Family & Relationships - 25 November 2007

So what are things I should do and things I shouldnt do?
Should I breath in before or exhale?
Plus what if you both wear glasses? Any tips to make it special?

2007-11-25 17:25:59 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Married few months back, currently away from my husband for my job. My ex of 1 year or so calls me often. And we two feel so comfortable talking to each other. He is sorry for cheating and being rude to me. He is depressed. He never ask me to come back, just he wants me to be around him. Will this be cheating? I have not been able to say No to his calls. Somehow we two get talking and get peace out of it.

2007-11-25 17:24:17 · 60 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-25 17:20:04 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

because like her dad was being weird one day and my mom had to drop my sister off at her elementary school so she parked near his house because my sister hurt her leg and walked my sister to school. but then my friend's dad called the cops on her for parking near his house. he's done that twice and now my mom won't let me hang out with my friend just because her dad is weird. i really like my friend but nothing i say to my mom will change her mind. what should i do? i already tried talking to my mom about this but she is being mean and not letting me hang out with her. and my friend is always asking me to hang out and i can't keep saying im busy because then she will think im trying to avoid her. so what should i do?

2007-11-25 17:20:03 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Okay theres this kid I like at my lunch period, he sits across from me and some idiot blabed i like him, and i do, Anyways, He talks to me alot and get concerned when i get bade grades, and he lets my wear his glasses, we have full conco's togather ingoring everyone else, Is there i way i can get him to ask me out,? or does he not like me

2007-11-25 17:19:54 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have wanted nothing but non-committed, casual sexual relationships with various women ever since divorcing my wife. I am upfront and honest with the girls I intend to sleep with about my feelings toward them and our "business" Would you consider that "man-whoring" or me being a straight up, honest kind of guy?

2007-11-25 17:19:09 · 45 answers · asked by john b 2 in Singles & Dating

all these people have been asking this same question...so i thought it would be fun to join in!!!

Sooo what do you think of me?? and how old do you think i am?? andddd do u think i am pretty, cute, UGLY or average

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*btw i am the chick in the blue top..and i am with these disabled kids who are cool as.

2007-11-25 17:18:47 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Well, I asked a question yeesterday about my husband and step daughter.
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;...
Well,today I started to bring the subject up to him. He asked me what was wrong and I told him. "I need alittle help, I know you work, but I could even use a few hours a week to myself." I told him that its very hard to raise a colicky baby with severe Acid Reflux all by myself plus take care of your daughter who refuses to listen to me. And that I cant chase her around all day while the baby is screaming, vomiting and crying.When he does get home the first thing he does is crack open a beer. Which is fine but, then Im left to care for his daughter all weekend long.Im not her Mother, so it makes it hard for me to disapline her.She just wont listen and does nothing but disrespect me, and my family.I have my son to care for, if she refuses to listen to me, CONTINUED BELOW>

2007-11-25 17:17:45 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Married, 15 years, last had sex the day my nine month old was conceived. Wife has a bit of a medical problem due to childbirth, so I can understand the last nine months although the first nine I can't. She tells me she's getting better, will be better soon, etc, but won't go to a doctor. Last excuse was that she would wait until after the first of the year and then get an appointment. At my wit's end, closest we've come to sex in 18 months is a kiss on the cheek. Just plain tired of it. Any suggestions, and yes I have tried romance, getaways, flowers, etc. She has no desire whatsoever and doesn't seem to care that I do, therefore no desire to do a little something for me occasionally even if we can't make love.

2007-11-25 17:17:22 · 12 answers · asked by doug k 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Lately i've watched porn with two guys and one girl.. I am an insecure person when it comes to my g/f but sometimes I wish she'd want to do that becuase i just think it's a huge turn on.. What should I do to try and convince her to want to her see if she really does fantisize about that and is just lieing to make me feel good..?

2007-11-25 17:15:14 · 22 answers · asked by Jeeze 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband & I have a total of 5 kids. We both have 2 from previous marriages & a 1month old child together. We took the kids out of town to see my husband's mom this past week. My husband's kids, now 10 & 6 had not seen her since birth and my children had never met her. My husband & I have been together for 3 years & married for a year & a half. The first night we arrive she gives my husband an envelope with an order form in it. She tells him to take a picture of his kids and the baby (his biological kids) and send in the order form. Apparently a she's having a blanket made of her grandkids...but my children will nt be included. She had tons of gifts...a landslide of designer clothes for my huband's kids and the baby, but gave 2 pair of underwear for my 8 year old & apack of t shirts and underwear for my 5 year old.She also gave my huband's kids $30 each and gave my kids $10,which of course led to his kids bragging to my kids about getting more. We treat them the same why won't she?

2007-11-25 17:14:28 · 13 answers · asked by Fire Side Water Side 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Well, I asked a question yeesterday about my husband and step daughter.
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;...
Well,today I started to bring the subject up to him. He asked me what was wrong and I told him. "I need alittle help, I know you work, but I could even use a few hours a week to myself." I told him that its very hard to raise a colicky baby with severe Acid Reflux all by myself plus take care of your daughter who refuses to listen to me. And that I cant chase her around all day while the baby is screaming, vomiting and crying.When he does get home the first thing he does is crack open a beer. Which is fine but, then Im left to care for his daughter all weekend long.Im not her Mother, so it makes it hard for me to disapline her.She just wont listen and does nothing but disrespect me, and my family.I have my son to care for, if she refuses to listen to me, CONTINUED BELOW>

2007-11-25 17:11:44 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

a girl has a long distance relationship with a guy. during that time cheats on him with at least 13 guys in 1 yr. they break up because she cant be fuked having a long distance relationship. Anyway 6 months later he comes to visit cause theyre still friends and she has sex with him. even though theyre not dating or have any plans to do so in the future. is she a hoe?

2007-11-25 17:10:09 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-25 17:07:12 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My good friend used to go out with this girl who I just asked out and am going out with right now, and he told me that she gave him a handjob and he fingered her and lots of other stuff, and I feel so betrayed by it that I am thinking about breaking up with her. My friend apologized a million times to me and I still like him as a great person and friend (for telling me and being honest) and told him that but he pleaded to me that I not break up with her. I dunno if I am just feeling betrayed by her actions alone or the fact that she never told me straight up. I am rly considering and want to break up with her for it (even though I loved being with her soooo much) and my friend is telling me that I can only value something once I have lost it and not to throw it away. I just feel so betrayed and put off by it, so I am just majorly depressed by it. What do you suggest I do? Pls all suggestions help thx

2007-11-25 17:05:55 · 12 answers · asked by Seth 2 in Singles & Dating

really can't stand watching nearly 80 yr old mother ignore my advice
she pees herself
doesn't take her meds right
doesn't eat right
sleeps on couch till 1 am
I know she wants freedom
but needs cared for
she fights so mean with me
her tongue has always been a two edged sword and now itrs worse
now she is abusing me over taking care of her
would love to throw her out of my home
but she has no money abd nowhere to go
at least til next Oct when her house is sold
can't get her to cooperate
she really and truely is a headache
watching her can make me sick
never saw someone so destructive and ignorant
she won't accept she is getting older and is no longer independent
she walked without her cane yesterday and fell and has big bruise on her face
[she looks like Rocky]i need advice as to what to do
have one brother who cares for sick wife
I have no help
last week she faught with the doctor over taking her meds and living not on her own and having to take orders

2007-11-25 17:05:53 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My former daughter-in-law is a crack addict. She was clean for 8 months and has relapsed twice in the last month. She and my son have 2 children together. Her most recent relapse has devastated us. My son did not run to her rescue for the first time since this has all begun after this most recent relapse. He is suffering so - he still loves her dearly but doesn't know what to do - none of us do. My husband thinks we should just tell her she's made her choice - the drugs over her family. I fear her children are being irrepairably (spelling??) damaged by all this. My son has a wonderful job and is always - always deep in debt! what should we do?

2007-11-25 17:05:43 · 10 answers · asked by babygirl 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my husband works in a big mall as a supervisor, he doenst have sundays & holidays day off, he made a leave of absence in 3 different days of December, his manager wont accept his excuse due that these are all personal matters ( dec 8- our wedding anniv & our daughter's 5th bday, dec-14 our son's 1st bday & dec 30 my bday) i told him its up to him if he consider's us his family over his job. I am so disappointed with him and his manager! If he will pursue his leave w/o approval, he may be suspended or whatever, shall i consider him to work? or shall i beg for him to celebrate with us????

2007-11-25 17:04:08 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My friends LOVE sports exept me.....
and im still in grade 6, so when its recess/lunch my so called "friends" maddie and jenny Ditch me and go to soccer and floor hockey, ALL the time and im stuck sitting and a bench all recess/lunch....should i still be there friend? and no rude or snotty answers like, your probably a fat blah blah blah and no saying "Just join them " ok I repeat I DONT LIKE SPORTS, my mum even said that i broke the family tradition like all of her family,, and my brother LOVE sports, and my dads side of the family HATES sports.....And there divorced LOL...So yeah.... I HATE SPORTS, Please answer

2007-11-25 17:02:58 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Hey, I was wondering why my friends who are all my age tend to treat me like a younger sibling, or a child. By this I mean that they scold me and expect me not to participate in activities that they do when I'm not with them (drinking, smoking) even though I am 22. I was wondering if anyone possibly knows a reason for this? I get yelled at for going out and having a few shots of tequila by a friend who is hold ing his 3rd beer at 9pm and lecturing me in the evils of intoxication. And I am yelled at for smoking and almost forced to stop by another friend who has almost a pack a week. Is there any way to get them to see me as older? As far as I can tell this is not something on their part either, as they treat their friends a equals, but everyone seems to treat me like this.

2007-11-25 17:01:49 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I have been married for eight years and just recently found out about my husbands second affair (that i know of) should i forgive him? because my husband is a good man he takes care of home and besides two affairs out of eight years of marriage isn't all that bad right because let's face it no man is completely faithful, are they?

2007-11-25 17:01:34 · 32 answers · asked by heyitisme 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My parents can't stand that I just got my PhD in Electrical Engineering, but instead of finding a "real job" I decided to work for SETI to search for aliens... I also moved in with my girl friend (she is 19)... I am doing NOTHING to them... these are my life choices and I am happy... but they are about to disown me! help!

2007-11-25 17:00:38 · 6 answers · asked by Plazzmoidi F. McStinkleshlonger 3 in Family

cave the capability to step on his friends that helped him out during bad times, for self benefit. or even do something very bad to his own family for his own benefit, like stealing a lot of money from his own family. what kind of person could do this

2007-11-25 16:59:48 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've loved my friend for two years, and I'm pretty sure he dosen't feel the same way. Everytime I'm starting to get over him, he pops out of nowhere and its back. How can I get over him?

2007-11-25 16:57:59 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My partner and i broke up last thursday. We had been together for just over 4 years. My partner had been under alot of stress with work, studies and organiseing and buying xmas presents for her family. We where supposed to be attending my cousins wedding this weekend which my partner wasn't to inthusiastic about. My cousins fiance and i have always got on well and my partner has often been jelouse of this.
We broke up cos she said she doesn't know if she still loves me like she used too!
We parted on good terms and i havn't been in contact since we broke up cos everyone has told me to give her space and let her work her thoughts out.
I want her back as i love her with all my heart and beleive we are ment to be together.
Firstly have i done the right things so far? and
how much time may she need?

2007-11-25 16:56:46 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I know they just need to get sexually fulfilled but shouldn't they worry about who and what the guy was doing before he came over to see her? Who knows what he has done or what he may or may not have. That's the only reason I kind of see it as slutty. What do you think?

2007-11-25 16:56:44 · 4 answers · asked by Mike 1 in Singles & Dating

my cousin is a violent angry person. when we were little he would seriously try to kill me. His grandmother encourages his violence. She is crazy. she made him crazy.he'd come up behind me and take a chair or something and hit me until i was unconcsious. he's evil. his grandmother broght him up to beleive that he is above me on all fronts and to hurt me and humiliate me at all costs. he's the golden child in the family. he's untouchable. I go to the same college as him now and he's still violent. I'm so scared of him. His whole family is nuts. i try to avoid him at all costs. What do i do?

2007-11-25 16:55:46 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-11-25 16:55:30 · 11 answers · asked by Angie 4 in Friends

my grandparents are heading down from manhattan next week and they're spending the holidays here...i don't talk to them that often only b/c we don't get along that well....they're really controlling and just arrogant people who think that everyone has to be the best...so well, recently, my grades have been declining, so they told me that i have no future lying ahead of me...umm....i was kind of quiet and my parents are pissed AT ME....but i don't know what to do...i love them...by all means, they're my grandparents, so i'm forced to...but i wish they would treat me better...every talk i have w/ them somehow leads to my two cousins (who are their only other grandchildren)...even my brother gets criticized...is there anyway this can be resolved? thanks.

2007-11-25 16:51:19 · 3 answers · asked by Coolio A 5 in Family

A man( The grandaughters boyfriend at the time) punched the grandaughter in the eye. When the grandaughter was 19.After the grandaughter told the grandmother what happened....the grandmother ends up giving the Ex boyfriend keys to the home (the grandaughter was living with grandmother at the time.)The grandmother wanted to remain friends with the grandaughters Ex- boyfriend.....even after he abused the grandaughter!!Ex boyfriend and the grandmother are still friends to this day.He even asked the Grandmother could he move in with her for a while because he got kicked out for pushing his mom!!!!The Grandmother let him move in.This man is 50 years old!!The grandaughter is now 30 years old.The granmother is continuously trying to turn the grandaughter and her two siblings against each other...by saying mean things about one to the others.All 3 grandchildren are ready to ignore the grandmother and never speak to her again.What is wrong with this Grandmother?

2007-11-25 16:51:08 · 16 answers · asked by DO YOU LOVE ME♥*´`*•.¸★｡ 3 in Family