I have wanted nothing but non-committed, casual sexual relationships with various women ever since divorcing my wife. I am upfront and honest with the girls I intend to sleep with about my feelings toward them and our "business" Would you consider that "man-whoring" or me being a straight up, honest kind of guy?
2007-11-25 17:19:09 · 45 answers · asked by john b 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hey, if you're honest and they're up for it, i see no probelm. if you're divorced i can understand you not wanting to jump into another relationship but still wanting some fun. just be aware that some women may say they want a one nighter, but plan to win you over. that could cause you some grief if your not careful.
2007-11-25 17:22:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would say thats a normal reaction from a man after getting divorced...On the other hand if u find women who are wanting this as well then by all means go for it..but be careful as in safe sex....and also try and read girls if you get the I care about you or the I love you then you better jet it out of there as fast as you can because your going to hurt these women..
by the way you say your upfront and honest..but do they know they won't be the only woman your sleeping with??think about that..if ur hiding that from them then yes thats pretty damn nasty and wrong..I would be beyond pissed and hurt if someone did that too me..
2007-11-25 17:26:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Youve been in a committed relationship. And without knowing the details I would assume you were honest in that one? So long as you are up front with your intentions and the females are fine with that, its a mutual transaction with no strings attached. If it works for you then its 'right'. What is seen as 'wrong' for some one else may not be the same for you. If however you told the girls you wanted a serious relationship, solely to sleep with them, that would be wrong on a MORAL level because it relies on deceit. Subjective right and wrong are not the same as moral right or wrong. So, as long as you're honest, there is no reason in my mind it's not the right thing for YOU to do.
2007-11-25 17:44:09 · answer #3 · answered by Block Knocker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would consider you being a straight up honest kind of guy. I am a girl and I like that kind of honesty. Its ok not to want anything but sex buddies after a divorce.
2007-11-25 17:23:22 · answer #4 · answered by Caitlin 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No. lol. Too funny. I ran into the same situation after I split up with my ex of 7yrs. And just like you, I was upfront about not wanting a relationship. What did that get me? Stalkers, false pregnancy scares, and drinks thrown at me. Be careful bro. Women are crazy.
2007-11-25 17:40:45 · answer #5 · answered by Haywood Jablomee 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Straight up & honest. Just don't let you're words be over shadowed by actions, I'm dealing with a guy right now who wants nothing serious, but acts like he's in love with me. It's hard to read. Tell the truth, act the truth, & do what makes you happy.
2007-11-25 17:24:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not wrong. Its normal, especially after divorce. Many people, men especially, dont like to be tied down in relationships. It's good you are being honest and there will be plently of women out there who have the same veiws as you!
2007-11-25 17:24:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I wouldn't think so. As long as you're honest and on the same wavelenght as the other individual. There are plenty of members of both sexes who want desire the same thing you are looking for. But there can be a grey area. I have known people who had that same thing going on and one of the two got attached. It is something that both parties involved have to be mature enough to handle.
2007-11-25 17:25:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi. if both parties are aware from the start is it just sex then no it is not wrong.The one misgiving i do have is that you will start to look at women as sex toys and you may miss out on finding love again.Also always practise safe sex, it only takes once ,and you could just for a few minutes of lust messed up your whole life.
2007-11-25 17:28:48 · answer #9 · answered by her with the mad ginger hair 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're being honest, so it's not a bad thing. You do have to be careful with STDs of course... any girl who agrees to do that with you has probably been around. Hopefully you're using condoms and such. Anyway, keep being honest and if you feel that they are getting a little too attach, remind them where you guys stand.
2007-11-25 17:22:34 · answer #10 · answered by Cochy 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋