · answered by sympathy4theDEVIL 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋