You see,My friends look "Bad" and my parents will not trust me anymore.
i know you earn your trust back...but this just wont happen.
i could go for 5 years straight super good,and still,wont trust me.
they arent like other parents.
You tell them something,they think about it,and say Ok.
My dad,i tell him i threw a soda can at a bush,and i leave for a second,and he checks if its a soda can...then if its not..if its like liquor or something,he gets mad and wont stop bugging me.
Yes,i have thought of suiciding,its just TOO MUCH.
IM TIRED....
2007-11-25 15:08:32 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
If you are under 21 and your parents are finding liquor in your possession, they should get mad at you and bug you because THEY LOVE YOU. If you know that your friends are "BAD" then get other friends. You don't have to dump these "BAD" friends but you don't need to devote your life to them. With maturity, you'll understand that these other people are not as important as they seem to be. I'm sure there are alot of other decent friends out there for you.
2007-11-25 15:15:40 · answer #1 · answered by YJohnY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Advice from an old man, show me your friends, I'll show you YOU! Keep in mind the old saying, fool me once, shame on you, fool me twice, shame on me. Your parents must have a reason for not trusting you, and trust is very difficult to earn back. Also please keep in mind, if your parents didn't love you and care for you, they wouldn't be bothered with what you do and how you live. Others have advised a non-confrontational discussion with your parents. Good advice.
2007-11-25 15:33:05 · answer #2 · answered by Cecil n 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
life is short, meaning time goes by fast, before you know it you'll be out on yout own, let them check all they want, you can kinda look at it in a silly way, they care to much, let them do it. Most parents don't care what their kids do... wwhich is too bad, thats how alot of things go wrong, maybe the look of your friends make them feel that way...You know if a big dog keep jumping and snapping at you, you would assume he wants to bite,,,but maybe he wants to lick you.....soon enough you'll be out on your own, the best thing you can do is make them proud, tha way they will think it's because of the tough love they gave you...is what made you a good kid...been ther done that...now we laugh at the silly things they do..
2007-11-25 23:17:18 · answer #3 · answered by Chocolate_Bunny 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO SUICIDE. it is too much, and its not worth it. try talking to them, sit them down and explain ur problem, they prob dont even know what is happening. if u cant talk to them, talk to a grandparent u trust or someone that can speak for u and get ur parents to understand ur concern. all its takes is communication. as for ur friends, no matter how 'bad' they look, they are ur friends, and its UR choice to be friends with them, not ur parents. i bet u they trust, sometimes ppl mistake lack of trust for lack of communication.
2007-11-25 15:15:06 · answer #4 · answered by Meg W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your parents are typical ; as are you. It is in their job description to "bug" you. Try to anticipate what is going to fire them up and make sure you haven't done anything, or lied about anything so you don't give them a reason to nag.
2007-11-25 15:20:29 · answer #5 · answered by Lisa W 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know, all parents are different.
I think that they are doing that because they love you.
I don't know what you are thinking, but NO SUICIDE!!!
2007-11-25 16:10:45 · answer #6 · answered by roxie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm ..come again? ..
hmm all i can say is ..dont kill yourself..
and i hope someone understands your question better than i did and are able to help you.
2007-11-25 15:16:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋