Why do most men lie and cheat on their women?

Answer 1

I don't think most men are like that

Answer 2

I think that's a bit harsh, With regard to lying you'll probably find women lie to men just as much except each has a way or justifying why they are doing it to themselves. Thinking that the lie they tell is insignificant but the one the other tells is the greatest travesty on earth. With regard to cheating most is quite a strong statement yes some do and some do it multiple times. If you find that several of your partners have cheated on you its most probably because you are still going after the same sort of men rather than all men are like that.

Answer 3

the men that lie and cheat think that there is something better out there,in reality what they r looking 4 isnt really what it seems.everytime they cheat its about sex,then after they have sex they realize that the girl they cheated on u with wants the same thing that u do.most men cannot understand thier own feelings and y they do what they do.it takes them a few tries and mistakes 4 them 2 understand that sleeping around did not change anything,.some men still havnt grown up.somtime what men r looking 4 is right infront of them. men that know they have a good thing dont need to cheat.all that cheating they do doesnt really do anything 4 them and thats what men needs to realize,some eventually understand that and some dont and it takes a while 4 others 2 realize this

Answer 4

Firstly.. some guy already said... not all men cheat

Secondly .. like some other guy already said.. a lot of women cheat too!!

that being all cleared out.. now for the wisdom of the ages.. its the best ego massage a guy/girl can get. to know that someone else wants u.. or rather... to know that u can GET someone else!

DISCLAIMER : This explanation is only with regard to the ones who cheat just for fun.. no relevance to relationships which are breaking down, and one partner begins to look for emotional support elsewhere... u know where to reach me, if u need advice on that front :)

For all practical purposes, it defies common and basic logic.. why the heck wud ANYONE want to screw around when u got somethin great back home??? unfortunately, to the roving eye, variety is the spice of life... and in most cases its the hunt that excites them... they just dont realize that eventually they're the ones hooked and reeled in so deep, there just aint no way to get out!!

Sad but true... and the circle of life continues to revolve.. round and round and round................

Answer 5

...men usually don't have to do much to get women, besides act like a jerk. You know what they say, "Nice guys finish last." If women keep settling for this type of guy, they will never change, and part of their act is infidelity. They take things for granted.

Not all men cheat. I stuck with this girl I was involved with through all sorts of hell. I even knew she was getting with guys every night, but I still stuck with her. I considered it at least thoughtful that she would at least try to hide it all by lying to me about it, but eventually she left me anyway. I have bittersweet memories about her. One moment I'm confounded by how wild and on-the-move she always is, and the next I'm daydreaming about the time I spent with her and the first weeks into it, when I actually thought she cared about me.

Women cheat, too!

Answer 6

I don't agree with your question; many men are faithful as are many women - and the ones who do cheat get the attention because most people don't complain about a partner being faithful to them.

Answer 7

women cheat too...ive never cheated..but ive been cheated on. And its hard for women to believe that im so faithful because of their past..they end up calling after the breakup saying..they never had a man love them like that etc etc..but its too late...its attitudes like that that make women miss out on alot of good men.

Answer 8

This is harsh and I mean it to be harsh. But this is not to be cruel: The lying and cheating men in your life have you in common.

Men usually don't cheat without a reason. I've cheated on women and I've been faithful to women. The ones I've cheated on have been women I'm not happy with. I've felt, for different reasons, anger towards the women I've cheated on. Example: woman I dated in 2004. She was nothing but black clouds, I tried to break up with her and she'd turn it all around by saying I was a failure if I gave up on the relationship (she knew I was sensitive to failure), etc, etc. She was horrible, actually. Well, I cheated on her and felt justified in doing so. I cheated on her b/c she pissed me off. It felt good to cheat on her. I broke up with her after 3 months of cheating on her. I was exhausted.

But then there are the many women I have not cheated on. They've been the kind of girl I actually liked. They didn't make me angry, dislkike them, nothing like that. If I felt the urge to date others, I would break up with these girls because I thought they deserved the truth.

I didn't cheat for no reason. I cheated b/c I was angry at the woman I cheated on. Maybe I should have simply broken up, but the betrayel of her trust was too sweet to pass up. Even if it was only me that knew. Sick? Maybe. But that's why I will cheat.

Answer 9

I dont think men have a monopoly on lying and cheating...there are quite a few women out there who do the same.

Answer 10

that is not true at all....I know you're frustrated, but don't try that with me...women are just as guilty as men, it's 50-50, right down the middle. My ex cheated, I never do. ever.

I have known countless women who cheated (I even unknowingly had sex with a couple of married women--believe me, they lied like you wouldn't believe).

Answer 11

i dont' think it's "most men" who lie and cheat on their women.

some women have an uncanny ability to pick out the bad boys and losers of the world....