Family & Relationships - 25 November 2007

My husband and I have a good sex life, but my idea of foreplay and his are very different. I've tried to talk to him about this, but he really thinks as long as I have an "O", it's ok. I want more kissing and touching other areas, if you know what I mean. He seems to just go for it and I usually do have a "O", but if he would take a little more time, then it would be more intense and be multiple. I guess, I would like to be teased, touched, and made love to, instead of just "sex".

I know there are alot of wives/husbands that are not getting any, so am I being petty?

2007-11-25 16:50:23 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

What do you when all of your family just gossip about one another? I came in to see my family and I love them all so much. Half of them do not get along but I get along with everyone. Anyway, when I am with them I just have to sit and listen to all this drama. I just sit there bc I do not know what to do or say. But I am so tired of it btw I have been listening tothis for 27 years ugh I guess it always will be like this!

2007-11-25 16:47:27 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-11-25 16:46:16 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

well, my parents always whatever i need and want. i don't always want to ask them for money since they always sound annoyed. what are some ways i can earn my own money???
all ideas are appreciated. thanks to all!

2007-11-25 16:45:04 · 32 answers · asked by Lols 3 in Family

ok! my husband is always busy working on the computer mostly works from home. goes to office for few hours. in the past year we have had sex 4 times and imean since last december up till now ! what does that mean ..everything is fine we have a 1 year old whom we adore and play with all the time. my husband does ignore me sometimes when i ask him something in general (something on news, something happend during the day) he will ignore or change topic or jsut wants to end the conversation asap. when i try to go close to him he always pushed me away. married for almost 4 yers i cant remember a time when he approached me and that hurts so much. i feel like i am not wanted.i lost all the baby weight look great ..very friendly always trying to stay positive but its so hard he doesnt understand how much i love him i guess. any suggestions .he is not cheating i know that coz he works from home ...sometimes i get the feeling he has someone else in his mind that he thinks about but i couldbewrng

2007-11-25 16:43:42 · 11 answers · asked by angel 1 in Marriage & Divorce

About two years ago, I'd a quarrel with a girl and in my stupidity, I tore her pic infront of her mates.
Gradually my heart fell for her, n she came to know about my feelings too. Her best friend told me that if I'd not behaved in that way, she would have accepted my proposal. Well recently I called her and she talked to me in a nice way. But she is very reseved type,She doesn't talk much.few days ago i sms her in her sis mobile n as her sis was not at home she couldn't reply n as such i thougt that she was not intersted in me and send her another sms giving her a final gud bye but 2 my surprise i got a reply where she told that she couldn't reply coz the cell was not hers and asked if i was angry. i also came2knw dat She talks about me wid her best frd n told that she was hurt when i told that i will not sms her in future.3days ago i sms asking sorry 4 all incidents n she smsed me saying alls forgiven but she didnt rep 2 my yesterdays sms.does she loves me too?she knows i love her

2007-11-25 16:43:35 · 12 answers · asked by yahoo 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-25 16:43:21 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Let's say you go to school together so you see each other all the time.
When you see each other, you talk for a long time, like even up to an hour. Both people seem to mutually enjoy talking. Lets even say you have each other's number, but neither person calls the other. You smile (on the inside and the outside) when you see them and they do you the same way. They can't pass you without making a comment and vice versa. They make general comments about watching a movie or grabbing a bite to eat, but as I said, neither person calls the other or ever acts on getting together.

What does all of this mean?

2007-11-25 16:42:03 · 10 answers · asked by curlygirl 2 in Singles & Dating

the only women that I am really attracted to are middle aged. I flirt and hit on these women all the time, with some success, but am I wrong for it?

2007-11-25 16:42:03 · 26 answers · asked by b.kgrove 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband of two years is not interested in being intimate with me due to my weight (thats his reasoning). This and the fact the everyday he is on some sort of website looking at pictures and videos of women and trying to communicate with them via email has hurt me very much. This hurts me so bad that my self-esteem is null. I have tried to explain to him that him doing this does not help the situation, that it makes me feel like I'm nothing special to him and that it's making me so resentful towards him. He told me that the only problem he see is that I am over weight and that if I would lose the weight we wouldn't have a problem. He wants me to lose weight but he won't give up the online women. I can't focus on me because I feel like I am wondering or worrying about who he is chatting with or looking at and if he might take it further and totally ruin are marriage. Has anyone else had this problem? Help!

2007-11-25 16:41:53 · 28 answers · asked by Lori 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-25 16:37:47 · 363 answers · asked by rajesh k 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

every thing i do im wrong when i tyr and do what she wants im wrong when i do it differnt im wrong i love her with all my heart and soul and she is close to stoping it all ive been a real *** hole in past and done thing that im not proud of and mess up a lot

2007-11-25 16:35:16 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Just curious, how soon after you started dating before you said, "I love you"?

And, when you said it, in retrospect was in congruent with how you really felt?

And, please give your age.

2007-11-25 16:34:07 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-25 16:32:46 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I never found it or will find it.Each guy just wants ...... (you know what I mean )

2007-11-25 16:28:11 · 5 answers · asked by what ever ? 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-25 16:27:56 · 19 answers · asked by Pariah 5 in Marriage & Divorce

whats the secret? how did you do it? I am a newly wed and it scares me to death that so many marriages fail. Mine can't be one of them. I love him too much.

2007-11-25 16:27:04 · 15 answers · asked by blah 3 in Marriage & Divorce

They are like family to me plus like connections thru all my other friends but i just feel like moving on and leaving, is this a teenage thing or somthing? ive been really confused latley and think itll be better if i just dont even contact them anymore.. all of them. sorry if im not making much sence im really confused, but i guess i just wanna know is this normal or am i making a bad decision?

2007-11-25 16:26:28 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

A relative (who I rarely see and not even close to me) asked me if our aunt who is working for her can be trusted. Based on my past experiences, she definitely can't be trusted but I've seen her with our other relatives and she does seem alright enough. I believe in giving people another chance so a part of me wants to say "You can trust her." but I also do not want her to blame me later if something does go wrong.

I'd appreciate any answer that you can give me.

2007-11-25 16:26:12 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My mom was living with this younger guy for 4 yrs. She divorced my dad for him. I thought it was a bad idea, especially since he was 30 & shes 47 but since I'm grown and not living at home, there was little I could do about it. Just a few days ago, the guy dumped her. He told her a while back that he didn't want to marry her. But they were building a house together. He wouldnt let her put any money into it. She also bought herself a ring and changed her last name to his. I think she was pushing herself on him in a way and he was only wanting a good time and let it go too far. I think he was too scared to tell her and he liked having her around. What advice do I give her about it? She will be staying with me & my family for a while, so its bound to come up. I cant make her do anything, I know, but how can I help her see that its best to just cut her losses and move on? I dont want her to find some other younger guy who likes to be waited on hand and foot, either.

2007-11-25 16:24:54 · 11 answers · asked by MomOfThreeBoys 3 in Family

2007-11-25 16:24:52 · 62 answers · asked by jflsdkjflsad 2 in Singles & Dating

I know we all say that the personality is what really counts, and whenever someone asks a question on here about getting a date, or how they look, half the people always answer with "they go by whats on the inside". But, it just doesn't seem like that is what we really do in real life.

How much do looks mean to you? Would you date someone that you do not consider attractive (even though they are really a great person)

Also, WHAT is it (physically) that makes a person ugly?

2007-11-25 16:23:58 · 18 answers · asked by curlygirl 2 in Singles & Dating

Jessie is my friend before she was my best friend but she tell everyone who i like and if she doesnt do that she teases me about liking them! but i asked my other friends and she has never said anything bad about me! so is she good or bad?

2007-11-25 16:23:49 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

ok i been with this guy for 3 years, and we were gonna get married but things changed and he had to move away. i haven't seen him in 7 months but we kinda still talk on the phone but we are not together anymore. He tells me he loves me still once in a while then doesn't call for days. I can't move on because i feel his going to come back to me. I love him so much, i tried dating but i failed and let the guys down. I can't handle myself in any other relationships. I feel that if i don't marry him then i can't never be a good girlfriend to anyone and just hurt the guys....and i know time heals everything but its not working for me, i have too much memories around me nad i can't bloank them.......what should i do?

2007-11-25 16:22:36 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

wife wants divorce i dont , we also have two boys age 9 and 7 my 9 years old son givers her a hard time every time i bring him back home and she blames me. she tells me i never keep my promises, but i told her this time i mean it i swear first she says she was unhappy for 10 yrs then 6months then now 14yrs been married 10yrs. known each other fo 14yrs. is she doing this for payback and does not really want the divorce, is she confused. how can i prove to her i will alwas and forever make her happy in are marriage and will never brake that promise again

2007-11-25 16:21:56 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

He lately admitted that he's a married man. But he said, he is still single in status. His mother is still the sole beneficiary. He added that during the re-enlistment he will change the name of his beneficiary to my name and will acknowledge me to be his legal wife. Is this possible to military law? How about his first wife? Does she have the right to demand from him? They've been seperated for 3 years and agreed not to chase each other anymore. Thank you in advance for all your answers guys!

2007-11-25 16:21:10 · 15 answers · asked by Cheryl 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I've been under some very big stress lately. It's taking a huge toll on me and I was hiding it very well but I guess im really transparent. They are getting so worried that they are going to councilors and therapists. I tell them i am dealing with it and that I just need time but its not working and i dont need a therapist or anything like that i just need time but i also can't tell them whats going on...family says so. I've said i can't tell you but my family and i are working it out but they keep pushing it what do i do? they need to stop, i know they care but theres nothing they could do anyway.

2007-11-25 16:21:06 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

wife wants divorce i dont , we also have two boys age 9 and 7 my 9 years old son givers her a hard time every time i bring him back home and she blames me. she tells me i never keep my promises, but i told her this time i mean it i swear first she says she was unhappy for 10 yrs the 6months then now 14yrs been married 10yrs known each other fo 14yrs. is she doing this for payback and does not really want the divorce, is she confused. how can i prove to her i will alwas and forever make her happy in are marriage and will never brake that promise again

2007-11-25 16:19:54 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

ok, so i ran off with another woman & my ex-girlfriend just cant seem to get over it! weve been split up over a month now & she's like really weirding my girl & i out something fierce! we went to the movies the other day & the ex tried to call, but i never answered right! so get this, she starts texting my current girlfriend (niether of us know how she got her cell #!) saying that she knows were in the movie theater & that she knows what movie were watching & what time its ending! so we leave early! only to text again to tell us what were wearing! that was a week ago. yesterday i took her out for breakfast at like 6:00 a.m. just to see if we were gonna be followed right? we had just gotten our food when our waitress walks up to our table & tells me (by name) that i have a phone call at the front of the restaurant! i dont even know this woman! so i answer the phone & my ex asks how my omellette is & hangs up! what do i do? i think i have a fatal attraction here! help!

2007-11-25 16:19:09 · 31 answers · asked by snooteriffic 1 in Singles & Dating

I was in a serious relationship with a single mother for almost 2 years, we just broke up about 1 month ago - we had lived together and me and her son were inseperable - he thought I was his real father, he even called me daddy and thought the world of me, as I did of him, others referred to me as super dad. He just turned 3 years old. I was wondering if he will remember me down the road or will he forget me? he still asks about me everyday and it has been just over a month. The break-up was not my decision and I would never walk out on this child - but I have no choice. Will he forget me or will he remember me?

2007-11-25 16:17:45 · 15 answers · asked by J M 2 in Marriage & Divorce