Family & Relationships - 25 November 2007

please be honest. i know it may be long but i really need advice! i will appriciate it a lot. Did he lead me on??? this guy i work with and i have been flirting for 3 months. he started flirting with me first and all i did was respond to it. he would always give me hugs all the time, and one time after work he asked me if i had a boyfriend and what do i look for in a guy. he also told me that he has been single for a year because in his past relationship his girl cheated on him. and i remember one time when he hugged me he slightly touched my *ss. but anyways i know for a fact that he was interested in me and i fell for him hard. so one day we were talking on msn and i asked him when he wants to chill cuz he would always say i should come over and visit him sometime and he said "i have to see when im available" i was like okay. also before i asked him if he was talking to anyone meaning if he is dating anyone and he said no. then 2 weeks later we have this conversation on msn:

2007-11-25 15:21:21 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

If you saw my other question im having a 13th bday party and inviting a crush but the twist is i havent told him i like him yet and..... ive been absent from school for like forever so i cant tell him what do i do?!?!?!?!

2007-11-25 15:21:01 · 4 answers · asked by cheergurl5678 2 in Singles & Dating

We hit it off really well. It was like we were perfect for each other.He was what I was looking for in a guy. He is afraid of getting hurt. He's been divorced for 5 years. He is afraid of commitment. He has no kids & was married for only 2 yrs. We are 10 years apart in age. He came on real strong which I didn't mind though I was a little reserved/nervous. We were together from 8/07 to 10/07. We both have a lot of loose ends to tie in our personal lives. He wanted me to be divorced & turn 30. He wanted me to have alone time-from men. I ended it b/c he didnt always call me. He sent me text messages. We spent weekends together. One week in Oct. He let a whole week go by before calling me-he just sent text messages. He is currently changing careers-stressful. I found myself always staring @ the phone. He wanted to wait til Dec. to move forward. His actions were inconsistent which drove me crazy. I was insecure & ended it.He said I feel sick when it ended. He hasnt called-miss him

2007-11-25 15:20:09 · 10 answers · asked by worrisome96 1 in Singles & Dating

ok so my boyfriend and i broke up a few months ago and since then i've met this other guy and we've been casually hooking up. but just for fun, we arn't boyfriend and girlfriend. today my boyfriend asked me to get back together and i said yes but i'm now having second thoughts because even though i miss my boyfriend i'm starting to have feelings for this other guy. i don't know what to do. any suggestions?

2007-11-25 15:18:52 · 1 answers · asked by girl in boots =) 1 in Singles & Dating

I've been using many online dating services within the last few years. I wondered if maybe I am doing something wrong. It seems my profile doesn't get many hits. I have posted pics and written about myself in the sections where it says to do so. Is there something that I should know? How can I get noticed more? Does anyone have any tips on writing a profile essay that really gets you noticed? What has worked for you? Any advice here would be truly appreciated.

2007-11-25 15:17:44 · 5 answers · asked by SoAZ Gal 6 in Singles & Dating

My wife and I were at our neihbor's for thier Son's B-day (our son is same age). The husband was complaining to me that they his wife was always too tired etc... for sex. when we got home, my wife started telling me how she was complaining because he is never willing to watch the kids (I didn't know a parent had a choice), he didn't cook, do laundry and complained that she is always too tired. So I thought... if a beautiful women said "for every hour of work, we will have sex one time" would you do it??? Well, convert helping the wife around the house (and watch your own children for goodness sake) and maybe she won't be so tired, and maybe then you can have some time together. Of course, it may just result in YOU being too tired, but hey, then at least you won't complain.

2007-11-25 15:17:14 · 12 answers · asked by tom s 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-25 15:17:13 · 7 answers · asked by nomorecapri 5 in Marriage & Divorce

i love him too much,i thinking of him everyday..and always feel like seeing him.but i wanna stop this and we cannot be together because he always cheated me..so now i trying to hate him but how?

2007-11-25 15:15:38 · 5 answers · asked by KaiYe T 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-11-25 15:14:36 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-25 15:12:43 · 23 answers · asked by i cant think of a nickname 1 in Marriage & Divorce

There is a girl in one of my classes that I like. She seems kind of shy, the only person that she initiates a conversation with is her best friend, who is in the class. Whenever I talk with her she has a huge smile on her face and seems very interested. Recently her friend has been glancing at me. I have no clue what this means. I am shy too, so its hard to know if she is interested in me or not. What are the chances that she likes me?

2007-11-25 15:10:08 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am not a big hugger with anyone other than my girlfriend, and close family. In one of the groups of friends I hang out with, some of the girls will come up a lot and hug. I just don't like that, especially because some of them seem to do it because they like me, and I am not interested a bit in them. In any case, would it be okay if I told them I just am not into the whole "hug everytime you see someone" thing.

2007-11-25 15:09:49 · 16 answers · asked by lend322 4 in Singles & Dating

Mine looks so much like me it spooks my husband! I really do have very large dark eyes and I do wear my hair layered down both sides like that - have done for years, although my haircolour is a little less red, a bit lighter. Are you scared people will recognise your avatar as you?

2007-11-25 15:09:44 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

You see,My friends look "Bad" and my parents will not trust me anymore.
i know you earn your trust back...but this just wont happen.
i could go for 5 years straight super good,and still,wont trust me.
they arent like other parents.
You tell them something,they think about it,and say Ok.
My dad,i tell him i threw a soda can at a bush,and i leave for a second,and he checks if its a soda can...then if its not..if its like liquor or something,he gets mad and wont stop bugging me.
Yes,i have thought of suiciding,its just TOO MUCH.
IM TIRED....

2007-11-25 15:08:32 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I have only ever been able to orgasam when a man goes down on me, never by regular intercourse, I know ithas to be somethig wrong with me, it's not the men that I have been with, well at least not all of them. I can't help but feel that I am missing out on something...any ideas?

2007-11-25 15:07:15 · 9 answers · asked by Tiffany W 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband of 20 years has no interest in having sex with me. If we do have it then its once a month thing and he makes it seem as if it is a chore. He can only keep an erection with oral sex nothing else. I am so attracted to him and want it as much as I can get it. I am at a point now where I am thinking about cheating but have not at this point.

2007-11-25 15:06:32 · 8 answers · asked by nightplay205 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Im 17 and i have dated a few guys in my life... the ones that ive dated i liked alot and always got those butterfly feelings and that love struck stuff... but the boyfriend i have now.. i have like for a long time and never thought i would have a chance with him and whenever i saw him i got those feelings but we never really talked... now that we are dating i dotn get those feelings... i really do like him i mean i LOVE HIM! its almost been 2 months now... but y dont i get those feelings inside like i did with the other guys???????

2007-11-25 15:04:55 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

with your partner....
I like to sit in the couch watching t.v hugging her and drinking a cup of choclate..

2007-11-25 15:03:07 · 6 answers · asked by SMILEY 2 in Marriage & Divorce

fear and worries if the time comes that we will meet in person.. im scared and so is he... he is in US and im here in the phils..

we want to get married also.. he will file for fiance visa..

2007-11-25 15:01:51 · 3 answers · asked by Kiss 2 in Singles & Dating

My fiance' previously agreed with my idea of a May wedding with lilac, pale silver, and white for colors. Now he isn't so sure that he wants a spring wedding, and is favoring fall. I love fall as a season, but not for weddings. Where we live the weather isn't always nice, and I'm not fond of fall colors in a wedding i.e. red, orange, etc. And my spring color scheme definitely couldn't be used for fall...could it? *Sigh.* I really had my heart set on May.

2007-11-25 15:00:36 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

this boy who was my freind asked me out pretty much every day in one way or another i kept flip flopping and giving him mixed messages about where we were and finally i confessed some emotions this weekend and he aksed me out and i said yes. i told him that my parents had a problem with me dating him. but anyway i met him at the park to tell him that I couldnt see him so my freind went with me and forcing us to kiss. ( he was a lip vrgin) and so then he kept looking at me and then looking away all nervous then i was like for crying out loud and i pushed him against a fence and kissed him and he kissed me open mouth and bad and then i backed away and said what am i doing and then i kinda ran away. that is the oppositeof what i came to the park for)some animalistic this came over me( i called and apologized to him and it will be all over school tomorrow. and i NEVER do this EVER im very conservative actually. what do i do about him and the rumors that will be going around school tomorow

2007-11-25 15:00:29 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

its froglette.i am a12 yr old girl that gets constantly picked on in school with this namewhen the teachers call me name i get red-faced, and embarresedis there any way i can change my name??or get my parent to change it for me?!pleasei need help every day i get harressted ive been telling people to call me fredia since last year, but people still see my name in the yearbook and stuff, and people make fun of me,people say im a nice looking girl, but my name ruins it for the guys'any where i can go to do change me name, or how to get used to it, or ask my parent to change it???!!!!!!!**
help


ps, my parent even sometimes call meby my full name, froglette Leann parkhouse taylor McCalester
its embarssing

dont ask me why they named me this, cuz i ask them all the time
and they say "becuase we love you and we have the freedom to name our child whatever we want, "

IDEAS!!

2007-11-25 14:58:06 · 33 answers · asked by cheeronmandy 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

She's loud and obnoxious. Clingy, controling, and addicted to talking about her daughter every single second of every single day to me and everyone else. She always hangs out with me and my friends EVERYWHERE we go, comes to my house uninvited, and is always up her daughter's butt all of the time. She makes plans with her daughter's friends (including me) and decides what we should do on the weekends. She makes calls to all of her daughter's friends just to talk (for hours on end). Seriously, I don't know what to do anymore. No one in my family can stand her anymore, and neither can I. However, when I lightly mentioned it to her, she flipped out like a psycho, and bashed on me.

How can I tell her to seriously get a life, stop talking about her daughter like it's an addiction, and stop hanging out with her friends like she's an acual teenager?

She's loud and annoying... I can't take it anymore, I want to shoot myself.

PLEASE HELP!

2007-11-25 14:57:01 · 5 answers · asked by Amara 3 in Friends

2007-11-25 14:55:25 · 21 answers · asked by Princess 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

well i usually am the one that people come to for advice and i most allways have the rite thing to tell them, but i am the one that needs the advice this go round. i cant figure out what to do or say to this girl that i am trying to get back together with. we have been talking about it and we both think that we should give it another chance but she just says that she needs some time to put herself back together from the relationship she just got out of like two monthes ago. well i am in no way trying to rush her in to falling back in love with me but i want to help her in any way i can. but i need to know what to say and what to do. i hate to say it but it seams as though i have run out of advice and i need yours, so please help.

2007-11-25 14:52:57 · 2 answers · asked by get er done 2 in Singles & Dating

So theres this guy, lets call him Frank, and my best friend, lets call her Matilda, used to date Frank. They dated for 2 whole years. Then they broke up this year. So I liked Frank and he liked me, so he asked me out, but we decided to keep it secret. Maddie found out and is now mad at me because she said that I lied. Now I feel really bad, but I don't know if it's really my fault. What do I do?!?

2007-11-25 14:52:27 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i just need this to be read. i m young, almost 14, but ALL of my friends and everyone i know have had boyfriends and girlfriends but i havent!!!!!!!!!! not even had my 1st kiss and i know its just the right guys not here 4 me now but id even settle for the wrong guy with the mood im in. ive always been the one who gets crushes ridiculously easy, from characters in books to TV to ppl i hardly know. whats wrong with me/????

2007-11-25 14:49:48 · 11 answers · asked by purple_daydream94 2 in Singles & Dating

With his/her best friend?
Situation is like this, lets say u know ur gf/bf for about 1 year and u love her but u dont feel the exciment anymore and u want to try something new.And u have a crush on his/her bf but u know that crush is gonna last just couple of days and that ur going to get back to ur gf/bf again...would u still do it?
Haha just for the record im not in that situation...lol

2007-11-25 14:44:22 · 49 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was engaged to a British. I am American and always been with an American men. They range from 5-10". This guy was 2'' at his best. Is this average for British men?

2007-11-25 14:44:07 · 10 answers · asked by taken2007 2 in Singles & Dating

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2007-11-25 14:42:30 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating