Okay heres the deal. He claims he cares a lot about me but he wouldn't care if I slept with other people!!?? We are everything a relationship could be but the label ... He told me it would bother him a little bit but he wants me to be happy. I asked him even if I slept with your best friends..and get this..he said me and him went to Iraq together so no it wouldn't... wtfffff????? can anyone fill me in?? by the way he's 30.
On the other hand...some of his friends are my friends and when I go out he always has one of them go with me to make sure no one messes with me..and he calls them to find out what all I did..and he almost beat up his friend he went to Iraq with because instead of looking out for me..he hit on me all night..
Me and his sis are bestfriends...he has no clue I know what he does and says to people..
So why does he act like he don't care to me..but does to them??
2007-11-25 17:51:09 · 10 answers · asked by AMANDA 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He's nuts.
2007-11-25 18:02:41 · answer #1 · answered by Blue Hues 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are a one-guy-girl and he is pretty into the whole "open relationship" idea, he probably does not want anything serious at this time in his life..alot of 30 year olds are like that. Be in a relationship where you and him are at the same level of commitment and you don't have to question the overall relationship.
2007-11-26 01:56:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love and sex are not the same thing. Look up some information on the internet about swinging. Its a lifestyle choice.
2007-11-26 02:00:50 · answer #3 · answered by Ronda B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously if he is getting mad at his friend for hitting on you then he cares..I think he doesn't want to come off as controling or like he is restricting you in any way. He doesn't want you to feel tied down.
2007-11-26 01:58:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is a test and you need to know if your ready for one man and a relationship that will be rock solid and forever.
2007-11-26 01:56:33 · answer #5 · answered by knightrunner13 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he sounds a little confused about what you want from this relationship and whatever that may be he wants to give it to you.
maybe you need to sit down together and establish exactly what it is that you both want from each other
2007-11-26 01:57:41 · answer #6 · answered by heart of ice 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sound's like the begining of a great book. let me know when comming out?/
That is TOO!!! much drama for me"'
2007-11-26 02:02:34 · answer #7 · answered by lytesdelite 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he is testing your love for him. No one would share his/her lover with anyone if he /she is really care about the other.
2007-11-26 02:00:22 · answer #8 · answered by Lilian 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he's insecure and is trying to see if you would....
just say "what are you nuts?? i only want you!" i bet that's what he really wants to hear....
cause men only really go there when they are sleeping with other people.
2007-11-26 01:57:39 · answer #9 · answered by miss macy zane 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
because he has no self-respect and doesn't respect you, either.
2007-11-26 01:58:37 · answer #10 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋