i really though i was ready though i am young but after i did it i feel weird... like i am no longer innocent. i was safe and everything but hwo do i get over it?
2007-11-25 17:33:33 · 9 answers · asked by ♥ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i do love him
2007-11-25 17:52:40 · update #1
but i am only 14
2007-11-25 17:52:48 · update #2
losing your virginity doesn't immediately turn you into a slut..... in order to keep your innocence, be sure not to rush into things from now on.... like if a guy hears that you are no longer a virgin, he automatically thinks that you will do it with him... but guys are dumb, you need to be sure that they understand that you aren't going to sleep with them immediately, that you are still young and that you do still need time before having sex with someone new. If you have a boyfriend right now (that you probably lost it to) tell him that you thought you were ready, but that you need to slow it down again, and that you'll let him know if and when you're ready to try it again.
Be Strong, and Stand Up For Yourself, and you wont have to worry about a thing!
2007-11-25 17:40:11 · answer #1 · answered by Bubbles 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I lost my virginity when I was young as well. It will never go away. You will always remember it. If it was the right time for you. No, one is innocent. I am glad that you were safe. You just wait and breathe and think about other things to try and keep it out of your head.
2007-11-25 17:38:17 · answer #2 · answered by Caitlin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
With time you will.
After you turn 30 or so virginity is no longer an issue to think about much.
2007-11-25 17:40:16 · answer #3 · answered by triste88 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't get over it. That's one thing you can truly do only once. Whether it was the right time for you, learn from it, and wait a little longer next time.
2007-11-25 17:41:16 · answer #4 · answered by Charley 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think its okay.
as long as you dont go around doing it with the whole world.
that doesnt make you a hoe.
& you used protection so its all good.
did you really like the person? love?
maybe from now on if you do it.
do it with someone you really care about. or love. or like aaallllooottt.
but its okay. i think you'll get over it.
people are losing their virginities really yuoung now.
so its not that weird.
2007-11-25 17:45:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just tell yourself you will take control of your life and never make the same mistake again.
Remind yourself you are still young and vulnerable and you won't compromise your morals.
2007-11-25 17:38:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all wth was you thinking? Girl don't you know you could have caught a STD?????? You are only 14 your first concern should have been your lesson instead of sex. WHERE ARE YOUR PARENTS???????? DO THEY NOT CARE WHAT YOU DO?
2007-11-25 18:12:50 · answer #7 · answered by Bree 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
`you don't really . you either forget about it or just regret it . i was way to young when i lost mine . i wish now it never happened till years later
2007-11-25 17:39:35 · answer #8 · answered by knightrunner13 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell your parents get birth control....get tested
2007-11-25 18:15:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋