With his/her best friend?
Situation is like this, lets say u know ur gf/bf for about 1 year and u love her but u dont feel the exciment anymore and u want to try something new.And u have a crush on his/her bf but u know that crush is gonna last just couple of days and that ur going to get back to ur gf/bf again...would u still do it?
Haha just for the record im not in that situation...lol
2007-11-25 14:44:22 · 49 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Haha STEFY ur so right, i would of use to say that every1 said, but its not like that, trust me...and btw i dont know a damn girl who did not cheated on his bf in 1st week!!!
2007-11-25 23:13:18 · update #1
HOLLY CRAP! i hope this never happens to me! well first of all i would never do such a thing its like saying i'm sick of you, you dont excite me anymore i'm going to be with your best friend for a while ohhh but dont worry this will last 2 weeks and as soon as i'm tired of him i'll come back for you!!! haha poor guy!
2007-11-25 15:17:12 · answer #1 · answered by Mili 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I can only speak from my own experiences...
When I was young, I married. He cheated and we grew apart after having one son and growing into our mid 20's. I remarried (sadly at 26) and was with someone who was not capable of an emotional bond, I cheated with a friend for comfort and attention, I do not regret it, I was divorced by age 30. Now, on 3rd marriage (at age 42) after being single in my 30's, I have matured and have found my soul mate. I would never cheat because we are honest and committed, and we would never let things get to the point of needing another or drifting apart emotionally.
2007-11-25 14:51:38 · answer #2 · answered by kittykris2002 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
NEVER!! There are always going to be some low times in every relationship. You have to work through them, together!! It will make you a better person and a stronger couple!! Also,if you know you would get back together with them in the end, why would you want to take a chance and get some kind of disease and give it to the person that you are suppose to "love"? By the way, I am glad that you are not in that situation!!
2007-11-25 14:51:17 · answer #3 · answered by Trea (pron.tree) 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
There is absolutly NO cheating allowed in life. Period. thats if you even like your bf/gf best friend a little you should end the relationship your in. Its not fair to your partner or yourself. End it dont CHEAT!!! No No No think about how you will hurt everyone involved, and in the long run you will feel miserable.
2007-11-25 14:52:33 · answer #4 · answered by none 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would I? If it's only going to last a couple of days than it's not worth it. The relationship lasted a year for a reason...no need to crumble a whole year.
If someone doesn't feel the excitement anymore then they have to make the excitement themselves. Do things differently. Don't cheat. Don't. Ever. Cheat.
2007-11-25 14:49:56 · answer #5 · answered by Meagan H 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
The answer to your 1st question is NO, that's just plain cold to do to a gf/bf!! and the answer to your 2nd question is still a No!! if you are however, then your a real player and you need serious help!! bullcrap why did you ask the questions in the 1st place if you ain't in this situation!!!
2007-11-25 15:09:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The thing is we all say no... but go out there and ask the world if they have cheated and a good percent will say yes [if honest]. It's temptation and the control of it is very important... but it's one of the hardest. No I don't think I'd do it, and with best friend that's just not cool lol.
2007-11-25 14:52:27 · answer #7 · answered by Stefy! 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I would never cheat. If the 'excitement' is gone i would end the relationship. As for the crush, I don't know that I would ever date an ex's best friend. That might be awkward for all involved.
2007-11-25 14:47:47 · answer #8 · answered by mcq316 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Not in a situation like that, i would never cheat.
But lets saii im not that serious abwt a guy who ive met recently, and i find someone better, id go for it because the other guy doesnt mean anything.....
2007-11-26 04:18:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its human nature to want something more, or something better. Its up to you to not put yourself in a situation that will tempt you. If it means that you have to cut that person off then so be it. In the long run you will hate yourself for hurting the person that you really care about.
2007-11-25 15:03:12 · answer #10 · answered by JCarson 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋