ok, so i ran off with another woman & my ex-girlfriend just cant seem to get over it! weve been split up over a month now & she's like really weirding my girl & i out something fierce! we went to the movies the other day & the ex tried to call, but i never answered right! so get this, she starts texting my current girlfriend (niether of us know how she got her cell #!) saying that she knows were in the movie theater & that she knows what movie were watching & what time its ending! so we leave early! only to text again to tell us what were wearing! that was a week ago. yesterday i took her out for breakfast at like 6:00 a.m. just to see if we were gonna be followed right? we had just gotten our food when our waitress walks up to our table & tells me (by name) that i have a phone call at the front of the restaurant! i dont even know this woman! so i answer the phone & my ex asks how my omellette is & hangs up! what do i do? i think i have a fatal attraction here! help!
2007-11-25 16:19:09 · 31 answers · asked by snooteriffic 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Stalker. Yes, it is stalking.
2007-11-25 16:23:50 · answer #1 · answered by Snowflake 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say that your ex has a serious problem letting go and admitting that it's over between you and her. She's wasting a lot of energy following you and your new girlfriend around.
You need to be careful because this level of jealousy can be very powerful and can turn dangerous. I suggest both you and your new girlfriend put restraining orders against your ex. I realize a piece of paper doesn't seem like much protection, but at least you've notified the authorities. They can be contacted to take care of things if your ex contacts or comes within 100 feet of you or your new girlfriend.
I'd say your ex qualifies as a stalker (not stocker...that's a person who stocks shelves like in a grocery store). ;)
Good luck and take care!
2007-11-25 16:28:01 · answer #2 · answered by Nonny0928 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Woooah. Not to creep you out but that sounds like one of those scary movies! Here are some options:
1) Call her and ask to meet her up for coffee or something, because this girl might get to the point where she is willing to hurt you or your girlfriend. Try to work out something, and just talk.
2) Sue her, or file a restrianing order. This is kinda a lot, but seriously, I think you'll need it. Call the police, so they can trace the next call or text you get. This may be serious enough. But before you do that, do you think this is stalker serious or just jealous, bi*chy girlfriend.
3) Maybe consider moving. This girl probably would not follow you if you moved. Go somewhere you've always wanted to go!
I'm really sorry your stuck in that horrible situation! Good luck =)
2007-11-25 16:29:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A stocker puts things on shelves. But she does sound like a stalker, look into getting a restraining order and try to record her calls.
2007-11-25 16:22:56 · answer #4 · answered by ctelly22 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless she is also putting boxes and other such items on shelves at her workplace, I would say... no, she's not a stocker.
If you find out that she is secretly going behind your back and refilling the store shelves, I would have a talk with her. It sounds like it could be serious.
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2016-05-18 07:48:46 · answer #6 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off its stalker. and yes your ex seems to be one. I would write down these instances (date time, what exactly happend and was said). Question first, have you told her to stop contacting you? If yes write that down too on the list. If you have proof of these instances like the text messages, that is even better. next take all that info and go to the police. yes that may seem harsh, but this girl is unpredictable and you don't know what she is capable of. Plus, that is an envasion of privacy and that is against the law. give the police any information your have and keep in contact with them. ask if this gives grounds for a restraining order. maybe they can give her a ticket. but, eitherway, it is always better to have someone on your side. I hope all goes well.
2007-11-25 16:28:59 · answer #7 · answered by Emme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stalker
2007-11-25 16:24:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
stocker? correction: stalker, and reading from the beginning where you say you "ran off" with another woman, why would she get over it? that was childish and just a easy exit for you leave the relationship, when you could have said you didnt want to be with her anymore, so whatever crazy stuff she's doing, you deserve it
2007-11-25 16:24:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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She will not want you even more. You need to show her that you don't need her and can live your life without her. She still cares about you I am sure. Maybe try "flirting" with other girls around her to make her jealous. I know its bad, but if i saw my ex flirting with someone else it would make me REALLY ANGRY. However, you still need to show her you care about her too. Show her what she's missing and remind her of it. Be confident and don't show your broken heart. Try ignoring her? Girls hate that. You want her to come to you. Once she does this YOU have all the power.
She will realize what you mean to her and she will hopefully come crawling back. (I am in the same situation as you, except I am the girl trying to get my ex back). Try not to be so clingy and give her space. But try to be around so she sees you, but don't talk to her much. Keep convos short and if you txt her, which you shouldn't, then also keep it short and bland. This will be hard to do because you just want to let her in your life again, but you can't. If you show her that you are desperate to get her back, she won't go for it. Make her come to you and REMIND her of all that she is missing out on. Hope this helps. And trust me, I know how you feel. Girls usually come around easier than guys so you should be lucky. ughh wish i could say the same.
2016-07-19 14:57:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it sounds like harassment or stalking. Check with local police or an attorney on what steps you can take. It will depend on the laws regarding what constitutes stalking in your state. I would also change my cell phone numbers and door locks. You never know when someone may take this type of behavior to another level...violence.
2007-11-25 16:27:00 · answer #11 · answered by ScSpec 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋