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2007-11-25 13:34:33 · 31 answers · asked by justinmnz 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Email me details and I will give you lots of good advice. But trust me, your partner will not change for the better, only for the worse.
2007-11-25 13:39:45 · answer #1 · answered by lcmcpa 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Well, I've been in a relationship for over 2 years and finally have become alot better at expressing my feelings completely. My partner was and is very understanding. Trust is key in a relationship and if after one and a half years there is still hesitation opening up to you about things you preceive as lying and hiding, let him know that it isn't working.
In many songs, it's the same line, "If you love something, let it go. If it comes back it's yours".
2007-11-25 13:42:12 · answer #2 · answered by Sexy Ray 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello...
Are you in love? blind, deaf and dumb?....
Take a smart pill or something. And besides, your calling this a relationship?
Better check and make sure or is that hiding also?
If you are so smart and know your partner is lying and hiding things, Well why can't you lie and hide things???
After 1.5 years. WoW you should be used to it by now.
I would never be put into a hard up situation as this one. So Get OFF The Bus Gus....
2007-11-25 13:43:23 · answer #3 · answered by clara M. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get out now!!! People tend to get worse, not better. Trust me, I almost married a guy who was slightly angry during the time we were dating and downright abusive by the time we were engaged. I thought I should stay with him because he did have some good qualities, I thought I loved him, and I didn't want the years I had spent with him to be a waste. You deserve so much better than this. Lying and hiding things now means cheating on you and stealing from you in the future. Which will rob you of your self esteem and leave you feeling used and worthless. You deserve so much better!!!!
2007-11-25 13:40:22 · answer #4 · answered by mandilu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time to move on.
This person is not in it for the long haul.
This is not a partnership.
FIRST you need to gather anything of importance and lock it up. Have your bank and other financial statements hitting a PO box instead. You need to take these steps.
With control over all of that established, you can pack your stuff, find another place and move out...
or if your name is on the lease, ask your "soon to be ex" partner to move out by a certain date.
You have been in this relationship long enough to be considered "common law married".
2007-11-25 13:43:16 · answer #5 · answered by revsuzanne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should not continue on with that partner...lying and hiding are NOT going to go well with a good relationship if that's what you want.
2007-11-25 13:37:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A relationship is built on trust and it seems like the trust is not there. One thing I have learned the hard way is that it takes more than just love to make a relationship work.
2007-11-25 13:37:39 · answer #7 · answered by :) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is not a relationship you are in dear.........dump that "partner" (that is not really a "partner" ASAP!! then go out and find another and hopefully learn what a "relationship" is! It is NOT lying and hiding things - that will NOT get better!!RUN
2007-11-25 13:38:35 · answer #8 · answered by silly questions 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude just bounce, I know its easier said then done. But theres other fish in the sea. People are afraid of changes. If you confronted the person about this problem already then this is the only answer. If not try to work it out.
2007-11-25 13:37:29 · answer #9 · answered by Apollo 1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i was in a relationship for 4 years and the whole time he did the same thing and kept saying he was sorry and wouldnt do it again most of the time they dont change get out now it better now then to wait 4 years when its harder
2007-11-25 13:37:51 · answer #10 · answered by **lelands mommy** 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋