i just need this to be read. i m young, almost 14, but ALL of my friends and everyone i know have had boyfriends and girlfriends but i havent!!!!!!!!!! not even had my 1st kiss and i know its just the right guys not here 4 me now but id even settle for the wrong guy with the mood im in. ive always been the one who gets crushes ridiculously easy, from characters in books to TV to ppl i hardly know. whats wrong with me/????
2007-11-25 14:49:48 · 11 answers · asked by purple_daydream94 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
nothings wrong w/u, i'm 16 and i feel like that sometimes, its ok ur just a normal teen, dont feel presure from your peers, just be yourself, guys will luv you for that, just wait for the right guy, he'll come along!
2007-11-25 14:55:01 · answer #1 · answered by Cassie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're young and in some of the most intense stages of puberty. Your hormones are raging and so is your mind, which often times obscures your judgement and make you think things and feel certians ways that you really shouldn't. This is totally normal and you will get over this stage in due time, probably before you hit 14 and definetly after you do.
You're so young right now that I would try not to worry about that dating to much if I were you. I didn't go on my first date until I was 15 but after I had my first date I started feeling the way you do and I went kind of crazy for a while there. It's a normal faze that everybody goes through and you'll survive, it just takes time.
Still, if you really want a boyfriend, I would suggest dating somebody within your age range for sure. No older than 14. It might be hard to get guys interested in you at that age, but if you can find somebody who likes you and is around your age then that's great. But if you can't, try to forget about it all for now and not worry about dating or boyfriends until you're a little older. At your young age I can almost guanrantee the friends that you have that have 'boyfriends' and 'girlfriends' aren't nearly as serious as older people's relationships. So therefore it's nothing to really worry about. Live your life and enjoy the rest of your young years before you fall into a serious relationship. That's the only real advice I can give you. =)
Best wishes.
2007-11-25 22:59:04 · answer #2 · answered by Michael 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is absolutely nothing wrong with you, it's simply not your time yet, it will come but don't dispair. Gosh I remember when I had this huge crush on Johnny Deep when he first started on tv back in the days of 21 jump street you are too young to remember that show but your mom im sure knows what im talking about Never settle for second best it's not worth it.
2007-11-25 22:56:54 · answer #3 · answered by Bellisima 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're immature and young, and that's not depression you're feeling. You're just upset because you want a boyfriend. You're way too young to be feeling depression. Just wait until you get older.
First and foremost, I promise the sun will still rise even if you don't have a boyfriend. I promise you won't die if you have have a boyfriend, either. You need to RELAX and realize that you're only 14. Stop acting like you're 80. You have more than enough time to get all the boyfriends you want.
2007-11-25 22:59:28 · answer #4 · answered by Abby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is not a thing wrong with you and this is only a part of growing up. Many of those with boyfriends are going to end up getting pregnant before they are ready to or will be on here asking why the guy dumped her. You are very emotional and there is nothing wrong with that but you need to raise your self esteem so that you don't end up with the wrong guy. and you will be far happier in the long run, I promise you.
2007-11-25 22:57:06 · answer #5 · answered by Al B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont worry Im 15, and two of my friends share that same situation. They get deppressed too. But i tell them they shouldnt feel pressured. Theres a guy out there coming for you. Just wait for the right time.
2007-11-25 22:57:55 · answer #6 · answered by rriders35 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG? 14? That's way to young!!! I was 16 when I had my first kiss. It was uber special. The longer you wait the more special your first kiss will be.
2007-11-25 22:55:18 · answer #7 · answered by Sara Rae 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be careful 14 you could end as a statistic with that attitude. be happy where your at. your not really missing to much. take your feelings know multiply by ten and that's what a bad relationship is like.
2007-11-25 23:00:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no reason to be depressed. You're too young to be depressed. And you're not too old to have not had a boyfriend left, believe me there will be time for that in high school. Lots of time :)
2007-11-25 22:54:24 · answer #9 · answered by pieninja 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
D*MN your 14
Nothing is wrong with you
2007-11-25 22:57:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋