2007-11-25 17:31:38 · 22 answers · asked by pete the pirate 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
it depends on whats letting me down
2007-11-25 17:33:47 · answer #1 · answered by mrs.Potter 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have tried it both ways, and I find that if I carry on without complaint, I shoulder the burden alone.
If I share my complaint, I can bring others down.
Then, after my wife and I fought over this subject for about a year or more, she finally made me understand that I could share the conundrum with out making a complaint about it. The we could share the walk of researching the obstacle until we discovered better ways of doing and being.
I like this method better than complaining, because a complaint is passive where as searching and discovering is affirmative and aggressive. whether it is accomplished alone or with a friend.
2007-11-26 11:07:31 · answer #2 · answered by Dr weasel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be honest a lot of times I just carry on but its really not that good to. I usually end up eaten away by whats going on until I just spill it all to a friend. If you are feeling down about something, talk to someone. It can be hard but a good friend will be willing to listen. Or even a stranger like me so if you need to talk Spunnout2000@hotmail.com
2007-11-26 01:36:39 · answer #3 · answered by spunn_out 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I usually carry on without complaint, unless it's really bad. If I say anything, then you know it's hospital time!
2007-11-26 01:34:47 · answer #4 · answered by captain snake 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
May be u could let ur parents know about it, or even take the help of ur close friends, but if u can't express then u should carry on or try to solve it in ur way
2007-11-26 01:38:18 · answer #5 · answered by rohansekar 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I usually carry on. I let out the down and out feelings here in YA!
2007-11-26 01:34:23 · answer #6 · answered by dizzkat 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I do not believe in holding in anger for it only makes me more angry and resentful so yes..I voice my complaints but I try to be as open and honest as I can without really causing harm to others. Cherie
2007-11-26 01:35:09 · answer #7 · answered by chere t 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Usually without complaint, unless I'm really bad and it's affecting my performance. Or if I'm contagious - usually I stay away from others til I'm better, but sometimes you can't.
2007-11-26 01:34:36 · answer #8 · answered by Charley 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
usually, without a complaint, unless im really feeling bad
2007-11-26 01:34:13 · answer #9 · answered by stargirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Usually just carry on. No one wants to put up with a complainer. If someone can't see your are sick or don't feel good, why bring it to their attention!
2007-11-26 01:36:37 · answer #10 · answered by sevemmama 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
eh half and half, if i have an argument to refute about something geting me down i will tell someone, but usually their my own problems and unless i desperately need to vent (happens every couple of years) i usually bottle that up. It may not be healthy but why burden other people with my problems
2007-11-26 01:34:49 · answer #11 · answered by Blake 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋