i love him too much,i thinking of him everyday..and always feel like seeing him.but i wanna stop this and we cannot be together because he always cheated me..so now i trying to hate him but how?
2007-11-25 15:15:38 · 5 answers · asked by KaiYe T 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You don't necessarily have to hate him but make a list of all that is wrong with him, the fact he cheated on you for example/ To get over him, start dating others and make new friends and do things to keep you busy. I will give you a site to raise your self esteem since often there is a loss of self esteem after a break up. Tell yourself he was a frog you kissed and you are stil looking for the prince and you will find him.
2007-11-25 15:22:20 · answer #1 · answered by Al B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can NEVER hate someone you truely love..... True love lasts forever.. You can hate the way someone treats you, the way they act... but never hate that person.
That is why people still love their children NO MATTER WHAT... It is an unconditional true love.
Also: kudo's to you for knowing that you should not be with him... You deserve someone that will treat you with the respect you deserve... Someone who will never cheat on you. Time will ease the pain, but there will always be a part of you that loves him.
Good Luck- this stuff is never fun.
2007-11-25 23:23:50 · answer #2 · answered by think about that~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im so glad you chose to not be with him anymore! Trust me, you made a great choice! Just go out with your friends and keep yourself occupied. I like to read a good book to escape my life and experience someone elses...be strong, its for your own good!
good luck!
2007-11-25 23:23:43 · answer #3 · answered by BumblebeeQueen84 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
its soooo ahrd to hate someone u love. you should tell him how you feel and mabey he wont do it again. or even just be good friends. you dont always have to hate ur ex. i have my ex that is dumb but we hang still so much
2007-11-25 23:19:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't think of the good things always think of the negative things
2007-11-25 23:22:40 · answer #5 · answered by jeannieboop 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋