o....my best guy friend was head over heels for me for 1 and a half years or something. But i liked this other guy and eventually we started going out. my bff always told me about how he hated the fact that i was with this other guy. he and i always have had this weird bond and were always close. i stuck with my bf. we are still going out. but now, my bff has a girlfriend and they are perfect for each other. it drives me crazy and i dont know why. did i make the wrong choice? can i fix it? i am usually happy with my boyfriend... but sometimes...idk. everyone had always assumed that my BFF and i were gonna start going out...i always thought so too. but something pushed me away. we were always so close. until we both found a boyfriend/girlfriend.
2007-11-25 18:36:56 · 11 answers · asked by lizzy loves life. 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You want yourself to be happy and not him, which also happens when he's unhappy. Yes, sounds a little like jealousy. Actually worse. Also sounds like an episode of The Office.
Don't stress it. Stay with your bf if you're happy. Friendship and those kind of relationships can be very different . You don't know how it'd be with the friend, it could be worse, he could be completely different, and that could completely ruin the friendship that was there. You could be sacrificing two relationships in the process.
But I can't just pass judgment like this, without knowing more information. Was he really a good friend before? You sure he wasn't just trying to get in your pants, and that's why this close bond was created? You might know if he starts to ignore you now.
Either way, I doubt either of you will be in these relationships for the rest of your lives, so just do what makes you happy, relax, and enjoy life.
2007-11-25 18:45:20 · answer #1 · answered by Palehose 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Realize that what is meant to be will be. Questions like this are hard to answer. I've always found that when the ship passes it seldom comes back except in friendship.
Rent or buy "My Best Friend's wedding", it cured me of a yo-yo relationship with a dear friend. We are still friends and He is also friends with my husband.
Things could always go a different way but in my personal experience it rarely does but God Bless and good luck.
2007-11-25 18:42:15 · answer #2 · answered by Creole38 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound a little jealous, especially if you have a boyfriend and his girlfriend and his relationship is driving you crazy. You could end up together, theoretically. You've got the rest of your life. Unless he's about to marry this girl, then it's possible that they could break it off someday and you and him could be together. However, being with your boyfriend if you have feelings for your bestfriend isn't fair to you or him.
2007-11-25 18:41:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That eventually happens. I think your jealous but in a nice sort of way, I really don't know another way to word it. You're jealous because you have feeling for him and he's seeing someone else. I can't blame you there. As far as making a mistake I don't think you did, as long as you still have your friendship at the end of the day that's all the truly matters.
2007-11-25 18:41:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you and your bff have moved on but consider this do yu luv yur bff more than yur bf? if yu do then yu should tell yur bff how yu feel even if he has a gf. if he still has feelings for yu then at least hell no how yu feel too n itll go on from there. if yu n yur bff r meant 2 b yull find each otha.
2007-11-25 18:42:03 · answer #5 · answered by treitl33 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, get a grip. You say you're happy with your boyfriend. That should be enough. Never mind what other people think about the whole thing. It's really none of their business.
2007-11-25 18:40:51 · answer #6 · answered by Richard B 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i honestly think talk to him about it ask him do you think if i would have never gotten and boyfriend visa versa that we could have been something .. i personally think you could be together. you obviously like this guy enough to get jealous of his other girl friends dont get jealous friends are more than likely to be completely fine with there friend having another girl. so talk to him ask him and your jealous cuz you might like this guy alot.
2007-11-25 18:42:56 · answer #7 · answered by pinkpolka66 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your just mad bc this dude finally got himself a gf. when you had a bf and he was alone it made you feel superior. now that he has a life without you, you are now nothing special to the dude. that's life, learn to live with it.
2007-11-25 18:41:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ask yourself one question
if he and the girl were to break up and he gave all his attention back to you would u still feel this way?
2007-11-25 18:44:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's meant to happen does
2007-11-25 18:39:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋