Family & Relationships - 25 November 2007

my brother is 13 years old he dosnt listen to hes mom or dad and older brother his older brother trys to act like hes dad because he sees hid dad dont do anything about his attitud and he wants to do what ever he wants for example he needs shoes my mom buys them and befor she buys the shoes she tells hem to take the ear gagues off he does it but afther he has the shoes he puts them back on what do you people re comend we should do???? hes also failing most of his classes

2007-11-25 18:55:38 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

If so, why? Describe and explain.

This question is only meant for whites, native citizens of Western nations.

2007-11-25 18:53:57 · 6 answers · asked by Binary Ostracism 1 in Singles & Dating

I feel stupid typing this, but...
There's this guy I know. When I'm with him he's usually really flirty and playful. He playfights with me and leans on me and holds my hand. And he's never like that around other girls (says his bestfriend). But then when I'm talking to him on aim or something he usually says stupid things and blocks me for no reason. And I honestly mean no reason.
He tells his friends I'm 'boring' and 'annoying' but even the ones I've just met tell him he's lying and that they can tell he HELLA likes me.
But it's so stupid, and he's so bipolar.
Is this normal? Am I missing something?

2007-11-25 18:53:10 · 4 answers · asked by adilicious 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-25 18:51:24 · 10 answers · asked by 043&counting 1 in Singles & Dating

If the person you were dating refused to live with you due to your adult children living at home would you leave them? or would push your ADULT children to grow up and move out and starting taking care of themselves, so you can go on with your life?

2007-11-25 18:50:46 · 12 answers · asked by mouse 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Please tell me there is someone else out there like me.

2007-11-25 18:50:14 · 10 answers · asked by Nyko 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-11-25 18:49:06 · 32 answers · asked by busy thinking! 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-25 18:47:50 · 9 answers · asked by blehblah6 1 in Singles & Dating

Before you begin reading this, I should warn you; I am only a fourteen year old, I'm trying to gather some information. I apologize in advance if this upsets you in anyway.

So I have this friend, right? He's nineteen, a sophomore, and in a kind of a bad place right now. And no, not the kind of place you probably think. Like, an actual bad place. I saw his 'house' for the first time today; These last few days have been cold and drafty, with scattered rain. His house has windows with no glass. The front doors are sliding glass. There aren't any interior doors, just sheets in the doorway. The floors are bare, a large puddle of rain water leaks from the ceiling.

Being nineteen, people would think he should just move out, but he doesn't have anywhere to go. He's still in school as I mentioned before. My first priority is getting him out of that place. He's currently living with his mother, but from what I understand she's kicking him out within the next two-three days.

Help? Any?

2007-11-25 18:43:10 · 7 answers · asked by Torn and Frayed Pages 1 in Friends

2007-11-25 18:41:43 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

o....my best guy friend was head over heels for me for 1 and a half years or something. But i liked this other guy and eventually we started going out. my bff always told me about how he hated the fact that i was with this other guy. he and i always have had this weird bond and were always close. i stuck with my bf. we are still going out. but now, my bff has a girlfriend and they are perfect for each other. it drives me crazy and i dont know why. did i make the wrong choice? can i fix it? i am usually happy with my boyfriend... but sometimes...idk. everyone had always assumed that my BFF and i were gonna start going out...i always thought so too. but something pushed me away. we were always so close. until we both found a boyfriend/girlfriend.

2007-11-25 18:36:56 · 11 answers · asked by lizzy loves life. 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-25 18:36:54 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-25 18:36:05 · 10 answers · asked by another nickname 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

It is fair for guy to lead girl on knowing he'll never persue further than online conversations because his lack of trust for woman? Calling them backstabbers and such yet still talks to me? I don't find this fair at all and am very angry at him? Yes i am. Especially since he's been married before and trusted "a woman"; and then calling me his true love and can't even get a date and treated poorly and less than might as well say like dirt and i'm suppose to stick around. Help me to get out?

2007-11-25 18:33:56 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-25 18:29:58 · 21 answers · asked by thatguy 1 in Singles & Dating

How many of you want to roll over and hurl when you see a black male with some fat, unattractive white women?. Why do they continue to degrade themselves like that? I am a black guy to. Why do blacks even remotely consider hooking up with whites? Why? Status symbol?Its not natural at all.

2007-11-25 18:25:43 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

His friends always like, jostle him and go all 'oooh' when im around him, and he always gets mad and tells him to shut up. He knows I like him, but hes really shy and nerdy and hes like, my best guy friend. We have awesome chemistry, but do you think he likes me, or his friends are just humoring me? >_< He looks me in the eye alot and sometimes blushes and looks down when his friends tease him.

2007-11-25 18:24:41 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Im an egoistic person who has suceded always in work.But personal relationships 've always brought me down.Until now,I've not had a single personal relationship fulfililng.Although all my work relationships with colleagues,bosses,vendors,clients,etc have been very successful and I have earned a lot of respectfrom everyone.But somehow,my personal relationships have always failed.Itsonly that my family gives me lot of love and they like me as the person I m.They believe i m cheerful,get-along types,good sense of humor,optimistic.
So, why have i failed repeatedly in love?Even now,I m married.But I m on d verge of geting a divorce.The reason I feel is coz I may be too egoistic/proud/arrogant person to my hubby who is less successful in life and could not meet my personal expectations.We dont have kids.Ours was an arranged maraige.I am expected to spend my life without complaining.How do I do that?The only way out is that I focus 200% on my career without expecting a lovel life. Is it?

2007-11-25 18:22:31 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

First off, I'm 17, in my junior year of high school, and I know right now it shouldn't matter yet, but I was just wondering how I can overcome this.
Every once in a while I will start to like a girl a lot, but later on if I find out she is rich, I have trouble asking her out. I am middle class, and not really close to the poorer or richer side. What is it that makes me so hesitant to try asking out these girls and what can I do to fix this problem?

2007-11-25 18:22:00 · 15 answers · asked by +/- 2 in Singles & Dating

Right now... this second... what would make u happy? I sooooo know what would make me happy but he's soooooo not doing it for me!! WTF

2007-11-25 18:21:28 · 18 answers · asked by NONAME 4 in Marriage & Divorce

When i was younger my dad used to drink alot and he used to lie to my mum and me about how much money he spent or if he gamled or not and stuff, and he also used to break promises to me... although hes changed now... do you think growing up with that for a while is the reason why i find it hard to trust guys??

2007-11-25 18:19:10 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-11-25 18:18:37 · 22 answers · asked by Bad Boy 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok this is going to sound bad. I chase and chase this guy and when he gives me something in return I don't want it..And some would call it that whole you want what you can't have till you have it.which may be true ..but theres more...He only really looks good when I am drunk.other than that I always see flaws in him.I hate his laugh but I'll look at him and tell him I love it..I tell him I love having sex but truth be known its the worst ever! He's to over weight but I tell him he carries it good.I know what a man wants to hear and I tell it to him perfectly.. I even started going for the sae NFL team as him. All comes down to this..he is scared to be with me because he says he doesn't want to mess anything up with us...I think I f-ed myself on this one. Its like I just want him to say I love you ..so I can in return say thank god f- you dude and F all the crap I had to deal with and how he's not worth it....i was inlove with him but he destroyed my heart..no I want to hurt him back!

2007-11-25 18:18:18 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

ok so heres my story. Me and my bf of 5years have been apart for about 1month 1/2 i guess.. we were planning on being engaged and moving into together,, we were really close and had alot of memories behind us. Well, anyways he ended up cheating on me and when i found out he went crazy and freaked out when i left him. He begged and cried and told me i was the only person he could ever love and he was going to wait forever for me to forgive him because he wanted me in his life forever, well ....... when i decided to give him another chance, which was like that next week... he was already seeing someone else. Ever since they have been together, he has been totally over me. Didnt even bother to sat happy thanksgiving after weve spent the last 5 together. Him and his new girl are moving really fast, She already met his parents. whats going on here? how can a man be so cold hearted. I dont want him back i just want to know how a person can be so cruel?

2007-11-25 18:16:17 · 28 answers · asked by brittknee08 1 in Singles & Dating

My sister got married to her husband like 3 years ago. He treated her like a queen for like a year and all of a sudden a nightmare. He beats her...laughs at the law...in and out of jail and the beatings get worse if she tries to leave. One time she left and he beat up my mom and my sister for hiding her and finally she came out of hiding and left with him to protect her family. He even beat up his own mother. I'm afraid for my sister..I know she will die if she does not get out. He threatens that if she leaves...he will hurt someone from our family and eventually he'll get out and she will get it bad...I feel so bad for her!! A retraining order, a peice of paper will not protect her. He tells us...I know where you all live. :0(

2007-11-25 18:11:54 · 22 answers · asked by Baby 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I bet it would be pretty lame going on a date and not being able to give her a ride home. Ugh, this stinks not having a permit just yet. Curse my mother dearest for not allowing te birds leaving the nest...

2007-11-25 18:10:09 · 13 answers · asked by eddie_spaghetti1357 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a baby boy. Our differences have always existed. My husband is totally irresponsible and lacks sensitivity. I on the other hand took pride in my superwomen capability. However, of late I have been having health problems and my expectations from my husband have increased. I know the easiest thing to do is change myself. However, everything my husband does is becoming a problem. I do not want my son to have such an example in front of him. Can someone suggest what I need to do? The problems are affecting my sanity.

2007-11-25 18:06:55 · 17 answers · asked by babasbhakta 3 in Marriage & Divorce

my friend is pregnant and only 16! she had sex with a condom but it didnt work for some strange reason and to top it off the guy was just lookin for a one night stand. she wants to have an abortion but im not sure any suggestions??

2007-11-25 18:06:35 · 5 answers · asked by Yaalan G 1 in Friends

Me and this guy started seeing each other and we both really liked each other. Then he decided he wanted to slow things down b/c we were moving so fast. He wanted to get to know each other better. Which was fine with me. He would still talk to me on i.m. every couple of days or so, but not at all as much as before. And he knew I wanted to see him sometime in the next couple of days. (We haven't seen each other in two weeks). but I haven't heard from him in a couple of days. so i sent him a message just asking him to be straight up with me. either he wants to get to know each other or he doesn't. he told me that he's been too busy and i expect too much of him. which i don't see how he thinks that if we haven't seen each other in two weeks and i almost always wait for him to make contact first. so i give him the opportunity to just be straight up with me and he says he's just busy. what do you think?

2007-11-25 18:04:06 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If a person is married but find themselves attracted to another person, and have flings with another other than their spouse, but they still love their spouse dearly, do you think it is wrong or just human nature

2007-11-25 17:59:01 · 21 answers · asked by ? 3 in Marriage & Divorce