I have only ever been able to orgasam when a man goes down on me, never by regular intercourse, I know ithas to be somethig wrong with me, it's not the men that I have been with, well at least not all of them. I can't help but feel that I am missing out on something...any ideas?
2007-11-25 15:07:15 · 9 answers · asked by Tiffany W 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You just need clitoral stimulation to orgasm, not a big issue. There are sex toys that you can get that will help you with get the stimulation you need during regular intercourse. You might also, over time have them through regular intercourse.
2007-11-25 15:12:53 · answer #1 · answered by edrcormier 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
nicely this is totally regularly occurring to take it sluggish to till now having an orgasm collectively as having intercourse and regardless of that it could take time to have them in many situations. the main suitable component which you're able to do is relax and only have relaxing something will incorporate it no pun meant. so a techniques as soreness back you should sit down down back and likewise only make certain you're having sufficient foreplay and start up off slowly with the intercourse kinda ease into it and it will rather help with the soreness. i'm an particularly small individual and nevertheless ought to start up intercourse this way every time so as that i will stroll day after at present and that's even after being married to the comparable guy for extremely just about 10 years. female hit their sexual height of their early to mid 30's do only not positioned too plenty stress on your self to have one in the process intercourse because of the fact having an orgasm is psychological besides as actual the extra you do it and test with new issues and positions you will discover what works to get you off and it will turn into much less tense and much less tense to have an orgasm in the process intercourse.
2016-12-10 06:13:05 · answer #2 · answered by stockett 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My friend Kris wants to answer:
I was just wondering if you have ever been with or interested in women? I asked this because if you can't get off by regular intercourse then maybe you should just get with a woman because I don't understand why you continue to have sex a man if you don't get off by it. I mean if you're only having orgasms when he's going down on you then maybe you should just get with a woman so that you could have that type of thing on regular basis instead of doing a man and doing extra stuff that you are not even getting off on.
Hey if you want a dick just buy one or have her give you the finger.
I mean whatever gets you off!!
2007-11-25 15:24:41 · answer #3 · answered by Nina1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are in the majority of females who do not experience an orgasm by intercourse alone. Your clit has to be able to be stimulated. So relax...there is nothing wrong with you at all!
You could try being the one on top ...or get some sex books to give you more ideas to spice things up in the area.
2007-11-25 15:11:58 · answer #4 · answered by sticky J 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you just need to experiment more with different positions and stuff until you find "the one". But yeah...oral sex makes it like a million times easier to orgasm. Just have fun with it and change things up, i'm pretty sure that will help.
2007-11-25 15:14:22 · answer #5 · answered by mrazle 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I dont know , but its exactly the same with me i can only "get there" from clitoral stimulation :( i wanna no what the other way feels like
2007-11-25 15:11:12 · answer #6 · answered by w j 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would suggest there is nothing wrong with you merely the guys ---- it could be they are just not really trying to stimulate you whereas with oral they need to pay more attention to what pleases you ---- so do things differently --- spend more time on foreplay (yes i know most young guys have NO idea what that means) ---- have fun
2007-11-25 15:15:54 · answer #7 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Relax and give w j a call...you both could work things out!
2007-11-25 15:35:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's normal for woman
because most don't have orgasms from just penetration.
this just means you are normal.
this happens because your getting exact stimulation to the clitoris
2007-11-25 15:10:50 · answer #9 · answered by kingml213 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋