this guys likes me.
he asked me out 3 times already and i turned him down everytime.
he is known as a cheater. he cheats on all his girlfriends. every single one. sometimes more than once. girls are stupid for going out with him because they know hes a cheater.
he also is the "right now" kind of guy. [as in he obsesses over what is right now instead of his actual girlfriend. example: he would hold hands with one girl on the bus. then snuggle with another girl in the bleachers 30 minutes later then get really close to the other girl that night. he moves on to quickly and forgets what he said he wanted 5 minutes ago when someone else comes into the picture]
he tells me that he has changed. and he wont cheat on me. he also said that if he cheats on me he will go gay.[that is exactly what he said]
i believe in the saying once a cheater always a cheater.
what is your opinion on my situation.
do you think im right?
or should i give him a chance?
2007-11-25 11:00:57 · 23 answers · asked by forever unknown 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
dont date him if you know he is a cheater....all guys say they change and in reality they are doing it behind your back and you wont find out til its too late
2007-11-25 11:04:10 · answer #1 · answered by twirlingbunny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don`t go out wiht him my ex boyfriend was known as a cheater an dhe broke my heart sometimes though they actually do change but i mean like 2% of the time.If you like him and want to give him a chance then you`re crazy.
2007-11-25 11:07:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can give him a chance, but make sure you are always keeping your eyes open and know what his every move is. The second he does something to make you doubt his intentions, you dump him and tell him you don't want to deal with his crap. It's not worth it for you to get hurt...but giving him a chance is a good thing to do as long as you keep an eye on him! And take it slow!
2007-11-25 11:11:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lady, I you believe that bunch of crap that if he cheat on you that he will go gay!!! If you fall for that line and date him. You deserve be been cheated on, I know this sound rude to you but its the truth. One thing, he will go gay for you or any other female! That is be biggest crap I hear ever from a user. Stay the heck away from him and make it clear to him. Don't listen to any thing that come out of his mouth.
You will be right to stay away from him and Heck no don't give him a chance in heck!
2007-11-25 11:12:57 · answer #4 · answered by Thomas 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
while its not always true that a cheater will always cheat in this case he is just saying it ---- if he wants to truly prove to you he has changed then for a period he sees no other lady --- if at the end of that time he has not cheated then consider going out with him ---- that i think is an excellent way to sort him out ---- best wishes
2007-11-25 11:07:43 · answer #5 · answered by trader1867 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you are completely right. the fact that you wont let yourself be like one of those other girls probably makes you irresistible to him, so dont count on him giving up. but i also believe once a cheater alway a cheater. similar things have happened to me, like the whole "ive changed" thing. definitely not true. i dont think that changes.
2007-11-25 11:05:59 · answer #6 · answered by li 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-30 04:05:40 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You said that he is all about the right now. Why don't you tell him that if he really wants you, he'll have to wait a certain amount of time, and if he does, then you'll know if he really likes you.
2007-11-25 11:05:17 · answer #8 · answered by littleshelly19 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are right. is seems that the only reason he like you is because you are hard to get. if you truly like him then i wouldn't go for him unless you 100% know he wont be unfaithful. trust is one of the most important things in a relationship so if you don't have that you don't have anything
2007-11-25 11:06:52 · answer #9 · answered by here2help 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah I 'll think ur right but about the cheating thing I don't think he's cheating I think he's trying to be a player and don't know how i won't give him a chance b/c he will break ur heart like he did all his ex's
2007-11-25 11:06:13 · answer #10 · answered by flickadreamergirl2007 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋