Lately i've watched porn with two guys and one girl.. I am an insecure person when it comes to my g/f but sometimes I wish she'd want to do that becuase i just think it's a huge turn on.. What should I do to try and convince her to want to her see if she really does fantisize about that and is just lieing to make me feel good..?
2007-11-25 17:15:14 · 22 answers · asked by Jeeze 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i'd just straight up ask her. i've always thought that'd be really hot, but it definitely depends on her tastes and the situation. if the two guys act like they're using her, she probably won't be ok with it, but if you make it about pleasing her, i have a feeling she'll be down with that idea
2007-11-25 17:19:02 · answer #1 · answered by girl. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first, if you are insecure with your g/f, why on earth would you want to watch her with another guy? wouldn't that be just compounding the problem? I would think for a relationship to survive this sort of situation, the most important thing would be your confidence and trust in each other.
but, if you want to go ahead, first I reckon you should watch some of that sort of action with her and just take notice of how she reacts.....if she absolutely hates the idea, then I think you should just give it up.
But, if she seems a little intrigued, proceed very, very slowly...first start talking about it while you're in the cot with her....if that goes well, when you go out and happen to see some really hot guy (I think a stranger would be better for this first conversation), just whisper in her ear..."hmmmm, I wonder what he'd be like".....then you could use him as a verbal part in your foreplay....
and if you get to the point where you are going to actively look for someone, be very careful that you chose someone you both feel comfortable with.
remember once you have done it, nothing will ever be the same again...
of course, she might be all for it, right from the start...
2007-11-25 17:29:41 · answer #2 · answered by my1520 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can get her to watch that same porn.. you are 1 step closer. Than use your judgement to c if you can ask the question of your mind. If the answer came positive, than you are another step closer!! Wats Next?? To get the second gal to agreed into your fatasy!! Wish you luck-I would love to be as lucky as you but my galfrenz are all straight and only go 1-on-1.. Haha
2007-11-25 17:20:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That idea turns me on, but everyone has different things that turn them on, as we all know. You can't force someone into liking something you like. Plus, like Nicole T said (above), if that was to happen, she might prefer sex with the other guy more and then what? You'd end up even more insecure and wonder if she wants him more than you!
2007-11-25 17:37:19 · answer #4 · answered by curvygal31 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Porn with two guys and one girl is just gay porn without the girl.
2007-11-25 17:20:09 · answer #5 · answered by Lonewolf 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe not bring it up and just talk about fantasy's and then if that is something she realy wants or maybe is curioue bout it. Maybe buy dildo so she can get the feeling of 2 at same time...
2007-11-25 17:18:15 · answer #6 · answered by JAY 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't thing your girl fantasizes about two guys because that is pretty hard core. You could ask her what she thinks about it. But only a few disturbed women actually want to be with two guys at once. Most women like sex to be intimate, not hard-core porno style.
2007-11-25 17:19:01 · answer #7 · answered by Jessica N 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you watch porn with your girlfriend? Pop that one in and see what she thinks.
2007-11-25 17:19:16 · answer #8 · answered by Julia S 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
find a guy none of your freinds know
do u live in small town
sorry you cant do that with out everyone finding out!
some one she can date
none of your friends know
none of your family or at work
some one removed from your world
get her to meet him
let her date him
then she can get both of you to try her
its fun too
2007-11-25 17:28:21 · answer #9 · answered by alamoblue2003 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should watch the porn with your woman and then go from there.
2007-11-25 17:18:51 · answer #10 · answered by notaknowitall 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋