Family & Relationships - 25 November 2007

I met Eric on MySpace back in April, moved in with him 2 weeks later and married him 2 and a half months later. I love him with all of my heart and knew from the minute I met him that I would be with him forever. But here lately all I can think to myself is that he wants to get back with his exs and he wants every woman on earth but me. He really doesn't do anything to make me think that so I'm unsure where the feelings are coming from. I just feel like we're not as close anymore and I don't know how to fix it. I can look at photos of him and his exs and it just seems to me that they had more and were closer than him and I are. I'm always depressed and I'm always grouchy with him and I know that it will eventually push him away and I don't want that. So if anyone can help me to get these thoughts out of my head I would appreciate it.

2007-11-25 17:58:12 · 16 answers · asked by Yantis5280 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My folks saved me last thurs from my bf's apartment coz he was getting a little out of hand with me, trying to get violent with me and was showing no respect when he talked to me. Now my mom wants me to end the r/s with him. My bf is suffering from depression so when he got violent, the only way i could think of was to get away from him. This , according to his friends, relatives and family doctor that I should have stayed around with him. I tried to calm him down , it was useless coz he looked very provoked. If he so claimed he loves me so much, why would he wanna lay hands on me ? I met him again today after 4 days of being apart, he told me I shouldn't have gone with my parents the other day, coz now for me to come back and stay with him is gonna be difficult. I'd like to help this poor guy recover from depression with my help of being around for him. But how can I convince my folks to allow me to stay with him again ?

2007-11-25 17:54:59 · 12 answers · asked by Arpengenie 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-25 17:54:07 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okay heres the deal. He claims he cares a lot about me but he wouldn't care if I slept with other people!!?? We are everything a relationship could be but the label ... He told me it would bother him a little bit but he wants me to be happy. I asked him even if I slept with your best friends..and get this..he said me and him went to Iraq together so no it wouldn't... wtfffff????? can anyone fill me in?? by the way he's 30.


On the other hand...some of his friends are my friends and when I go out he always has one of them go with me to make sure no one messes with me..and he calls them to find out what all I did..and he almost beat up his friend he went to Iraq with because instead of looking out for me..he hit on me all night..

Me and his sis are bestfriends...he has no clue I know what he does and says to people..

So why does he act like he don't care to me..but does to them??

2007-11-25 17:51:09 · 10 answers · asked by AMANDA 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I currently have a long distance relationship and it seems like it's going to stay that way for at least nine or ten more months. Minimum. He asked me though if he could have sex with other women, assuring me that he still loves *me.* Also, he said he's fine with me having sex with other men, so long as I tell him about it. I see where he's coming from, due to the distance and all, but I don't know... We haven't been together for a terribly long time, and he is a male in his prime, but still... What should I say to him? Who should I think about--me, him, or us?

2007-11-25 17:50:57 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-25 17:50:44 · 19 answers · asked by MS. DC 2 in Weddings

I don't want to sound arrogant but as of lately it seems more men are being attracted to me. I, however, don't wish to have their attention.
I haven't changed anything. My additude, Style of clothes, personality, and looks have all stayed the same.
I want to stay friends with these people of course. So whats a good way to let them know thats all I want to be without hurting their feelings or pride?

2007-11-25 17:50:39 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i just feel like i need to do more for myself and not as much for others. i have no problem with helping people because i actually enjoy it. i just kinda feel like nothing is going to happen in my life, im going to end up a wreck. just some guideince is needed

2007-11-25 17:50:20 · 6 answers · asked by campton32 2 in Friends

The couple are moving out of the country and they asked for money instead of gifts. How much should I put in???

2007-11-25 17:48:57 · 23 answers · asked by John M 1 in Weddings

Maybe you've heard of Megan Meier?

She was 13 and hung herself after a neighborhood mother created a fake profile on myspace. The mom acted like she was a hot guy and then broke the heart of the over weight 13 year old and posted nasty comments about her weight and called her a slut.

Do you think the mom should be punished?

2007-11-25 17:44:17 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Heres the low down.
*were 3 hrs apart*
*were not in a relationship*
*some would call us "buddies" but we don't look at it like that*
*we don't have sex with other people*(or so he says hes not,I know I am not).

I give him a lot of hell about if he wants someone else then tell me and I will let him go and blah blah blah...for the past yr or more I have been waiting for him to make up his mind..one moment he is so crazy about me the next mintue he has no time for me(says its cause of college/work ect.). I been letting it slide ..heres my question..would it be wrong if I just said the heck with him and slept with someone..to maybe A.get over him and B. someone/something different...

I am not a whore..I have been with him for the past 5 yrs only.(even though we were never in an official relationship..i was faithful.).he has had probably 7other girls..except since March its just been me.. would he think I was a slut?? Or more would others??

2007-11-25 17:41:47 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what kind of grounds if a husband cheated on his wife?

2007-11-25 17:40:39 · 7 answers · asked by Mary-Ann M 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i hate my life alot cuz people talk about me cuz of my big forehead and my big head, am getting of sick of it, and sometimes i ask myself, why did God make me this way. i wanna change my life, i got lots of frnds though, and am not ugly, its just my head is huge, am african. ive been here for 5 years, and i suck at basketball and alot of sports, cuz i wasnt born around em, and wasnt interested in it, but i love American Football, my favorite team is i wanna play it too, but am sometimes scared to go outside, cuz of wat people think of me, am i know how to dress, i wear hip hop style of clothes like ed hardy, lrg, stuff like that and everything, and people tell me am kool as hell, but they still talk about me. and its get me down, and i feel so down about myself, sometimes i cant go outside, play, and i cant focus at school, becuz i care too much what people think, thats the way i am, and i want to start going outside, exercising, playing football. what should i do???

2007-11-25 17:40:38 · 4 answers · asked by GetYaPopcorn 3 in Friends

guys what are your fave things about T.I.Ts if you just wanna talk about boobie all you want go ahead Im curious to see what you have to say

2007-11-25 17:40:21 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

a friend of mine cheated on his wife of half a year, do you think they'll get divorced? i'm the only person who knows he cheated like 4 times with his ex. he feels REALLY bad that it happens, but when she's around he can't control himself. his wife lives like 2 hours away, and i seriously doubt she'd ever find out on her own. he says he loves her and feels bad, but i feel like if you TRULY love a person, you wouldn't have it in you to cheat on them. what are the chances they'll divorce. i sort of hope they do, i think he rushed into getting married and wasn't ready.

2007-11-25 17:40:07 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

How come every time I sign on to Yahoo! Chat I get bombarded by Asian women? They're mostly Filipina, but sometimes Vietnamese, Thai, Indian and even Palestinian try to chat me up. They ususlly want to chat cam2cam or exchange pics. Just what are they up to? Are they just practicing their English? Are they looking for a husband? Or are they trying to get me to send money or planning to misuse my personal information?

I've found that they tend to chat regularly with me for a few days and then they seem to stop signing on. Anyone know what they're up to?

2007-11-25 17:38:40 · 10 answers · asked by alex_from_sf 4 in Singles & Dating

Because she knew he had outstanding warrants. They were pretty serious charges so he'll be in prison for a long time and I can't wait that long for him. She ruined my relationship. She says she did it to protect me and others from him, but she didn't know him like I did. I seriously HATE her for doing this.

How do I get over this? How can I forgive her? I don't know what to do and I feel like killing her for it.

2007-11-25 17:38:08 · 14 answers · asked by Aileara 3 in Family

'm 17 and have a MAJOR crush on a SEXY SEXY SEXY girl at my community school, I MEAN SHE IS SMOKING HOT..!!!! When ever i get around her i just want to mount her like dog...! I just cant help my self..!I'm plaining tomorow on "casually" humping her leg, dooring class? will this work? will she think im a "funny" guy and then want to date me?your opinion? is this good turn on???

2007-11-25 17:37:28 · 23 answers · asked by alex564 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My girl looks at me different how do i tell her what happened to me she will never know

2007-11-25 17:36:39 · 17 answers · asked by austin m 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-11-25 17:36:19 · 6 answers · asked by ~Amor~ 3 in Marriage & Divorce

My mother raised me to be very old fashion. Therefore, I disagree with nudity and sexuel content in movies. I feel sex should be behind clothes doors for a reason. The problem is, my husband loves movies and his mother often invites me and him out to one. I always disagree because I do not like it. I feel it is very degrading for women. My husband disagrees and totally questioned it and refused to support how I feel. I love my husband and I love having sex but I don't think it is right for women and men to get paid to act it out on T.V that is not a good movie in my eyes. I feel if something is important to my husband (or to me) it should be important to me (or him). Should he be acting like this? What should I do about this? Change the way I have felt? Please no rude comments..

2007-11-25 17:35:54 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

So, my bf and I have been in an LDR for a year and a half. We've been fighting quite a bit lately (LDR= trust issues) it kinda comes with the territory. He springs on me tonight that I'm too controlling and he "needs some time to think." I assume we're "on a break" (translation: split up and okay to screw around) he says no, he just needs to think. What the F does that mean? Is he just stringing me along? Is there someone else? I just don't get it. In one breath, he's talking about moving here, in the next he's telling me how moving will kill his career. Is he trying to tell me something with all of this doubletalk? HELP?????

2007-11-25 17:35:15 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i really though i was ready though i am young but after i did it i feel weird... like i am no longer innocent. i was safe and everything but hwo do i get over it?

2007-11-25 17:33:33 · 9 answers · asked by ♥ 1 in Singles & Dating

What would be the best way for me to let my husband know that I know he has been calling his ex without just saying I have been checking his phone records? I do not care for him talking to her or any other women but I just don't like it when he hides these things from me.

2007-11-25 17:33:23 · 7 answers · asked by ems_lover 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok... i've been with this girl for about 2 years and i have been racking my brains with this for so long. She means EVERYTHING to me, i would give my life for her. My question is, how can i tell her that i love her and show her how much i do without a simple "i love you"? I mean don't get me wrong, i still value those words a lot i just feel that what i feel for her can be described by something deeper than that, i'm just not sure what 'that' is. Do you guys get me? Thanks, and please serious answers.

2007-11-25 17:31:42 · 18 answers · asked by Lexus-Nut 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-25 17:31:38 · 22 answers · asked by pete the pirate 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

Is the catchemout.com site legal in terms of divorce evidence?
My husband is on it :(

2007-11-25 17:31:14 · 3 answers · asked by Graham T 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Because I knew he had outstanding warrants. They were pretty serious charges so he'll be in prison for a while.

Does that make me a bad person? I mean come on! He's the one who broke the law, right?

2007-11-25 17:30:11 · 10 answers · asked by Aileara 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

Because my time is limited, I thought I would try online dating. I did meet a few nice men and had dates. Nothing really serious though. What really puzzles me is that 95 % of the guys that get in touch with me tell me they live in the states but do business in Africa. So far I have only met 2 guys that were born in the US. Usually they tell me they deal in electronics. And have a son/daughter but are widowed or divorced. Can someone please tell me why anybody has to go to Africa to get a job? What's going on? As soon as someone tells me they are in Nigeria or Africa doing work, I drop them. I'm sick of it. What gives? Are these ALL scams? This is getting ridiculous to the point where I want to stop online dating. I'm tired of it. The guys either want money, looking to get a green card, looking for a hooker-which I AM NOT!! Or just want to have fun but no meaningful relationship behind it. So can someone enlighten me? Are these all illegals trying to get into the country? Puzzled in ME

2007-11-25 17:28:03 · 18 answers · asked by Robin H 1 in Singles & Dating

What do you do if you feel like your being watch every moment. I really do love my family but it seems that sometimes they are watching me every moment, and its not that I'm doing anything but they are constantly calling me at work to see what time I will be home, I have flexable hours so its not uncommon for me to be home early, when I'm on the computer my 19 year old daughter asks what I'm doing, she also tells me that my DH asks her questions about what I do when he is at work or asleep. I really love these people and don't want to hurt them, but it seems for the most part they don't care about me, just want to know when I can do something for them, and seems they are constantly over my shoulder trying to catch me at something, how do I tell them to leave me alone!

2007-11-25 17:26:13 · 4 answers · asked by vjustmehere 3 in Family