2007-11-25 15:12:43 · 23 answers · asked by i cant think of a nickname 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
omg... im getting married in about a month, and a lot of these answers are really making me think...
2007-11-26 03:24:29 · update #1
Absolutely. We have been married 46 years. We've been through good times and bad, and we have both accomplished a lot of personal growth during those years. We have changed with the times, and we are always on the same page.
I married him because he treated his dog well. I know it sounds funny, but he took such good care of his dog, I figured he would be that way with his own family, and I was right.
Yes, I would certainly make the same choice. I got a keeper!!
2007-11-25 15:28:30 · answer #1 · answered by Cat Lady 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am not married yet, but i know lots of people that regret getting married with the person they married..
They say now that If they could go back on time they would probably wouldnt marry the same person...
I honestly think that i would date the person for more than 5 years so i can really know what iam going to marry.
2007-11-25 23:18:15 · answer #2 · answered by SMILEY 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If I could go back in time I would NOT marry the person I ended up marrying (and eventually divorcing) but I would marry the fiance I didn't marry and let get away.
As far as getting married in general...if it was to the right person I would love to be married still and now.
2007-11-25 23:23:34 · answer #3 · answered by jenny s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a tough question. I think that if I were to go back that I would not have had the opportunity to have my son. I was in a relationship that was destructive... it lasted way too long. However, I feel that it is only natural to wonder the " What If's" in life. When times are rough it is easy to say that you wish you could turn back time, but I feel that many great things have come from the path I chose!
2007-11-25 23:19:01 · answer #4 · answered by Sarah f 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Though marriage is the 2nd hardest thing I've done (the 1st being parenting), I would absolutely do it again. The only thing I would change...I would have waited until I had more of myself first...maybe a couple more years before actually tying the knot ( I was 26). My husband and I work very hard to keep growing as people, to allow room for the other to change, but it is tough. I would do it all again, though, because I've never had such a deep relationship. There is no person on this earth who loves me, knows me, enjoys me as much as my husband, and I him.
2007-11-25 23:20:26 · answer #5 · answered by ibis_faerie 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No, I would not have married even if my husband is good in some ways. I would have married my first lover. I could not realize that and went for my second ex. My second ex cheated on me and hurt me most. Then the third guy, who said he loves me and now my husband. I took a decision in a hurry and married him. So now even if he loves me, I am not able to I guess. Dont know what to do. thinking...............
2007-11-25 23:49:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I would still get married, our relationship is over now but it lasted eighteen yrs and for most of the time I enjoyed being married as I was in love.
2007-11-26 00:21:32 · answer #7 · answered by AzNative89 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I would never get married. I would just date, and stay in relationships without the red tape. I am grateful to have my children, but my husband and I aren't really happy anymore. There is nothing we can do for each other, and we are now trying to find ways to be happy. We are just existing together now because, there is too much hassle in getting divorced, so now we are opening up our marriage. If you are not ready to get married than trust your instincts and don't do it.
2007-11-25 23:21:52 · answer #8 · answered by Sweet 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I knew then what I know now about my ex-husband - I would've ran like hell in the opposite direction firing a gun behind me at the bastard! He was immature, vain, a megalomaniac, and a cheater. Hell no I never would've married him if I could've seen into the future. And NO - he didn't show those terrible things about himself until AFTER we married - or else I wouldn't have married him in the 1st place.
2007-11-25 23:20:34 · answer #9 · answered by tahnwen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would do it all over again, I have the best husband any woman could ask for and the most beautiful daughter as well. The only thing I would have done differently would be to set ground rules for my in-laws cause they are a little crazy!
2007-11-25 23:33:59 · answer #10 · answered by TAS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋