because like her dad was being weird one day and my mom had to drop my sister off at her elementary school so she parked near his house because my sister hurt her leg and walked my sister to school. but then my friend's dad called the cops on her for parking near his house. he's done that twice and now my mom won't let me hang out with my friend just because her dad is weird. i really like my friend but nothing i say to my mom will change her mind. what should i do? i already tried talking to my mom about this but she is being mean and not letting me hang out with her. and my friend is always asking me to hang out and i can't keep saying im busy because then she will think im trying to avoid her. so what should i do?
2007-11-25 17:20:03 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Grow up, get a job and move out on your own.
Until then, listen to your mother.
She wants what's best for you, and won't you feel stupid if the dad turns out to be dangerous and harms you?
2007-11-25 17:24:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can let your friend know that your Mom has issues with her Dad... that's the truth... and it's NOT your fault, is it?
if your mom has an issue with this guy because he's "weird", then she does.. you can't change it... it's not your friend's fault, but sometimes you kids pay for adult problems and issues... sorry to say.
take care... maybe hang out at school?
2007-11-25 18:14:41 · answer #2 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just talk to your friend at school. Your mom has a right to be mad at your friends dad but not your friend
2007-11-25 17:23:30 · answer #3 · answered by D G 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
at the beginning attempt to appreciate why your mom is doing this... She became into youthful as quickly as too as i became into. And as mothers and understanding what its want to be your age.. that's amazingly frightening for us mothers, because of the fact we ourselves have seen first hand, and no first hand what ought to take place and it scares the heck out human beings to think of our very own young little ones only ought to attempt it and prefer it. in case you extremely for confident be attentive to your unlikely to attempt this then sit down down alongside with your mom and have a civil one on one verbal substitute along with her and enable her be attentive to she would be ready to believe you. yet endure in ideas... in case you lie after telling her she would be ready to believe you.... you will be able to by no potential have that danger of earning her believe in trusting you... significant to by no potential forget approximately that.. i'm forty and that i've got greater appreciate of folk because of the fact all of them no i do no longer lie. So attempt this attitude first and shop on alongside with your weapons an do by no potential misinform her. sturdy success i'm hoping this helps you. Me Oh I forgot yet another somewhat significant significant element... sorry... yet are not getting right into a vehicle with somebody under the impact of medicine OR ALCOHOL. VERY significant mothers somewhat problem approximately that huge time...
2016-09-30 04:31:13 · answer #4 · answered by delsignore 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen to your mother; your friends father should be avoided. "Mom" might come around after a while, but it would probably not help to antagonize the situation by "sneaking around."
2007-11-25 17:24:16 · answer #5 · answered by Alan T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you tell your friend what's up maybe your friend can talk her father about it. Maybe he will call your mom to try tp patch things up. Btween the two of you maybe you can come up with an idea.
2007-11-25 17:24:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to your friend about it and tell her what's going on. Your mom sounds like mine. Just give it time.
2007-11-25 17:23:11 · answer #7 · answered by Jazzy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell your mom that what ever happened between them is between them andkeep you out of it and that your going to hang out with your friend wether she likes it or even knows about it and tell her to be more trusting and to stop being so stuborn
2007-11-25 17:27:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i agree with your mom there is something wrong with this man. why don't you invite your friend to your house instead. your mom is worried about you and is only trying to protect you.
2007-11-25 17:23:46 · answer #9 · answered by Roxanne G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen to your Mom.
2007-11-25 17:23:08 · answer #10 · answered by TomatoMug 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋