Ok... i've been with this girl for about 2 years and i have been racking my brains with this for so long. She means EVERYTHING to me, i would give my life for her. My question is, how can i tell her that i love her and show her how much i do without a simple "i love you"? I mean don't get me wrong, i still value those words a lot i just feel that what i feel for her can be described by something deeper than that, i'm just not sure what 'that' is. Do you guys get me? Thanks, and please serious answers.
2007-11-25 17:31:42 · 18 answers · asked by Lexus-Nut 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Firstly, does she feel the same for you?...if yes great, if no...why?...how did she treat you?...even if she is as passionate as you, your work has only just started.
You have been with her for 2 years, even a blind girl knows you love her. "I love You" is just an expression, words uttered to please. For a girl to truly feel your love, actions are needed. But if the girl of your dreams is not as serious as you, whatever you do could be futile.
You need to be understanding of her needs, problems, her thoughts and share or lighten her shoulders. Provide comforting words and let her know you care a lot about her. Be funny and in turn share everything with your girl. Keep stress out of your relationship, once in while dine together to nurture your relationship with her. Surprises is a sure bet to make her happy, but make sure whatever you do to surprise her is something that she likes. Don't buy purple if she doesn't like it, or you could help to replenish some of her groceries or favourite items that she often buys.
The key here is understanding, and helping out each other like friends! Hope this will help you, take care!
2007-11-25 17:52:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must be in one of those "there are no words strong enough to describe how I feel about you," or "actions speak louder than words" moods.
If you want actions, treat her like you love her,
if that's not enough, give her something that symbolizes the fact that she holds the key to your heart, like a necklace with a gold key on It or anything shaped like a heart that would say in code, you have my key in your back pocket,
If that's not enough, express your feelings with the heart in pocket illustration and give her a promiss ring if you're to young for marriage and/or an engagement ring if you are not. Your reason being that she has your heart and you can't stand the thought of her being with anybody else, and/or you being without her. So you want to make your heart feel safe and secure in her hands by giving her permanent custody of it and making sure that the two of you never face the challenge of being apart.
I got carried away with romance.
and if that's not enough, you have invented a new kind of love.
2007-11-26 02:00:54 · answer #2 · answered by ‹(•¿•)› 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear friend,
I understand what you are saying, love is not three simple words, love is caring, sharing, protecting, letting her feel secure and most of all giving as much as taking.
I was my husband's girl friend for three years, got married after that was expecting my baby when he said the magic words, do you know what happened then? We both laughed, so yes love is not the three words only, try showing her in as many was you can, flowers always help. Good luck.
2007-11-26 01:41:20 · answer #3 · answered by maram 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want a romantic way you could maybe sing a song to her or write a poem...This is like the only things i could say you can do but if you are not the lovey, dovey,mushy type you could just get a cake or something made for her to tell her that you love her or order some flowers.
2007-11-26 01:45:44 · answer #4 · answered by I'm iN LoVe, 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing says I love you more than showing it rather than saying it.
Be compassionate, good listener, ask her what she wants to do, compromise. Write her little short poems when you leave for the evening or in the morning, they can be cute and silly, just shows you were thinking about making her laugh. I'd appreciate all those things.
2007-11-26 01:37:00 · answer #5 · answered by Leizl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmm...maybe do sumthing EXTREMELY sweet...buy her an "i love u" necklace. or a heart necklace. and buy a teddy bear and wrap the necklace around the bears neck and buy her a card. and write a poem in the card or just write down your feelings. that will mean sooooo much to her. and tell her how u feel in the card.
maybe show her the card first. and then give her the teddy bear. or have the teddy bear holding the card.
good luck.
2007-11-26 01:36:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just show 'ur care and show how much she's important to 'ur life. Like u should be available for her anytime, t'hough she doesnt need u. U r there to comfort her but not suffocating...just give a bit space...Goodluck to u and take care...The girl is lucky!!!to have u...
2007-11-26 01:40:41 · answer #7 · answered by angel love-love is blue 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well! This is something that comes out from the heart, no one can teach you. And if someone does so then also you'll not be able to quote it from your heart bcoz your be saying what others say. However you can definitely say in this manner like "I want your fingers to fill the gaps between my fingers"
2007-11-26 01:39:50 · answer #8 · answered by Upal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Totally...action speak louder than words......little things matter most...like a call to say I love you...a single rose just to say I was thinking of you....an occassional love note...etc...even cooking for her...helping her out with chores without being told..lol
2007-11-26 01:36:27 · answer #9 · answered by Miss H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you could give her a promise ring or something. for some reason giving a girl a ring (sometimes) makes the relationship seem more serious.
2007-11-26 01:35:27 · answer #10 · answered by jellybean91404 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋