Problem with friend's mother?

Question

She's loud and obnoxious. Clingy, controling, and addicted to talking about her daughter every single second of every single day to me and everyone else. She always hangs out with me and my friends EVERYWHERE we go, comes to my house uninvited, and is always up her daughter's butt all of the time. She makes plans with her daughter's friends (including me) and decides what we should do on the weekends. She makes calls to all of her daughter's friends just to talk (for hours on end). Seriously, I don't know what to do anymore. No one in my family can stand her anymore, and neither can I. However, when I lightly mentioned it to her, she flipped out like a psycho, and bashed on me.

How can I tell her to seriously get a life, stop talking about her daughter like it's an addiction, and stop hanging out with her friends like she's an acual teenager?

She's loud and annoying... I can't take it anymore, I want to shoot myself.

PLEASE HELP!

By the way, my friend is 17 almost 18, she depends on her mother and she is totally self centered. If it isn't about her, she doesn't care. I'm 16, and her mother basically always hits on my guy friend who is 18.

Answer 1

What are all the adults in your life doing about her? Where's their parenting skills?
This woman is obviously unbalanced. No stable adult calls up children (or teens) on a regular basis just to talk or schedules weekends for other people's daughters. Did you talk to your parents when this woman "bashed" on you?
Since the adults in your life seem to be wimps and allowing this psycho woman to invade your lives, it's time to talk to teachers, school counselors, or your clergy.
I have the creepy feeling that things will get worse before they get better and I worry that you or your friends might suffer physical and/or psychological damage if this goes on for much longer.
You may need a restraining order. I know you worry about your friend too, but your personal safety should be your main concern. Chances are, once the legal system get involved with your friend's mom (because of the responsible adults I recommend you talk to) the state will step in and get help for your friend too.

Answer 2

you're able to tell her that she shouldn't no longer permit her daughter hand out with you because to procure right into a dialogue along with her. you at the instant are not a nasty guy or woman for dressing a definite way and listening to a particular type of song. parents continuously ingredient they comprehend terrific, yet at times they do no longer understand terrific. in simple terms refer to the mummy and clarify your self. If that would not help, a minimum of you may say you tried.

Answer 3

You have to approach your friend about this first. See what she says and if she agrees with you, ask her to please talk to her and to explain to her mother that she is too involved with her and her friends and should give her some space to make her own decisions. If your friend doesn't want to hear it, then confront the mother privately and tell her you feel uncomfortable with her level of involvement with you. She may just feel lonely and seeks refuge with being so involved in her daughters issues. Approach her in a calm respectful manner , see what happens.

If all else fails , then drop the friend, she would obviously have no backbone and is not interested in living her own life without mommy's help.

Answer 4

Next time she invites herself to your activities with your friends turn her down, but do it sharply, no mercy, people like that must be treated with a cold approach, or else they'll end up controlling your life.

Answer 5

wow.
A lot of single mothers get into their teenager daughter's life. She may be havinga midlife crisis. No excuse to be rude. Lay down the law as nicely as you can.