Me and this guy started seeing each other and we both really liked each other. Then he decided he wanted to slow things down b/c we were moving so fast. He wanted to get to know each other better. Which was fine with me. He would still talk to me on i.m. every couple of days or so, but not at all as much as before. And he knew I wanted to see him sometime in the next couple of days. (We haven't seen each other in two weeks). but I haven't heard from him in a couple of days. so i sent him a message just asking him to be straight up with me. either he wants to get to know each other or he doesn't. he told me that he's been too busy and i expect too much of him. which i don't see how he thinks that if we haven't seen each other in two weeks and i almost always wait for him to make contact first. so i give him the opportunity to just be straight up with me and he says he's just busy. what do you think?
2007-11-25 18:04:06 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
did he get a 2nd job or another girlfriend?? Think about it. Sounds like he just doesn't have tha.. I mean he's not man enough to care about your feelings and give you closure. take the hook out and throw the little guy back in the pond to mature
2007-11-25 18:12:32 · answer #1 · answered by DR. Plumb 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its hard to know what he's thinking without knowing you both but from what you've said I think that you deserve much better treatment than this. I think it sounds like he's too much of a coward to be straight up and let you know if he is interested or not but treating you how he is, saying that your expecting too much of him is unfair. I would try to forget him if I were you, look after yourself, go and do something fun with your friends and move on to someone who will treat with kindness, caring and respect.
2007-11-26 02:11:34 · answer #2 · answered by Lucy lou 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Busy = he is just not that into you
how busy can he be to see a beautiful girl?
next time you can ask him what he is doing
Otherwise just forget the guy!
2007-11-26 02:09:57 · answer #3 · answered by Glamourous_Girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have the 2 of you been sexual? If so then he got what he wanted and hes just blowing you off cause he doesnt have balls to tell you like a man. Either way it sounds like hes pushing you away.
2007-11-26 02:08:08 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dudes are always playing the field. If you aren't fulfilling this weeks criteria, he's still looking around. Is he flirty? If he is it's probably not only with you. Good luck!
2007-11-26 02:09:21 · answer #5 · answered by Schplakken 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
. the good chances are always hidden in this kind of situation.
but at least we know tat he has no bad intention 4 u.rite?
2007-11-26 02:15:01 · answer #6 · answered by Ran C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He isn't into you so leave him alone. Don't waste your time.
2007-11-26 02:09:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's blowing you off honey
2007-11-26 02:07:23 · answer #8 · answered by Leizl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HE'S NOT THAT INTO YOU!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-11-26 02:06:55 · answer #9 · answered by dallas 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋