Friendship Problem?

Question

My friends LOVE sports exept me.....
and im still in grade 6, so when its recess/lunch my so called "friends" maddie and jenny Ditch me and go to soccer and floor hockey, ALL the time and im stuck sitting and a bench all recess/lunch....should i still be there friend? and no rude or snotty answers like, your probably a fat blah blah blah and no saying "Just join them " ok I repeat I DONT LIKE SPORTS, my mum even said that i broke the family tradition like all of her family,, and my brother LOVE sports, and my dads side of the family HATES sports.....And there divorced LOL...So yeah.... I HATE SPORTS, Please answer

Oh yeah, And in grade 5, they got mad at me FOR USING JENNYS MECHANICAL PENCIL!!!sheesh! and she told my other not really friend Mandy to ignore me!! >:( im just so frusterated!

P.P.S

My so called friend maddie always ignores me :S

Answer 1

new friends sounds good. and as far as your family tellyou that you broke tradition because in sixth grade you don't want to play at recess...thats messed up. they have issues. dont worry about it

Answer 2

FIND SOME NEW FRIENDS!!!

Listen... you need to get a little something down. There are FRIENDS and there are ACQUAINTANCES... even within family groups.

Acquaintances only call you when they want something... bring a present to a birthday party, or come when they call. These people are "users" at best. They typically don't care about you or anything going on in your life. You always wonder where you stand with these people until you put 2 + 2 together.

Friends are different. They are there for you, usually share common interests, offer a shoulder to cry on, cheer you on, and want the best for you.

At some point, you need to evaluate each relationship and ask, "What does this person bring to the table?" Is this person a mooch? A user? A manipulator? A drama-queen? A time-waster? Or is this person your cheering section? Provide insight? Make you laugh?

As you go down the list of traits and how each thing makes you feel, you will know who you should be spending more time with.

Answer 3

Well, what do you enjoy doing with your free time? Lets say (just for comparison's sake) you really like music. Anyone else in your class that likes music that you could hang out with and talk about it with? Are there any groups/clubs that meeting during lunch time at your school that you could get involved in? Perhaps there is some subject or topic you would be interested in make a group about, and you could ask your school about having a room where you do lunch meetings to plan things or discuss the topics?

Just kind of float around, get to know folks, and do what you like. Be yourself, and trust me, you'll find people who you'll identify with. But be sure to have time outside of school for your other friends.

Answer 4

ok... uhm
first, and iknow u hate sports but just listen
it won't kill you to try and play soccer one day at recess/lunch.
just tell them that it is very annoying the way that they keep ditching you and that you are trying to keep their interests in the friendship and that you deserve the same.

and if not then find some friends that share the same interests as you but that doesn't mean that you still can't be friends with them.

Answer 5

don't worry people start to stop playing sports i know so many people who don't play sports. it starts to thin out as you get older just find friends who have the same interests as you, keep those friends but when they are playing sports hang with your more mellow friends.

Answer 6

find a new bunch of friends, i played sports but my son does not like sports he is in the national honor club and the best trumpet player i know. be who "YOU" are and be true to youre self