Heres the low down.
*were 3 hrs apart*
*were not in a relationship*
*some would call us "buddies" but we don't look at it like that*
*we don't have sex with other people*(or so he says hes not,I know I am not).
I give him a lot of hell about if he wants someone else then tell me and I will let him go and blah blah blah...for the past yr or more I have been waiting for him to make up his mind..one moment he is so crazy about me the next mintue he has no time for me(says its cause of college/work ect.). I been letting it slide ..heres my question..would it be wrong if I just said the heck with him and slept with someone..to maybe A.get over him and B. someone/something different...
I am not a whore..I have been with him for the past 5 yrs only.(even though we were never in an official relationship..i was faithful.).he has had probably 7other girls..except since March its just been me.. would he think I was a slut?? Or more would others??
2007-11-25 17:41:47 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I do love him and care a lot for him..but I don't think he feels the same.. he keeps saying in time once we live closer we can be together and stuff..but I think he is just telling me what I want to hear so I'll shut up about questioning our relationship.
2007-11-25 17:43:49 · update #1
Men generally think that it is okay for them to cheat and us to forgive them. They normally get pissed when we do it, and start calling us names. I was even split with my ex, and he found out I had finally gotten with someone else. All of a sudden I was a whor@, and every other disgusting name he could call me. This is after he repeatedly cheated on me (when we were actually together)!!!
This guy is probably a lost cause anyway, but if you want to continue to be his booty call, go for it. Just don't keep the hope in your mind that it will last forever. When he is able to devote time to a relationship, it will probably be with someone else. I have seen it happen too many times!!!
2007-11-25 17:51:51 · answer #1 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're being played. To him you are just a sex buddy and it doesn't seem like he wants more than that. Find someone else, do what makes you happy. It's never wrong to satisfy yourself, especially when the other person shows no interest.
2007-11-26 01:47:06 · answer #2 · answered by ctelly22 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I recommend be polite with him and tell him that since you two are only friends, there is no obligation on you to not sleep with other guys.
Good luck!
2007-11-26 01:45:49 · answer #3 · answered by Protik Maitra 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Time to move him out and you to move on .
2007-11-26 01:49:27 · answer #4 · answered by knightrunner13 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i wouldn't call you a ---- but I would call you stupid..... why are you letting this guy use you......
I don't mean that to insult you.... but I wouldn't let a man use me like that..... in his eyes you probably are...
2007-11-26 01:46:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋