2007-11-25 13:31:58 · 21 answers · asked by carol 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Dump him and read "He's Just Not That Into You" by Greg Behrendt and Liz Tuccillo...you deserve better!!! Good Luck!
2007-11-25 13:35:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No matter what if he is cheating on you and you have proof you just need to walk out the door. No one should ever treat another person that way. If he has cheated once chances are he will do it again and again. Run as fast as you can and don't look back.
2007-11-25 13:37:11 · answer #2 · answered by Makingitwork 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Be positive he is cheating.
Catch him.
Of course he does not want to talk about it. He probably knows that he does not have to talk about it.
If you know that he is cheating .. and he knows that you know he is cheating .. and he won't talk about it .. then he must think that you will stay with him reguardless if he cheats, or not.
You have a choice. You can stay, and accept his cheating. Or .. you can leave him - and never look back.
Once a cheater, always a cheater.
It's your decision about what you want to put into your life. If he gets away with it .. it will probably happen many more times. Is this how you want to live your life?
2007-11-25 13:41:22 · answer #3 · answered by Tara 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you know he is cheating, then honestly there shouldn't be any talking at all. If you are living with him, toss his stuff on the on the lawn and change the locks!
Once a cheater, always a cheater! You deserve better than that!
2007-11-25 13:36:07 · answer #4 · answered by terribrooke 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think alot of people have already said this, but...
if he isn't willing to admit it, or talk about it, then it probably means that he has no intention on stopping.
You're going to have to walk away from this relationship. Save yourself the heartache. You know the truth, and that's all that matters.
No use in fighting for a man who isn't willing to fight for you!
Save yourself the trouble.
2007-11-25 15:06:28 · answer #5 · answered by darkening_hope 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just say...if our reletionship isn't worth you being faithful to me than I don't want anything to do with you anymore. You deserve better...and I know it's hard but in the end your better off as everyone is saying. He is not man anough to take responsibility and talk about it. Good luck....kick that boy to the curb and find a MAN!!!
-Mel-
2007-11-25 13:41:29 · answer #6 · answered by Simplicity ♫ 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you know he is cheating on you then move on, he is going to continue to do it. Matter of fact tell him, that it is over and your done with the mess. Part of me wants to tell you to tell him what is good for the goose is good for the gander but that is immature, so just tell him to hit the highway!!! I wish you the best!!!
2007-11-25 13:38:28 · answer #7 · answered by stefanibrown74 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Men cheat alright, tell him u know what he did and that you have forgiven him , tell him u talked to God about his deed and that u asked God not to let the devil take advantage of him ever again,
2007-11-26 21:53:13 · answer #8 · answered by SLEEPING S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is the need to talk about it? Just to hash it out? It won't make the situation go away and it won't fix a thing.
Leave him and move on. You'll find no closure here.
2007-11-25 13:41:13 · answer #9 · answered by Voice_Of_Reason 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Get rid of him. You are allowing him to cheat. He does not want to talk about it because he wants you to be quiet and allow him to continue. I would not do that.
2007-11-25 13:50:26 · answer #10 · answered by kim h 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋