please be honest. i know it may be long but i really need advice! i will appriciate it a lot. Did he lead me on??? this guy i work with and i have been flirting for 3 months. he started flirting with me first and all i did was respond to it. he would always give me hugs all the time, and one time after work he asked me if i had a boyfriend and what do i look for in a guy. he also told me that he has been single for a year because in his past relationship his girl cheated on him. and i remember one time when he hugged me he slightly touched my *ss. but anyways i know for a fact that he was interested in me and i fell for him hard. so one day we were talking on msn and i asked him when he wants to chill cuz he would always say i should come over and visit him sometime and he said "i have to see when im available" i was like okay. also before i asked him if he was talking to anyone meaning if he is dating anyone and he said no. then 2 weeks later we have this conversation on msn:
2007-11-25 15:21:21 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
me-wat u doing friday
him- im going shopping in new york
me- thats too bad i was gonna tell u im free fri
him- lol so how are the boys treating u? have you found that special one yet
me- no have u?
him- ye im kind of talking to someone right now
me- really who
him- lol u wouldnot know her
me- I don’t understand u
him- I mean u don’t know her so if I tell u her name it is pointless
me- noo not that, nvm
him- what then tell me
me- lol u play games
him- I don’t play games. I didn’t lead u on, cuz if I did I would have kissed you up and stuff but I didn’t. we didn’t talk on the phone everyday, we didn’t even chill outside of work. I didn’t lead u on, sure we flirted here and there but it was all verbal, nothing physical.
Me- ok true but u did other things to make me think otherwise
Him- all I did was give u hugs and asked you questions to get to know u cuz i really dont…
then he goes offline
2007-11-25 15:22:03 · update #1
i didnt believe him at first when he said he was seeing someone..but now i know its true..cuz on his facebook it says that he is now "in a relationship" omg i feel like crying right now! why did he lead me on like that? its sad becuase i really did like this guy a lot. i could never in a million years see him acting this way towards me.
2007-11-25 15:22:49 · update #2
I will be very honest with you but Im sure you will ignore it. You have asked this same question about 700 times and your obsession with this guy is very unstable. You need professional help. Or who knows maybe you just post this same question over and over because you are point gaming.
2007-11-25 15:29:45 · answer #1 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He's a player.. He probably flirts with a lot of people. This doesn't mean you aren't worthy of a great guy.. it means he's not worthy of you. And you say that he kinda touched your a**? Very little class.
Start looking at the bad things about him rather than the good. He knows he led you on... it fed his ego. Now feed your own. One day when you are no longer interested he's going to be wondering why not because I can guarantee you that his ego is that fragile. Trust me.. a lot of experience and a lot of years.
2007-11-25 15:56:34 · answer #2 · answered by mosaic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, this idiot led you on. Men have the tendency to do these kinds of things and that was a waste of your time on your part. Don't let this loser get to you. You will find somebody worthy of you and will love you and respect you for the kind of person that you are. Leave him alone and go out there and meet new people. This is hard unfortunately because he showed signs that he likes you and you responded. Good luck and you will find somebody better than him.
2007-11-25 15:35:12 · answer #3 · answered by Lady S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey hun, well it sounds to me like he was leading you on and I would say that yes he was trying to see how far you would let it go. He isn't worth your time don't try to pursue a guy like that you are just asking for heart break. Some guys are really jerks and hugs are physical I think he just wanted a physical touch from somebody untile he found another girl to go out with him. Don't let a guy hug you if you aren't going out with him
2007-11-25 15:37:04 · answer #4 · answered by Angel Eyes 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, first no one knows your relationship with her better than you. So if this is just her personality than you already know that, and you have to except her for who she is, since you call her your riend. Now if this is totally out of the "norm" for her than maybe she is just upset about the situation and is going about expressing it the wrong way. If you value this friendship I would tell her how she made you feel when she said these things to you. If she is a real friend she will apologize. If not just ignore her at let it go.
2016-04-05 22:38:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur Young- u still have time 2 find that special some1- until than- ur going 2 go thru allot of trials and tribulations. he sounds kinda young 2- other that he's a game player. he's the type that when not in a steady relationship, he runs wild doin wotevr he wants 2 whom evr he wants. let him go- not worth getting work up ovr. treat him cordial but lev it at that- no more flirtin, fon calls, etc., he'll get the hint. ur betr bing just frends w/ him than anythin els. ok?! fel btr son.
2007-11-25 15:39:19 · answer #6 · answered by tinkerbell 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is a complete dipwad. He has been flirting with you, and doing everything he could to suck you in, and now that he sees he has gotten somewhere with it, he is drawing back. My guess is that he does NOT actually have a GF and he isn't doing what he says he is doing. I would be willing to bet that if you just acted casually and continued to be lighthearted, he would continue to act the same way that he did before. Don't let him jerk your chain, he is not worth it.
2007-11-25 15:30:07 · answer #7 · answered by eldots53 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, he led u on to see how far u would let it go. Some men are jerks like that. Don't let it bother you. Go out and find someone that will really like you for who you are and don't let that jerk get to you. You are much better off without someone like that anyways.
2007-11-25 15:26:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
....i think you also made a mistake at some point because you are the one who thinks of other meaning with what he is doing,,, he maybe that sweet to all... he may be the kind of person who gives a hug to other people... maybe you think too much... that's the common problem with us girls... we easily fall for guyz that we really don't know...
2007-11-25 15:32:55 · answer #9 · answered by eljhay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him out....he is talking about you...its a chance....why would he talk to u if he didn't like u in the first place just go for it..
2007-11-25 15:27:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋